There is a saying:
"The essence of a love relationship is the relationship between an adult man and an adult woman, a relationship of mutual acceptance and mutual contribution."
is indeed the case.
Love someone, while willing to give love, you will also want to get some love feedback. And the deeper you love, the stronger this desire to give and be loved will be.
In life, if a man really loves you, he will definitely not be able to control himself asking you for three things, without exception.
accompanying
In "Missing", Zhang Xiaoxian once wrote this way:
"Love is the endless longing for each other, the concern that can never be let go, and the willing ties."
Never think that a man never takes the initiative to look for you and never asks you to see him because he wants to give you space.
After all, if you really love someone, in the heart-wrenching lovesickness, no man can restrain the urge to see you.
He never asks you to accompany him, it is very likely that it is just because he doesn't love you.
I once saw a story online:
There was a couple in love, and the two lived very close to each other, but during a month together, I only met once, and the meeting was made by the girl.
For this situation, someone asked the girl:
"Has he never asked you out on his own initiative?"
The girl replied:
"Maybe he understood that it was harder for me, after all, I was a little busy during that time."
To be honest, I believe she couldn't even convince herself about the girl's answer. At the end of the story, the two of them still didn't go on.
remembered : Mr. Shi Tiesheng :
"It's getting late, but I don't want to leave you for a moment, and I don't want to leave you for a moment, but it's getting late after all."
How can true love behave like a stranger?
The temperature of love must be hot, and the action of love must be urgent. As long as he has time, he will want to stick with you.
Because, for men who are trapped in love, they will want to participate in every moment of you and cherish every minute of being with you.
Care for
Once saw this sentence in "Strawberry Life":
"I like rational people, but in front of people I like, I want to have the right to act spoiled."
Perhaps when it comes to "acting spoiled", many people always think it is a privilege of women, how can a big man act spoiled?
But in fact, love has nothing to do with men and women.
As long as you really fall in love with it, you will always desire to be taken care of by your beloved. Because this will make us feel the most heartwarming and obsessed with happiness.
My friend Daxin is tall, has a rough personality, and is careless. He is a typical tough guy image.
For such a man, can you imagine that he will act spoiled in front of a woman?
I remember working overtime with him once. At that time, I worked overtime until after nine o'clock in the evening, and I became more irritable.
At this time, his girlfriend called.
The moment he received the call, not only did he speak instantly become gentle, but he also had a coquettish smell of asking for comfort or even hugs in his words.
When his girlfriend said that she would definitely give him some delicious food the next day, he hung up the phone with satisfaction.
The deeper love you love, the more urgent you want to be loved.
is like Wang Xiaobo in his letter to Li Yinhe :
"Tell you, I am now jealous of other people's love. When I see others rushing to go home to find someone, or when I see others being together, I feel unhappy, as if I have been abandoned. So, I am so lonely."
If a man really loves you, then he will definitely want to get your care.
Because being loved and cared for by the person you like will make him extremely satisfied.
specialized
Writer Schiller once said:
"Real love is dedicated, the field of love is very narrow, it is so narrow that it can only accommodate the survival of two people."
Falling in love with someone will become extremely cautious. While giving all the sincerity to a person, we also hope to get all the sincerity of the other person.
TV series " Parents' Love ", there is a plot where An Jie arranges a blind date for his eldest daughter Jiang Yafei. The blind date is a young man who has become a regiment-level cadre at a young age.
But Jiang Yafei didn't like him. In this way, An Jie pulled Jiang Defu and his daughter Jiang Yafei to do ideological work, saying that he was a good match and could help her in her career.
Originally, Jiang Defu was standing in the same camp with An Jie, and Jiang Yafei said, "You married my dad before, did you also like his position?" He made Jiang Defu shut up completely.
And after his daughter left, Jiang Defu's speech became very sour, it was obvious that he was a little unhappy because of his daughter's words.
In fact, this is the most real way to love someone.
In love, no one can be generous, especially when you fall in love with someone unforgettably.
So, if a man doesn’t care about you and other opposite sex at all, it’s not because he is generous but just because he doesn’t love him enough.
The man who truly loves you must want to monopolize all your sincerity, and may even become extremely stingy because of this.
Love, never just paying without reward.
After all, we love someone, and ultimately, we can only make ourselves happy if we are loved by the loved ones.
more than a lifetime, if a man would ask you for the above three things, then you must understand that he is not trying to take advantage of you, but just because he loves you, and he can't help himself.
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Author: Li Yu Weiliang, a post-90s writer who can be rational and emotional, likes to express personal opinions in words, bringing you spiritual healing, emotional resolving, and life insights.
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