In fact, according to the past, many men work outside, their wives take care of their children at home, and then men send the money from their work home as living expenses, and they only go home once a year during the Chinese New Year. This situation is everywhere. Some people say how about you miss your wife so much? In today's environment, if you want your wife, you can call and chat with videos and phone calls to relieve the pain of lovesickness. I usually see some of the workers in rental houses, opening video chats, chatting for an hour or two at night, which is possible. In fact, I think this situation is pretty good, just talk about it if you have something to do, and if you have something new, everyone can communicate and chat. Even this situation is much better than many couples playing with their phones back to back at home, right?
So, the second solution is also what everyone often sees, that is, every winter and summer vacation, my wife will take her children to the man’s construction site to visit. I also saw many brothers from other places nearby. They usually stay at their own homes. During the summer vacation, the wife would bring his children to the man's side, which is also a solution. In fact, this is OK. In fact, it means that the old couple doesn’t have to meet every day. They just need to chat on the phone. Now they also chat with videos and meet at the summer vacation. The winter vacation happens to be the New Year, and the men also go home. This way, there will be several months without any wind in a year.
There is also a third method, which is some new solutions. This is often seen on construction sites now, and the two parents-in-law work together on the construction site. This man can do some work that requires more physical strength, while the woman can do some work that requires less physical strength such as tying steel bars. Or some women can do the kitchen work and logistics support work, in short, two people work on the same construction site. This situation has solved the problem of couples from different places well, but in fact, there is one problem that has not been solved, that is, the two of them solved the problem of couples from different places, but the child has no way to keep it by his side and becomes a left-behind child. This is another problem.
At present, no matter which solution is above, there is always no way to perfectly solve the solution for couples to be separated from each other and children around them. The best situation is that the brothers make more money, and then return to their hometown, and reunite with their family and live a peaceful and stable life. I think it is the best.