is related to the fate of a woman. Most of the time, it is actually two things: career and marriage.
No one is born with a good life. Even if you were born with a golden key in your mouth, you may encounter some uncertain crises in your future life path.
Many people will say: A woman who reaches a certain age and can marry well means she has a good fate.
But nowadays, you will find that those so-called "married well" women will have a little bit of vicissitudes of life, and they will be noble in front of others and suffer from others. It has never been a "joke".
Therefore, a truly good-faithed woman may not be born in a wealthy family, nor may she have a great IQ, nor should she marry her husband and follow her husband, but she can live out her own scenery and hold her destiny firmly in her own hands.
33 people live for a lifetime. Only when women are financially independent and have a strong soul can they stand on their own in this bizarre society, get out of the limitations of human feelings, live out their own value, and live into a beautiful scenery.
You will find that those women with good fortune will behave like this in their daily lives, making their lives as bright as flowers, with clear minds, as bright as jewelry, and dazzling.
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Do things, be as calm as water, calm and calm
People are alive, not only by living, but when you have a career, there will be a distance.
A woman’s good life is actually that you can manage your career and family well.
Life is long, and those women who can make their lives "poetry and distant" will most likely have an attitude when dealing with people and things on weekdays: be as calm as water, calm and calm.
As the saying goes, only by having persistence in your heart can you focus on your work. When a person eliminates all distracting thoughts and lets the outside world blow, he will firmly believe in his persistence, and then he will definitely achieve his goal one day. Women like
, their way of living is very simple, that is, choose their own direction, and plant a seed in the posture of a flower, and persist carefully until the flowers bloom into scenery and the flowers fall into poetry. They will never be decadent or give up easily.
When facing feelings, she will recognize someone and will develop the heart to be with him until old age; when facing her career, she will recognize what she likes to do and persist until the moment she becomes the top in the industry.
A woman's "good fate" is what she "made".
There is no shortcut for a "good life" in this life. Most people are on the road they pursue, and they accumulate strength over time.
The hardship of a woman and her lover is that she supports him and supports him in the trivialities and trivial troubles, so that the two people can accumulate the affection of never leaving each other;
The success of a woman in her career is that she can endure loneliness and endure desolation through constant endurance and hard work, constantly struggling and giving, endure loneliness and desolation, so that she can usher in the last bloom.
So, behind the woman's light is her heart as calm as water, calm and composed; she is all alone, silently experiencing many unwelcome efforts and efforts.
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In life, you have a smile on your eyebrows and eyes, and you are optimistic and optimistic
We see some interview programs. When asked how celebrities take care of themselves, you will most likely get such a reply: sleep well, drink more water, exercise more, and smile more.
Perhaps many young people will feel disdainful when they hear it: Humph, you are piled up with money.
In fact, the more you live, you will find that these four points are the truth for women.
In this world, there will always be some darkness beyond our imagination; there will always be some "garbage people" that will cause us to harass us anytime and anywhere; there will always be some "uneasiness and anxiety" that will make us anxious and impetuous from time to time...
Therefore, being able to sleep well means stepping on all sadness and worries under our feet, and in the night, you can enter the fragrance of dreams in your heart;
can exercise more, drink more water, and sweat like water in the gym on weekdays. It means that you temper your health, give yourself a strong body, and meet various challenges in life;
can often smile on your face, turn the haze into sunshine, which is to add strength to yourself, make yourself braver, and keep moving forward.
This is how a woman’s good life lies.
In the kitchen, you can have all the colors, fragrance and taste. You can be quick, accurate and ruthless at work, do your best to your family, and be serious and steady at work.
They will be mindful and live out their elegance and strength; they will be strong and soft, and live out the flexibility and tenacity of their lives.
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Treat others, be tolerant and kind, and have a generous style
Writer Li Ao once said:
"A truly level-level woman is smart, soft, elegant, charming, profound, understanding, and considerate to her beloved. Her cuteness is not arrogant at all. She is like an orchid in the valley, but it is not easy to find."
It can be seen that a woman’s beauty lies in that she is not aggressive, but is tolerant and kind, and has a broad mind.
She will not be like a sharp knife, always wanting to penetrate into other people's hearts, making people uncomfortable. She will be relaxed and has her own heaven and earth. The same is true for women's good life.
Live like a trickle, be good at dealing with people in the world, do not force yourself to make a big move, live a firm life, feel comfortable and convincing.
Of course, women with good fate never blindly tolerate themselves, live at the mercy of others, and do not know how to fight back. They just don’t take some bad things to heart, disdain to fight with bad people, and disdain to care about bad things.
They deeply understand that in this life, we must first learn to love ourselves and have a full and sincere heart in order to live out our own beauty and reap the fragrance of time.
So, in life, a good-lived woman will know how to treat others sincerely and kindly, be kind to others, and will also know how to protect herself and will not drag herself into the quagmire;
In marriage, she will also know how to communicate with men, and the two of them support each other, rely on each other, use an understanding heart, gentle language, and her patience and high emotional intelligence to engrave themselves firmly in the heart of lovers.
It can be seen that a good-lived woman will definitely be a master in love and a giant in life.
Conclusion:
Women live the most difficult life.
seems to have a support, but in fact, only if you can achieve the best self can you truly live your own peace of mind.
So, I wish you to be such a woman:
Do things, be as calm as water, calm and calm. You can be gentle as water, and you can become independent of steel, so that you will not have negative emotions, persistence, and belief;
In life, you will have smiles and are optimistic and optimistic. You can be proud and mature and steady, so that you will not cling to others, rely on others, be spoiled or childish;
treat others, be tolerant and kind, and have a broad mind. You can not only have the ability to make money, but also have kind and passionate love. You are not confused or stupid, and live your own soberness and transparency.
Women must not live as a resentful woman.
You must know that a good life lies in the fact that you always have a strong smile on your face, and that you always have hope and be positive.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
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