Source | Duhaoshu (duhaoshu)
Author | Carrie Sister
Writer Wang Xiaobo wrote this sentence:
When people were young, they felt that there were people everywhere, and other people's affairs were yours. After middle age, they felt that there was nothing in the world except their family.
Think about it carefully, it is indeed the case.
When I was young, I always thought that if there were too many friends, the road was easy to walk, and work was the first priority.
So, most of the time and energy are spent outside, and selectively ignore the family.
But when I reached a certain age, I gradually realized that
will lose work and friends will part with me. Only my family will stay where I am, silently guarding us.
Some netizens shared their story:
She said that for a long time, she hated her parents.
Because, they had a bad relationship when they were young, often quarreled, and even fought.
In her impression, there is no day in the family that is peaceful, and every day is filled with the sound of parents quarrels. The family atmosphere like
makes her feel no happiness, but only depression, heaviness and bitterness.
She has become sensitive, inferior, and worried about gains and losses, and this personality has brought great trouble to her work and life.
She attributed all this to the misfortune of her original family.
Therefore, he was eager to get rid of the influence of his original family, including going to college in another place, graduating and marrying from a foreign land, etc.
She thought that her parents were the burden of her happiness in life.
But some things she experienced later made her understand that her parents are the one who loves her the most. In the winter of
htmlIn 18, her husband who once loved her deeply cheated on her.The husband's family and her husband were united on the front, forcing her to sign a divorce, and moved out of the house.
She has quarreled and made a fuss, but in the end she compromised. After the divorce, she took her daughter and changed to a city life.
It was raining all night long. During that time, she found a tumor and found a job.
cry every day, from dark to dawn, from day to night.
I have had the idea of committing suicide countless times. Sometimes, I really want to leave the world with my daughter.
The parents didn't know what method they used to hear about her divorce.
First called to comfort her, but later, she realized that she was in a bad mood, so she secretly ran to see her.
Two elderly people who had never traveled far away, sat in a hard seat for more than ten hours and came to the city where she was.
accompanied her for surgery and took turns to take care of her and her daughter's diet and daily life.
Her father, a stubborn old man who is not good at speaking, learned to type on WeChat and often share some interesting news with her;
Her mother encouraged her to cheer up over and over again and not do stupid things. Her parents will always guard you and support you behind your back.
Someone said: "When everything goes to hell, and stands by your side and never retreats, you are your family."
Family members are people who will never leave us.
No matter what we have experienced or how far we have gone, looking back, they have been in place, silently guarding us.
Let us see the light in the darkness, see the power of love and being loved.
It turns out that we are not all without, we still have our family who loves us the most.
In the TV series " People in the World ", the love story between Zhou Bingkun and Zheng Juan touched countless people.
Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for an accident. Zheng Juan was sad and forced to cheer up and set up a stall to sell roasted sweet potatoes to support the whole family.
is afraid that Zhou Bingkun will be worried, so he keeps lying that he has found a job to serve the elderly.
But once, I injured my hand during the stall setting up and saw that I couldn't hide it, so I told the truth.
Zhou Bingkun felt guilty. After some ideological struggle, he made up his mind to perform well and strive to get out of prison as soon as possible.
8 years later, Zhou Bingkun walked out of the prison gate and looked at the tall buildings outside, and he was a little at a loss.
When Zheng Juan arrived at home, her words "I'm back" expressed her infinite longing for him.
After he was released from prison, he wanted to open a moving company to support himself.
In recent years, Zheng Juan has saved more than 6,000 yuan in savings, but she is still much worse than buying a car and driving a moving company.
They want to borrow money from Xiao Qiao Chunyan Cao Debao and his wife, but unfortunately, Chunyan Debao did not lend them money.
The discouraged Zhou Bingkun returned home and saw that the house was leaking, and he felt even more sad.
He sighed that people are as small as Ant, and he didn't understand why we should live?
Zheng Juan suggested having a drink with him and told her how she got through over the years.
It turned out that on the day Zhou Bingkun was sentenced, she also wanted to finish her whole life, but she couldn't worry about the child and could only hold on to live.
Whenever she is unhappy, she will want to find something happy, and she survives year after year.
She said to Zhou Bingkun:
In recent years, we have encountered many difficulties, but we have all come over it. As long as you are here, I am not afraid of any difficulties...
For Zhou Bingkun, the same is true for Zhou Bingkun, Zheng Juan is the pillar of his life and the greatest confidence in his life.
The story later was that Zhou Bingkun opened a company as he wished, lived in a new building, and worked hand in hand with Zheng Juan to complete his life.
I have heard a saying: "The greatest luck in life is to meet people who share hardships in the vast sea of people."
The key to life is to know each other, know each other in urgent need, and true love is to show in hardships.
Good couples have always been living a life-long friendship.
Wandering in the world, we will always experience all kinds of ups and downs and hardships.
And the support and sharing from our family is our weapon to overcome life, and it is also our greatest motivation and confidence to strive to live.
For us, no matter how hard life is, life is worth it with a family who treats you sincerely and loves you.
Writer Li Yueliang told a story like this:
When she was still a reporter, she interviewed a state-owned enterprise boss.
In the first half of the interview, they were talking about the boss's glorious career, so Li Yueliang asked him:
"Do you think your life is perfect?"
The boss thought about it, but gave a different answer:
When I just retired, I thought it was yes, but now I know that it is very unsatisfactory.
Because over the years, he has been busy with his career and has not taken care of his family.
Sometimes it is common to be busy and not go home for a month or two.
Although there are occasional complaints from your wife and children, they can basically understand them.
He thought his life was very successful, his career was successful, his family was happy, and his son and daughter were also there.
But when I really retreated, I realized that it was not the same thing at all.
His two children are not close to him, and his wife doesn't seem to need him much.
One day, my son came home and saw him and called him dad lightly.
Turning his head and seeing his wife, he immediately smiled and said, "Mom, I thought you were not at home."
Sometimes when the family talks about the past, it is all about the three of them.
The saddest time is that he caught a cold. When his daughter found out, she said, "I'll buy you some medicine after get off work."
A few days later, his wife also caught a cold. Her daughter's reaction was very different:
I said you can't open the window at night, but your nose is red. Come on, I'll make some ginger water for you first...
Finally, he said a meaningful thing:
In this life, men really can't be full of career and money. Sooner or later, you will return to your family.
If you don’t spend energy in your family in the first three years, waiting for you to want the warmth of your home and the company of your children, others will not be with you at all, and they will be particularly distant from you.
This kind of loss is true loss. No matter how successful your career is, it cannot be made up for it.
The reason why I share this story is that I want to say:
is our last place in this world.
It is not a geographical location, but a kind of peace of mind, a warmth and happiness.
In the past, I always felt that a successful person should move forward.
As we grow older, we gradually understand:
For colleagues, friends, and classmates, we may just be passers-by; but for family members, we are their only ones.
No matter how far you go or how old you are, in the end, we still have to go home and to our family.
So, don’t neglect your family who loves you the most in order to pursue the distant scenery too much.
They also need your care and concern, and your waiting and company.
Zhou Guoping wrote in the book:
No matter how brilliant your career is and how great your achievements in society are, if you cannot live in harmony with your family, and even have no time to get along with your family, your family cannot be called home. Such a life has fundamental flaws.
Family, only one fate.
In this life, no matter how long we spend together, we will never see each other again in the next life, no matter whether we love or not.
So, please cherish the fate of this life and don’t wait until you lose it before regretting it.
In our lives, we will walk through many places and see many scenery, but there is only one most beautiful scenery, and that is the way home.
The most healing word in the world is going home.
Take advantage of the National Day holiday and go home often to see it.
Go and see your elderly parents, go to travel around with your wife, and chat with your children.
This world is big, but there are always people waiting for us to go home.
They are our family and the most cherished relatives.
At the end of the article, lit up [Watching] , I hope we will always have home to go back, there are some lovely people, and there are always company.
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In recent years, Zheng Juan has saved more than 6,000 yuan in savings, but she is still much worse than buying a car and driving a moving company.
They want to borrow money from Xiao Qiao Chunyan Cao Debao and his wife, but unfortunately, Chunyan Debao did not lend them money.
The discouraged Zhou Bingkun returned home and saw that the house was leaking, and he felt even more sad.
He sighed that people are as small as Ant, and he didn't understand why we should live?
Zheng Juan suggested having a drink with him and told her how she got through over the years.
It turned out that on the day Zhou Bingkun was sentenced, she also wanted to finish her whole life, but she couldn't worry about the child and could only hold on to live.
Whenever she is unhappy, she will want to find something happy, and she survives year after year.
She said to Zhou Bingkun:
In recent years, we have encountered many difficulties, but we have all come over it. As long as you are here, I am not afraid of any difficulties...
For Zhou Bingkun, the same is true for Zhou Bingkun, Zheng Juan is the pillar of his life and the greatest confidence in his life.
The story later was that Zhou Bingkun opened a company as he wished, lived in a new building, and worked hand in hand with Zheng Juan to complete his life.
I have heard a saying: "The greatest luck in life is to meet people who share hardships in the vast sea of people."
The key to life is to know each other, know each other in urgent need, and true love is to show in hardships.
Good couples have always been living a life-long friendship.
Wandering in the world, we will always experience all kinds of ups and downs and hardships.
And the support and sharing from our family is our weapon to overcome life, and it is also our greatest motivation and confidence to strive to live.
For us, no matter how hard life is, life is worth it with a family who treats you sincerely and loves you.
Writer Li Yueliang told a story like this:
When she was still a reporter, she interviewed a state-owned enterprise boss.
In the first half of the interview, they were talking about the boss's glorious career, so Li Yueliang asked him:
"Do you think your life is perfect?"
The boss thought about it, but gave a different answer:
When I just retired, I thought it was yes, but now I know that it is very unsatisfactory.
Because over the years, he has been busy with his career and has not taken care of his family.
Sometimes it is common to be busy and not go home for a month or two.
Although there are occasional complaints from your wife and children, they can basically understand them.
He thought his life was very successful, his career was successful, his family was happy, and his son and daughter were also there.
But when I really retreated, I realized that it was not the same thing at all.
His two children are not close to him, and his wife doesn't seem to need him much.
One day, my son came home and saw him and called him dad lightly.
Turning his head and seeing his wife, he immediately smiled and said, "Mom, I thought you were not at home."
Sometimes when the family talks about the past, it is all about the three of them.
The saddest time is that he caught a cold. When his daughter found out, she said, "I'll buy you some medicine after get off work."
A few days later, his wife also caught a cold. Her daughter's reaction was very different:
I said you can't open the window at night, but your nose is red. Come on, I'll make some ginger water for you first...
Finally, he said a meaningful thing:
In this life, men really can't be full of career and money. Sooner or later, you will return to your family.
If you don’t spend energy in your family in the first three years, waiting for you to want the warmth of your home and the company of your children, others will not be with you at all, and they will be particularly distant from you.
This kind of loss is true loss. No matter how successful your career is, it cannot be made up for it.
The reason why I share this story is that I want to say:
is our last place in this world.
It is not a geographical location, but a kind of peace of mind, a warmth and happiness.
In the past, I always felt that a successful person should move forward.
As we grow older, we gradually understand:
For colleagues, friends, and classmates, we may just be passers-by; but for family members, we are their only ones.
No matter how far you go or how old you are, in the end, we still have to go home and to our family.
So, don’t neglect your family who loves you the most in order to pursue the distant scenery too much.
They also need your care and concern, and your waiting and company.
Zhou Guoping wrote in the book:
No matter how brilliant your career is and how great your achievements in society are, if you cannot live in harmony with your family, and even have no time to get along with your family, your family cannot be called home. Such a life has fundamental flaws.
Family, only one fate.
In this life, no matter how long we spend together, we will never see each other again in the next life, no matter whether we love or not.
So, please cherish the fate of this life and don’t wait until you lose it before regretting it.
In our lives, we will walk through many places and see many scenery, but there is only one most beautiful scenery, and that is the way home.
The most healing word in the world is going home.
Take advantage of the National Day holiday and go home often to see it.
Go and see your elderly parents, go to travel around with your wife, and chat with your children.
This world is big, but there are always people waiting for us to go home.
They are our family and the most cherished relatives.
At the end of the article, lit up [Watching] , I hope we will always have home to go back, there are some lovely people, and there are always company.
fan benefits are here
Any article pushed by every day selected messages like ranking (the number of likes must exceed 30) The first reader can get folding umbrella (as shown in the figure above).
Reward rules:
1. Winners must also pay attention to the WeChat official account of "Hubei e-family"; the number of likes exceeded 30 within 72 hours of leaving a message; the number of likes left is ranked first.
2. The statistics on likes have been published until 72 hours. The editor will reply to your specific reward method.
3. Each person is limited to receive once a month, and the number is limited. Come and participate~
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Source of this article: Shidian Reading (ID: duhaoshu), a national reading account with more than 30 million people subscribed. Please contact Shidian Reading for reprinting.
This article is a government public welfare publicity. If you have any objections to the text or pictures, please contact us to delete it!
Submission Email:
hubeiejiating@163.com
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