domestic violence is difficult to identify because it is very good at disguising.
He is just bad to his partner, and he pays great attention to establishing a public image to the outside world, which will make everyone feel that this is a kind and friendly person. Of course, it also enhances my inner beauty, so as to convince myself and brainwash myself. I am obviously a good person. Just like some people go to church to pray while doing evil things. Indeed, many "violent perpetrators" have smooth work, are healthy, and have very good interpersonal relationships; what is ridiculous is that these people can also do charity and love.
often people will not believe that the person in front of him is a demon who can do domestic violence, and often puts all the blame on the "abuseee"; in the eyes of the people around him, he is definitely a kind and gentle person image; on the other hand, a madman who has been suffering from long-term abuse and has been constantly accumulating negative emotions and will stand on the side of the "domestic violence" more decisively and resolutely, believing that all this is caused by the "victim", and even assists the "domestic violence" to accuse his partner of the wrong one. Of course, this is exactly what the "domestic violence victims" think.
"Domestic Violents" will flatly deny that no one has seen anyway.
" domestic violence " will minimize the damage. It is obvious that he hit his partner with his fist, but if he has to admit it, it will be said that he is just pushing two moves.
"Domestic Violents" will turn black and white. The evil person complains first, and it is the partner who attacks and insults him first, and then he can't control his anger and takes action to defend himself.
"Domestic Violents" will change their faces instantly. When the police arrived just now, they calmed down immediately and communicated with the police with a peaceful expression.
So, how to identify these people?
When you let the "domestic violence" talk about your views on your partner. Usually, the fox's tail is exposed, and they often talk about their spouse with a contemptuous tone, making the other person useless and ridiculous; this sends a strong signal that only one is the owner of the truth and only one is the absolute authority.
If he were asked to talk about what would be a normal relationship between husband and wife? He also shows contempt and humiliation in his every move, and these characteristics are usually cleverly hidden, but are used in unknown private spaces to attack, insult, ridicule, belittle his partner.
From this, you can at least judge that the person in front of you is disrespectful to your partner. This is a typical characteristic of a "domestic violence person", because in his values, the partner is inferior, the partner should serve himself, and the partner cannot resist any abuse he has.
If you pretend to defend his partner for a little while, his nature will be completely opened and he will become another person. Show your attitude and tricks that are only available at home, treat you as your partner’s supporter, and use all kinds of despicable means to spread rumors and attack you. From this, you will slightly realize how good this kind-hearted and good-looking person in front of you is at the same time, with different appearances and insidiousness and despicability.
"Domestic Violent Man" is very good at disguising. When he wears formal clothes and goes out of the house, he is completely different from his family in pajamas.
"Domestic Violent Man" is ruthless and cold-blooded. He always finds excuses to believe that there is no problem in insulting, belittlement or even beating his partner.
He will convince himself again and again that his domestic violence is caused by the cause, and the reason is usually the problem of his partner himself. It is the partner who does not listen to him, the partner who does not obey him, and the partner who provokes him, so there is no problem in violence against you until he is insensitive to all these behaviors.
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