Speaking of marriage, when you are single, everyone often has infinite imagination and yearning.
Until one day I got married with someone, no matter whether the person I married, was the person I really like, or just found a more suitable person, deep down, I often have full expectations and hope that I can live a happy life.
From now on, I hope that each other can treat each other sincerely, work together to run this home, and make life better and better.
The idea is always beautiful, but the reality never seems to be that satisfactory.
Many people don’t really have a good life after getting married, which is much worse than when they were single.
What marriage brings to you is only painful and discomfort compared to happiness and happiness.
Not only that, the two people's condition is also particularly wrong, and their relationship also makes people feel quite terrible.
rejects calculations and does not treat them as a family.
After getting married, the couple has actually become a whole.
After that, property will become common and have certain obligations and responsibilities to each other.
Since this is the case, in each other's eyes, the people who should be closest to each other is to take good care of each other and protect each other. However, in too many marriages, although they live under the same roof, many people have never really regarded each other as their own.
won’t care much about the other party, it will only keep taking care of its own interests and always tend toward its own family. When there is a conflict between
, you will instinctively ignore the other party and only think about yourself. You will only stand at your own home, suppress your other half in various ways, and make your other half bow to yourself and your family.
Anyway, no matter how long I have been together, I will never feel any sense of belonging. I just always feel like an outsider, I have never been really accepted, nor have I ever been integrated into the other person's life and world.
There is obviously someone around you, but it seems that there is no one. Instead, it is just more lonely than when I was before.
Many moods can only be digested by yourself, and many things can only be faced by yourself. I often feel very wronged, but no matter how wrong I am, no matter how much I accuse me, I can't get the other party's mercy. The other party will only think that it is unreasonable.
dislikes each other and always likes to pick on all kinds of tricks.
A good marriage will always give a person a good healing, allowing a person to be better nourished, become more confident, and become more secure.
Everyone yearns for such a feeling, but many people’s marriages are not like this.
doesn't know how to accept the other person, encourage the other person, and love the other person's original appearance. Instead, they often think that the other person is not good, they are picky in their words, and look down on them in their eyes.
They don’t look like partners at all, but rather like their bad reviewers. No one wants to say less, and no one wants to admit defeat, for fear that they will be at a disadvantage when getting along with each other and seem useless.
is obviously the closest person, but he often quarrels like an enemy and says that the other party is not.
rarely reflects on himself, but only feels that everything is the other party’s problem. The atmosphere of the whole family is particularly bad, there is no warm atmosphere at all, and there is only tense and lifeless.
Basically, neither of them can say a few words calmly. As soon as they open their mouths, they will only make each other uncomfortable and they will not want to say anything else. They just want to choose to shut up.
can't count on the other party at all. If the other party doesn't cause trouble for you and don't make your situation worse, you are very grateful, thankfully, and I am already very content.
is very bad now and cannot see the future.
The most important thing in life is to live a good life now and have more expectations for the future.
A good marriage will indeed give people this feeling, and everything at the moment is so beautiful and liked, and the days ahead are so worth looking forward to, making me feel full of hope.
Anyway, as long as you are with each other, you will not be afraid of anything and believe in each other's future.
bad relationships. Every morning, I feel very distressed when I open my eyes. I don’t want to see each other at all. I don’t want to be with each other. There is no warmth between them at all, and I just torture each other.
Not only are the years now very bad, but more importantly, I also have a feeling that the future will not be good either.
That person, this marriage really did not bring any power to him. Instead, he could only consume his love for life and his expectations for the future.
is very dissatisfied with living like this. This is the case between each other, but at the same time, I seem to be helpless and have no ability to make changes, make them get better and become what they want. At first, I struggled for a while, but later I gradually got used to it and began to give up. I no longer want to say anything, nor do I want to make useless efforts. I just lived like that day. I don’t know when such a life will be.
The most terrifying thing in marriage is that you have met such a person and have such a relationship, but the other party has not allowed you to get what you want. Instead, you just wipe out all the beauty in your heart.
Not only did the other party not become their safe haven, but all the storms were brought to them by the other party.
often doubts the meaning of this relationship, and often feels that everything is so unworthy.
wants to change, but he is unable to do it at all.
always feels that giving up is better, but because of all kinds of ties, there is no way to do this, but I am still sticking to it.
won’t get divorced like that, and it’s not good at all, it’s just a pain. Times like
seem to be able to see the end all at once. Many times, I always want time to pass faster.
text/Tan Meng
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Anyway, as long as you are with each other, you will not be afraid of anything and believe in each other's future.
bad relationships. Every morning, I feel very distressed when I open my eyes. I don’t want to see each other at all. I don’t want to be with each other. There is no warmth between them at all, and I just torture each other.
Not only are the years now very bad, but more importantly, I also have a feeling that the future will not be good either.
That person, this marriage really did not bring any power to him. Instead, he could only consume his love for life and his expectations for the future.
is very dissatisfied with living like this. This is the case between each other, but at the same time, I seem to be helpless and have no ability to make changes, make them get better and become what they want. At first, I struggled for a while, but later I gradually got used to it and began to give up. I no longer want to say anything, nor do I want to make useless efforts. I just lived like that day. I don’t know when such a life will be.
The most terrifying thing in marriage is that you have met such a person and have such a relationship, but the other party has not allowed you to get what you want. Instead, you just wipe out all the beauty in your heart.
Not only did the other party not become their safe haven, but all the storms were brought to them by the other party.
often doubts the meaning of this relationship, and often feels that everything is so unworthy.
wants to change, but he is unable to do it at all.
always feels that giving up is better, but because of all kinds of ties, there is no way to do this, but I am still sticking to it.
won’t get divorced like that, and it’s not good at all, it’s just a pain. Times like
seem to be able to see the end all at once. Many times, I always want time to pass faster.
text/Tan Meng
pictures/network
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