Zheng Juan is an unfortunate woman, but also a happy woman, because she has unfortunate experiences, bumpy life experiences, no good family background, and has to shoulder the burden of raising an illegitimate child and the whole family life. She is living desperately, even for others.
You have to face misfortune when you live, but misfortune must also live. It is such a cruel reality, such a difficult family, there is no other way or other extravagant hopes. As long as you can eat and wear and wear, you will be content as long as you can survive.
Since she met Zhou Bingkun, she has decided that he is a good person because he sympathized with their family and handed over all the money for running errands to her. Then she paid out of her own pocket to send life-saving money on a monthly basis. Zheng Juan regarded Zhou Bingkun as her benefactor and Zhou Bingkun as her lifelong support.
Zheng Juan has married Zhou Bingkun , she feels that she is a happy person because he is very content. Whether she is taking care of her mother-in-law, washing clothes and cooking, she has no complaints at all. She takes responsibility silently, making everyone feel that he is the lucky star of the Zhou family.
Zheng Juan's contentment made her feel happy and happy, which is obtained from the comparison between the old and the new, and it is also because she has a kind and grateful heart. She had no more extravagances or more fantasies. As long as her husband Zhou Bingkun was in her, she felt happy. Even if Zhou Bingkun was in prison, she was waiting for him to come back wholeheartedly.
Look at Qiao Chunyan again and it’s different. She thought very well but many things couldn’t go as they wished. After she got married with Cao Debao, she quarreled with him from time to time and got angry. Why? She felt that her husband was inprosperous and could not let her show her face and live a decent life like other excellent men.
She will always be a reasonable woman and always a strong woman. To put it bluntly, she did everything right, and no one else was right to her, because her expectations were too high and her extravagant hopes were too great. Once she could not meet his requirements, she would lose her temper and make the family chaotic Cao Debao want to run away from home. She really couldn't live her life.
Both women have families and husbands. Why can Zheng Juan live a prosperous and organized family, but Qiao Chunyan can’t do it? The reason is very simple: one is contentment and the other is dissatisfaction. In fact, the principle of happiness is very simple. If you have less extravagant expectations and more understanding, you will have a happy life.
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