text/Xia Mo
01, volume beginning
Liu Yu wrote in " Send you a bullet ": "Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, while some people are just sneezing."
Encounter and interaction between people are not all pleasant. If you integrate into different circles, you cannot make yourself feel happy, but instead make you feel depressed and painful.
In the journey of life, some friends will constantly consume you.
is with some low-quality friends, frequent gatherings, just drinking and chatting, but there is actually no practical meaning. Not only will it consume time and money.
When dealing with people, you must understand the principle of "those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black".
Learn to walk with high-quality people, and can encourage yourself to become a better person, and at the same time, you can save yourself a little money.
is not easy to make money. If you meet the following types of people, please keep your wallet tight in time.
02. Stay away from "wine and meat" friends, don't consume money
Stay away from "wine and meat" friends on the road of life. When a friend who "wine and meat" always asks you for dinner or dinner, you must learn to keep your money tight.
Many times, after working for a day, my spirit will be in a tense state.
After get off work, I can't help but want to relax. If a friend invites you to drink and eat, I often feel reluctant to refuse. However, after getting together with friends with alcohol and meat, you will find that you have consumed a lot of your savings.
and "Wine and Meat" friends are not helpful in managing their lives. Instead, because the expenses are too high, it will make your heart more anxious. At the same time, eating and drinking together for a long time will keep fighting spirits.
There are many ways to relax on the road of life. Exercise properly, or read books, fishing can relieve stress in the body and mind.
Instead of having a party with his "wine and meat" friends, it is better to calm down and read the book quietly, and experience the various aspects of life from the book.
It is not easy to make money. Don’t consume your money at will for the sake of "wine and meat" friends.
Leave some money to save and resist unexpected crises in the future. Or spend money on the edge to truly improve your quality of life.
Stay away from low-quality social interaction, and stop paying for "wine and meat" friends and meaningless social interactions.
03. Stay away from friends who love to "borrow money", go but never return
On the road of life, don't lend your money to others at will. Because it is easy to lend money, but it is difficult to collect it.
Especially, when facing friends who love to "borrow money", they lack credibility and ability to repay.
" Ode to Joy ", Fan Shengmei's father was admitted to the hospital when he was sick and had no money to see a doctor. Her mother knelt down and asked for help from Qu Xiaoxiao, Andy and others, hoping that they could borrow some money and then ask Fan Shengmei to pay it back.
Qu Xiaoxiao was frightened and jumped onto the chair and stuck it to the wall. Andy was very rational and decisively rejected her request. No matter what Fan Shengmei's mother said, she just didn't let go.
She is not having no way out, but she doesn't want to implicate her son and just squeezes her daughter.
If you really lend her money, Fan Shengmei's limited work ability will make Fan Shengmei's life even more difficult. When you lend money to Fan Shengmei's mother, the first time you will welcome Fan Shengmei's mother's endless entanglement.
Shakespeare said: "Don't borrow money from others, and don't ask others to borrow money. The result of borrowing money from others is often the result of losing both people and money."
On the road of life, it is not easy for everyone to make money. For those who love to borrow money, choose to stay away. Don’t let others develop the habit of relying on you.
Life is really hard, and you can only save yourself. You can't help someone for the rest of your life, nor will you be the savior in this world.
Stay away from friends who love to "borrow money". Keep your wallet well and don't develop the habit of others getting something for nothing. Everyone must be responsible for their own life. If you lend him money because of your refusal, you cannot be considered a true friend.
04. Stay away from friends with bad character and many bad habits
People with bad character may "take away" your money and stay away from people with too many bad habits.
people, once they enter the wrong circle, they are easy to go the wrong way.
Getting along with people with bad character is easy to be influenced by others. Making friends with bad habits may make you spend more time and energy on entertainment, and will teach you how to play cards and drink once you develop habits, it will be difficult to break free.
People with bad habits and bad character must stay away from them.
Because once a person develops fatigue and bad habits, he will gradually lose his fighting spirit. In the future, you will not know how to improve yourself and how to plan your future.
If friends always take you into some bad habits, it seems to be enjoying life, but in fact it will corrode your will and consume your money, and the road of life will become darker and darker.
No matter what method is used, you cannot have too frequent contacts with people with bad character. The deeper the impact, the greater the loss.
It is not easy to make money. When you meet people with bad character and people with many bad habits, you must keep your wallet and stay away from them. Only by getting along with people with good character can you motivate yourself to become a better person.
A person, who walks with, often, will live a life and take a path of life.
05. Summary
Zhuge Liang wrote in Memorial HTML : "Friends with wise ministers, stay away from villains, this is the prosperity of the Han Dynasty; be close to villains, stay away from wise ministers, stay away from wise ministers, this is the decline of the Han Dynasty."
Running a country, you must know how to value talents; managing your own life, you must also know how to choose friends.
Only when a person knows how to improve the quality of his dating and be with better people can he have a better future.
Stay away from those who consume you, learn to refuse, and don’t let friends become a burden to you.
When encountering low-quality social interactions, it involves money issues, don’t be too soft-hearted. When it’s time to refuse, be more decisive and leave no future troubles.
Friends encourage each other and urge each other to grow up on the road of life, so that each other's intelligence can bring greater value.
Please learn to make friends on your life journey. Good friends should cherish them, and those who consume your spirit and money should know how to give up.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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