first talks about methodology, and then talks about the unity of knowledge and action. Everyone knows a lot of truths, but they still can't live a good life.
excludes various variables and simplifies the model. First, you will know a lot of truths, and then you will naturally live a good life by executing the unity of knowledge and action.
①Full preparation. The agreed time and place must be clearly agreed first. Then you can't be late, you can't be late, you can't be late.
Date location and itinerary for yourself. has a reason to take strangers to familiar places and familiar people to fresh places . You must be clear about the roads around you, whether there are any alternative shops nearby and how to play. It is also clear how long it takes to use it.
②Mentality building. Don’t immerse yourself in your own world when you go out with your friends. spotlight is on the other person . You may not necessarily grasp the atmosphere yourself, but you must provide your own energy to the atmosphere so that you can feel involved.
③ Details. What my ex taught me is to cut melons into thin strips so that others will not be able to make them all over their mouths when they eat them. When there is a conversation, you should reject onions, ginger and garlic. It is a natural gentleman's behavior to help unscrew the bottle cap.
④ Regarding gifts and return gifts, personal accounts of giving and rewards, and when receiving gifts, you should think of the return gifts as equivalent. Another point is to think from the perspective of others, and to see whether the value you give is equivalent to the other party’s efforts from the other party’s perspective, rather than what you think from your own perspective.
Because it is worth it to interact with people, it depends on whether what you give and what you want. It has nothing to do with the second one, and it is not a question of who makes more and who makes less.
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