As parents, they must pay attention to methods and methods when dealing with their children. If you have anything to say, it will affect the harmony of the family. Grandma Yang’s approach, she thought there was no problem, but she made her daughter and son-in-law feel cold.
On this day, my daughter Wu Hua took her husband to buy chicken, duck, fish and other delicious foods to visit her mother.
Wu Hua's father has died of illness, and his mother lives with his younger brother and his wife. Wu Hua and her husband arrived at their mother's house, and their younger brother and sister-in-law were not at home, and only their mother was at home. When the mother saw her daughter and son-in-law coming, she happily accepted the gift and went to the kitchen to cook. Wu Hua wanted to help her mother cook. The mother said: There are not many people, just make some food casually. You and your son-in-law can play with your mobile phone in the living room and watch TV!
After a while, the mother prepared the meal and called Wu Hua and his wife to go for dinner. When they arrived in the dining room, they saw that there were only six dishes on the table, and they were all leftovers. The chicken, duck, fish and meat bought by Wu Hua did not serve. My mother said: Your younger brother and sister-in-law have also gone back to her parents' home. Your younger sister-in-law is very picky. The delicious food you bought is kept in the refrigerator and left for your younger sister-in-law to eat. You are my girl, and the family is not surprised. I heated up the leftovers that I didn't finish yesterday and ate a little bit!
Wu Hua was very unhappy and said to his mother: I am your daughter, the family didn’t say anything, but I brought my son-in-law to me today! The mother was stunned and was about to say something, but the son-in-law said: It’s all a family, it’s good to be casual, there’s no need to be too particular!
Despite her husband's words, Wu Hua felt very uncomfortable. She thought that her mother underestimated her and treated her as an outsider. Thinking of her mother's past situation and seeing today's situation, Wu Hua originally planned to give her mother two thousand yuan when she returned to her parents' home, but she decided not to give it to her.
After Wu Hua got married, because her husband was very busy with business and had no time, most of the time, Wu Hua went back to her parents' home by himself. Every time he went back to her parents' home, his mother was casual and made some common food. Sometimes her mother was unwilling to cook, so she sat in the living room watching TV and asked Wu Hua to cook. If her younger brother and sister-in-law were at home, her mother would make a table of hearty wine and food.
Once, Wu Hua returned to his parents' home, and his younger brother's wife happened to be at home. His mother said: You are back to his parents' home this time. Mom makes a delicious treat. Go to the kitchen to cook with me!
Wu Hua and his mother were cooking in the kitchen, while his younger brother and wife were playing with their mobile phones in the living room. During the meal, the mother said to Wu Hua: Your sister-in-law loves to stir-fry lean meat with chili! My mother put this dish in front of my sister-in-law. Your sister-in-law loves to eat chicken legs! Wu Hua felt very uncomfortable when his mother put the dish in front of his sister-in-law again.
After the meal, my mother and Wu Hua were washing dishes in the kitchen. The mother said: You are my daughter, the family is casual. When your sister-in-law is in her parents' home, the parents are very kind to her. They can't let others suffer in our home, and don't let their parents find faults!
The point of view of her mother, Wu Hua understood that her husband had time during the holiday, so she would take her husband back to her parents' home. Her mother would not treat her casually. What she didn't expect was that her mother was still like this. Wu Hua was very sad. After the meal, he took his husband and hurried home.
In the days after that, Wu Hua rarely went back to his parents' home. His mother called several times and said she missed her and asked Wu Hua to go back to her home. Wu Hua refused to go back to her home on the grounds of being busy with work.
On a day, my mother came to Wu Hua's house and burst into tears when she saw Wu Hua. Wu Hua asked her what happened. Her mother said that she had a cold these days and was uncomfortable. Sometimes she could not cook on time. Her daughter-in-law called her a useless thing and asked her to get out! The mother wiped her tears and said: If she can't do anything when she gets old in the future, won't her daughter-in-law really let her get out? Who will support himself?
Wu Hua said: There is a saying in the countryside that Jiaogouzi goes to the stove. You are so nice to my brother-in-law. You can’t do this. If you should let her do things, you should also be equal to others! My mother said: If your brother and sister-in-law don’t support me in the future, you have to worry!
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Although Wu Hua would come back to his mother's house and his mother would treat him casually, Wu Hua was sometimes angry, but after all, he was a mother and daughter, so he was no longer angry after the incident. The mother treated her daughter-in-law so well but was angry with her daughter-in-law. What is the reason? Welcome to discuss.
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