Because both parents are ordinary office workers, in this relationship, both at the parent level and at the husband and wife level, the relationship gets along more harmoniously.

The reader wrote to me and said:

My ex-husband and I are both ordinary working-class people, and we were also the product of free love and marriage. Because both parents are ordinary office workers, in this relationship, both at the parent level and at the husband and wife level, the relationship gets along more harmoniously. Sometimes I envy those particularly wealthy families, and sometimes I complain about my ex-husband’s poor ability to make money, but my marriage life continues.

When my ex-husband and I were in the 6th year of marriage, I met a divorced man in business. Because he had work contact with him, he often invited me to dinner, and even gave me some gifts that I couldn't bear to buy on weekdays. Faced with the other party's generous efforts, our relationship has changed. Finally, my ex-husband discovered this, and my ex-husband asked me to choose between my lover and him. To be honest, the result I wanted most was that I couldn’t lose my lover or my lover. But in the end, driven by vanity, I chose to divorce my ex-husband.

After I really lived with my lover, I discovered the truth: 1) Because he was busy with work, he rarely accompanied me; 2) In addition to me, he also maintained an ambiguous relationship with two or three girls; 3) Although his career seemed to be quite glamorous, he also owed too much money from the bank, which means that if he used all his assets to pay off his debts, his assets would be negative. In this case, I feel that living with my lover is not stable.

One day more than a month ago, I blocked my lover and a woman at home. I thought I would wait for my lover's apology, but I didn't expect that the lover's humiliation was from her lover: Didn't you divorce your husband and hang out with me because of money? At that time, I was a little ashamed and slammed the door and went out. After staying in my parents' home for more than ten days, my lover did not call me. When I took the initiative to break up, my lover did not try to keep me. Now looking back at my previous experiences, I found that the clown turned out to be myself.

Muzili Emotional analysis:

We occasionally see stories in the news that some women have gained some favors from rich men through their own strong means. When the relationship finally collapses, the woman will also get a considerable property due to divorce. At this time, few people feel sorry for the woman and think that she can get food and clothing through the process of marriage and divorce. She is a relatively successful example in the marriage and love market. Think calmly: If a woman cannot hold a marriage for a long time in the process of managing a marriage, wouldn’t she feel that she is a big failure? It is precisely because people's views on marriage and love have been eroded by money that people feel that as long as they have money to share in divorce, this woman will be successful.

Aren't you one of the eroded by money? Otherwise, in the face of the material temptation of your lover in front of you, you will not divorce your ex-husband. At this moment, you must miss the down-to-earth life with your ex-husband, but that past will never return to the past. Only then can you realize your true nature: you lose so badly, and the clown is yourself. I never feel that letting myself have the wealth that many people envy in an unreliable relationship is a model of success. Instead, I feel that being able to present a more down-to-earth state through the hard work between husband and wife is the real winner in life. Looking back on the lives of some people: Even though I have seen countless people, I can’t settle down a person who is sincere to me by my side. Don’t you feel very failed?

Nowadays, many news related to life are always dominated by some celebrities and celebrities, but they ignore that most people are ordinary people, and their lives are real and worth more people know about it. What’s even more ridiculous is that when you see some news about divorces, breakups, and emotional entanglements related to celebrities or celebrities, ordinary people will give them a heartache. What you want to say is, be sad and focus more on your own life, because the other party is not as miserable as you expected.In fact, for the lives of ordinary people: having a house of their own, the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious, the children are more obedient, they have no foreign debts, and a fixed income every month, which is already a very good life, but there will be someone who is a little unsatisfied in such a life.

To be honest, I actually want to browse some information that makes me feel useful when I am bored, but in this era of information fragments, I am no longer willing to browse and follow some information software, because I will find that while wasting time, I cannot see too much information that is more important to me. Since this is the case, it is better to calm down and read some current affairs and books that are more professional to you. Especially for some short video software, there are ten items of content, 8 of which cover advertisements or sales. If you can understand the existence of a platform, it is definitely mainly profitable, but with the emergence of advertisements, I believe that more and more people will feel the same as me: aesthetic fatigue and eventually give up a certain platform.

Perhaps people see some information that makes them impetuous every day, so that people forget the reality of real life, daydreaming in the online world, and have beautiful thoughts about many things, resulting in themselves forgetting that the self in real life is the real self, so that when temptations appear around them, they feel that they have encountered true love. In this case, I lost my originally down-to-earth life, and after the short splendor given by my lover, I realized that the long-lasting life was the time I should cherish, but there is no medicine for regret in the world to take. In this era, even people like to value vested interests and give short and fast feelings, but we don’t know that our lives are actually quite long.

Are those words that praise and brainwash you really positive energy? In some more radical words, the final perception you gain is: your lover is already excellent, but you can still pick the bones in the eggs, so that you feel that the marriage life you hold is unhappy. Can you give yourself some time to calm down, think, and admit that your view of marriage and love is a bit pathological. In this era when everyone is a self-media person, too many window-showers have been born. Their own life in the real world is actually a mess, but they like to exaggerate themselves in the virtual world. The result is: those spectators forget to examine the real life around them, but feel that their lives are unhappy in the boast of others.

Postscript:

Tell you the truth of life: 1) 50% of people living in high-rise buildings and cars in cities bear mortgages and car loans; 2) Most of the working-class people earn only 10,000 yuan per month; 3) Most of the retired elderly people around you have a monthly pension of more than 5,000 yuan; 4) More people are not qualified to lie down at all, because even if they save money for a lifetime, they still need to support them.

If your current life is to have a house, no mortgage, no car loan, and you and your lover have a stable income every month, your quality of life is already medium to upper-middle. Never feel that your life is miserable under this situation. Most of the information you see is unreal data. For information that seems glamorous but actually brings you anxiety, please stay away from it.

When browsing information, the information content I dislike most: If you see this "video", you only need to comment to ensure you are safe and rich. I will basically block this kind of information after seeing it.

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