text/Hua Yaoguan
How difficult is women’s thoughts? I believe that the male compatriots must have a deep understanding.
Maybe the two of them were having a good chat at first, but the next second she turned against each other.
You are confused about the other party's behavior, but you have no idea what is going on.
In fact, every word about women has a hidden meaning. If you can't understand, they will sulk on their own.
Maybe fellow men think, "Isn't it good if you say it?"
But many times women want men to experience it themselves, and if she says it herself, it will be boring.
This is actually testing how well you know her.
To be honest, it is not difficult to guess a woman’s thoughts, especially because she misses you, the “signal” is very obvious.
First: Ask the status
"Are you there?" "What are you doing?" Inquiry statements like this seem ordinary, but in fact they also have deep meanings in it.
A girl takes the initiative to ask about your status and wants to know you, she must have ideas.
After all, there is a saying: "If you don't have anything to do, you won't go to the Three Treasures Hall."
No matter what you do, it must have a purpose in it. If it is between a man and a woman, then she is most likely missing you.
A woman usually won’t take the initiative to chat unless it’s a special situation.
They will quietly wait for your news and make corresponding replies.
If the other party takes the initiative to ask about your status, then she must have missed you to the extreme.
If you fail to calm her emotions at this time, she will be very angry and feel that you don’t care about her.
After all, your perfunctory makes her feel that this initiative is so cheap.
Second: Take the initiative to invite
Girls generally do not take the initiative to invite them. If they take the initiative to invite them, they should want to have further development with you.
Someone did a test. If two people are willing to go out alone, it means that the success rate of two people is very high.
And eating is the easiest place to produce feelings, and eating and chatting, the atmosphere is full of energy.
The most important thing is that in general, treating people to have dinner is the best way to get out and it is also the best time to meet.
After the two meet, you can discuss what you want to do together.
Invitation is a ladder to relationship progress and a good way to relieve longing.
In "My First Half of Life", He Han In order to meet Luo Zijun , he did not hesitate to delay his work and went to the city where the other party went on a business trip. Although the two did not say too much, the longing between the lines was extremely obvious.
Third: Share daily
"Today's sunset is so beautiful."
"I had a delicious hot pot today, and I will take you to eat next time."
"I slept today and it was dark when I woke up."
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and so on sharing daily till they were actually signals of missing.
When a woman thinks of you, she will not say it directly, but will express it through some dispensable daily words.
If you receive these words, don’t think she is talking nonsense, she is just expressing her longing.
At this time, you can reply to her so that her little thoughts will not be in vain.
If you miss her, you can even directly show her that the man’s initiative is always romantic.
Women will never reject men's warm response.
Fourth: Temptingly knocking
If she is an introverted girl, she will definitely not say "I miss you" to you directly, but will choose to temptly knocking.
She will hope you will take the initiative to invite her to meet, or hope you will take the initiative to chat with her.
She may post a picture or copy in your circle of friends that interest you, or she may use some irrelevant things to whet your appetite.
or even, she may wait and reply to you after you reply to her, so that this topic can continue for a longer time.
This is actually a love skill. It’s like there is no topic in the lover, so reply slowly so that you can continue to talk about the topic.
Many women actually beat them tactfully. Men nowadays are also very smart. If they have no intention of women, they will naturally refuse them politely. At this time, women still have a way out, and the two of them will not be so embarrassed.
Zhu Guangqian once said: "Love is beautiful in silence. Love can only be understood by understanding, and it cannot be explained by words."
There is no girl who doesn't want men to understand themselves better. If women do the above behavior, they are most likely missing you.
If you miss the other person too, don’t throw the other person aside.
Things between men and women are complicated, but also simple.
As long as you feel it with your heart and understand it with your heart, you will naturally understand what the other person means.
Don’t think this is a troublesome thing. When you meet a woman you truly love, you will do it willingly.
So, don’t ignore every sentence of a girl, think about those "signals".
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