text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Survey found that more and more young people are afraid to get married, on the one hand, because the cost of marriage is too high, and on the other hand, because there are too many unfortunate marriages.
Many people feel that as long as they don’t step into the palace of marriage, they will not bear these things.
Escape is not the fundamental solution to the problem, and not getting married is not the best choice.
Marriage and having children have been an integral part of a person's life journey since ancient times. Only after experiencing it can life be complete.
If you don’t get married because of escape, it is not only an irresponsible for life, but also an unfilial piety to your parents.
If you want to avoid an unfortunate marriage, not getting married is not the best way. It is wisest to carefully choose the partner you marry.
Whether a marriage can be happy depends on whether you choose a man worth relying on. If the man you choose is too bad, then your marriage life is destined to not be perfect.
Xiaojing has communicated with many readers. They have been through marriage and have used their most realistic experience to tell you that marrying such a man will be extremely miserable in marriage.
Mama's boy
Reader Ms. Tong said that she only discovered after getting married that her husband was actually a Mama's boy.
It was clearly agreed to live separately from her parents-in-law after marriage, but after hearing what her husband said, he not only let her mother-in-law live in, but also gave all the financial power to her mother-in-law.
At home, what my mother-in-law said is always right, and she herself has no right to speak at all. She also thought about resisting, but a person's power must be too small and she cannot change the status quo.
She thought that marriage brought happiness, but she didn't expect that everything was ruined by her choice. Because she mistakenly chose a mama baby boy, her marriage life was extremely miserable.
It is something I don’t know how many times I have emphasized, but some women don’t listen to advice and insist on marrying them.
Women think that they can change men by relying on their own strength, but they don’t know that the nature of a mama baby boy cannot change. Once they marry such a man, life will only be in a mess.
No matter how much you love a man, as long as you find out that he is a mama boy, you should no longer have any fantasies about you.
You must remember that only by staying away from such a man can your marriage life not be so hard.
Domestic male
Reader Ms. Yan told me that she had just escaped from the sea of suffering with the help of her mother's family, and now she is scared when she thinks about it.
According to Ms. Yan, her ex-husband is a violent man. After getting married, her life was really sad.
When she first discovered that her ex-husband had this tendency, she did not take it seriously. Instead, she forgave him after her ex-husband begged for mercy again and again.
She thought that her forgiveness could bring about changes to her ex-husband, but the fact is that her ex-husband became even more violent. Even if she was in a bad mood, he would punch Ms. Yan.
If it weren't for her family's strong demand for her to divorce, she might have been in a miserable life now.
A man with a violent tendency cannot marry. Even if this man gives you the happiness you have always dreamed of, you cannot push yourself into the fire pit.
Maybe every time you finish the phone, you apologize to you, but it doesn’t mean that he will really change it. Not long after, he will hurt you again.
When you meet such a man, you should advise you to stay away from him and not cause unnecessary harm to yourself.
Unemployed male
The so-called unemployed male specifically refers to a man who has no job or does not have a fixed job. Reader Ms. Zhou’s husband is such a man.
Ms. Zhou was an entrepreneur before she got married to her husband.As a result, he failed to start a business and he didn't even want to do his job anymore.
Since then, he has become a hand-off manager at home, without a job and no income.
htmlMs' salary for one week is quite high. At first, I didn't think there was anything wrong with her husband not having a job, but as time goes by, everything is different.
Not only does the husband have no income, he spends money and is generous. He stays at home and plays games all day, and does not even have to do housework.
week Ms. worked hard for a day and had to cook and clean when she got home. Not to mention how hard she was. An unemployed man like
is a completely parasite and will absorb all the blood of a woman sooner or later.
If a woman marrys such a man, she will not only have a hard time, but will also face various pressures.
If you don’t want to live such a life, don’t marry a man who has no job and no income. Even if you love it very much, please consider it carefully.
Marriage is related to the happiness of a woman in the second half of her life, and women should not be too impulsive. Before marrying a man, be sure to see the nature of a man clearly and not be deceived by his appearance. Even if you have fallen in love, you must remember that mama's boy, domestic violence, and unemployed men must not marry. The experience of people who have experienced it has proved to you that such a man cannot marry, so don’t be wise to go to Tiger Mountain.
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