Don’t say I’m cruel, the reality is too cruel!
There are too many honest people in the world. Suppose you are honest people, you find that no matter what you do, it is very involume .
Bad people are rare. If you work harder, you can surpass all living beings.
The "work" that everyone recognizes is mostly a scam...
If you work every day, you don't have time to curry favor with others and think about it.
Remember, the core of making money is to study people, to curry favor with people, and to work very specific in the unit, and you will never be promoted. If you go up, who will work?
No matter how good your friends are, they are not rich, and they are always close and loyal, and they are likely to be a lifelong response. However, because of money, it is likely to hurt your relationship.
Because money is a dynamic value manifestation, you may have uneven distribution due to different cognitions.
You think you want to divide this way, but he thinks you want to divide that way, and eventually you will part in a bad mood and never interact with each other.
So no matter how good a friend is, it is best to have clear interests and not hold property together.
I was so poor that I didn’t beat relatives
Many people think that relatives are doing well, so I went to hang out with him. After all, they are relatives and everything is easy to say.
is not actually the case.
First, relatives are not fools either. In the face of interests, everyone has a scale in their hearts. Your value and ability are his value of use. If he fails to achieve his goal, who will still want you?
Second, if you are diligent, he thinks this is natural. If you are lazy, he will say you are not. Your relatives and friends will know that you are not and have not heard of your good reputation.
Therefore, doing things under the care of relatives is not such a good choice. On the contrary, doing things under strangers is easier to show your abilities and more relaxed and comfortable.
After adulthood, you must get rid of native family The most fundamental thing is to put your position psychologically: You are no longer their child, you are an adult who is equal to them.
people all watch the dishes, including our parents.
If one day you reach a height they have never reached or even imagined, the problems of the original family are not worth mentioning at all.
If you can’t let your parents love you, let them be in awe of you.
In addition to studying making money, everything is wrong in studying, because of this.
And the older you are, the deeper you feel about this sentence.
In the past, I thought money could solve 90% of the problems, but now I think money can solve 99% of the problems.
More importantly, you can’t solve the problem that you have money and you can’t solve it even if you don’t have money.
Learning human nature is a necessity for men, women, young and old.
Because human nature remains unchanged.
Only by looking at people with stupidity can you look at the constellation and personality colors~
Experts use their personality without being framed by their personality.
Experts use emotions without being overwhelmed by emotions.
Experts look at people directly at thinking and actions, and directly at things, money and time.
When is the most accurate way to look at people?
when it involves interests.
When you read countless people and are proficient in human nature, if the other party says a word, you can judge her level and level.
doesn’t need to ask her what zodiac sign or what red, yellow, blue and green personality she has.
Learning human nature is to better protect ourselves from harm. This is the minimum. At least when you are deceived, when you are stabbed in the back, when you are betrayed, when you are hurt, you will not be surprised, you will know that this is normal, and you deserve it!
Who told you to believe him, who told you not to be careful, who asked you to trust 100% of them, who gave him the right to stab you in the back? Not yourself yet.
Please remember: When there is no conflict of interest, you can believe that human nature is inherently good, but once a conflict of interest occurs, you must know that human nature is evil and you must be careful everywhere.
What we can do is not hurt others, protect ourselves, when others hurt us, we can not be hurt and return it twice as much.
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