Zhang Ailing said:
"Meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of fate; meeting the wrong person at the right time is a kind of misfortune; meeting the right person at the wrong time is a kind of helplessness; meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a kind of cruelty."
Love pays attention to timing. Sometimes, no matter how much you pay, if the timing is wrong, it will be difficult to get results.
Sometimes, as long as there is a small opportunity, the two will break the ordinary friendship and get a love that blushs and heartbeats.
When a man and a woman are together, if these three things are shared, it will be difficult for two people to continue to become friends.
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Shared money
Many women may think that a man must spend money on himself because he likes himself. In fact, this is incorrect.
Generally speaking, men and women get along alone, and for the sake of a gentlemanly attitude, they take the initiative to spend money on women.
This is just social etiquette, and it does not mean that he has you in his heart.
However, the two people shared the money.
For example, when traveling together, he booked a hotel and you are responsible for the food and transportation expenses.
No matter what difficulties you encounter, even if you are not rich, you have to pay to help the other party overcome the difficulties.
Sharing money is just a surface, a deep connection, and you all take out what you care about the most and give for each other without reservation.
Friends who are ordinary, once or twice, are happy to spend money, but they always hope you can repay them in their hearts.
The person who loves you wholeheartedly has regarded you as a family member, and he only hopes that you are healthy and happy.
In his heart, you are more important than money.
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Shared thoughts
Everyone has their own sad past.
We carefully hide it in our hearts and cannot easily show it to others.
is afraid that others will think they are cowardly and sad, especially when they meet good friends, they will not speak casually.
But there is always someone in this world who can let you put aside your defense and anxiety and slowly reveal those unbearable pasts.
In days without the other party, a person can be strong.
So now you see him, with armor and weaknesses, as long as two people are together, there is no obstacle that cannot be overcome.
People who share their thoughts have important positions in each other's hearts.
Knowing those experiences that are unbearable to look back on , those who love each other will cherish each other more, and their feelings will naturally get closer and closer.
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Shared the future
Whether it is friendship or love, if you want to date for a long time, the two people’s plans for the future cannot be too different.
For example, if you want to do a good job and earn money to buy a house, he wants to retire early and return to his hometown to work as a farmer.
Two people are walking different paths. No matter how close they are now, it will be difficult to maintain their relationship in the future.
Good feelings will never stay in one position, and cultivate freshness by love at first sight. Among them, two people have aspirations and pursuits for the future and a yearning for a better life in the future.
In a truly suitable relationship, the plans for the future must be consistent.
There is a saying that goes: I have no time to participate in your past. I will accompany you to the end of your future.
If two people work together in their future life, they will not break up easily even if they encounter great difficulties.
The biggest regret in Bonnie Were's "Five Things I Repent Before My Death" is:
"Missed the person who really suits you."
Like, from friends to lovers, I hope you can share these three things, from friends to lovers, and move forward unswervingly side by side.
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