Running a family requires not only heart, but also wisdom.
Running a family requires not only heart, but also wisdom.
"Three or seven points" when encountering problems is the wisdom of getting along with your family.
three points of communication and seven points of tolerance.
Good relationships must have both patience in communicating with each other and wisdom to be tolerant of each other.
No matter how close a person is, he may not fully understand each other. What we need is communication and create conditions for understanding each other. Communication is different from persuasion. Communication is equal and calm. Maybe they have different views, but they are willing to tolerate each other with love.
Some people say that the more you tolerate a home, the more prosperous it is.
Really good family relationships are the ones that all families learn to "three parts communication and seven parts tolerance".
Be tolerant of everything, conflicts are too late, and no matter how big the conflict is, it can turn big things into small things.
Three points of soberness and seventy-six points of confusion.
Someone once asked: "What is the ultimate secret of a happy family?"
has a very praiseworthy answer, only four simple words: "Don't compete for right or wrong."
Only as old as they grow, do they understand that not everything has to be divided into right or wrong and win or lose.
Life is three points to be sober and seven points to be confused. Which family does not have any bumps or bumps in
?
is not a reasonable place. If you are always petty and blame each other, it will only intensify the conflict.
The so-called non-contest of right and wrong in a happy family is not that the family does not have the correct principles, but that they are tolerant of each other, because they understand that the happiness of family members is far better than the so-called right and wrong. It is impossible for people to have the same views and all tastes in the same way. Even a family has different personalities.
The strong winds and waves in life are the few after all, and the warmth that is melted into the food, rice, oil and salt is the most touching.
Better sober and more confused about small things are the secret to a family happiness.
Three points of advice and seven points of respect.
A writer once said this: "Learn to be close to our parents, listen without obeying orders; rely on the lips and teeth of our loved ones, close without confusion; be both teachers and friends with our children, be kind and not to take care of them."
has a sense of proportion. Caring for each other, not interfering with each other; being independent of each other, maintaining respect.
True love never changes each other, but respects each other.
Three points to love yourself and seven points to give.
There is a word in psychology called " Beibo's law ".
means: When people experience strong stimulation, the stimulation they are given will become insignificant.
Between families, three parts love themselves and seven parts love others is just right.
love pays seven points, leaving three points to love yourself is the best decency and self-esteem.
A philosopher said: "A person can live in harmony with his family, which is a major achievement in life."
When people reach a certain age, they will understand that what really determines the quality of life is actually the family.
Get along with your family, be tolerant of each other, give appropriately, and respect forever, so that you can never get tired of it and be happy.
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