Every time I watch the TV series " Anjia ", Uncle Qiang will be moved by the love between Grandpa Song and Grandma Song in the play. When moved by their love, what makes people even more angry is the plot of the two nephews. In order to compete for the real estate, they even plan to "drag the two old men to death". Uncle Qiang was full of anger at this dirty behavior.
Family affection should be incomparable to any relationship, but sometimes it will always be defeated by human nature. We often say that a family should not care about gains and losses, but sometimes it may be because they are too close that they become more greedy and do not know how to be grateful but only know how to ask for it. If you are a stranger, you may still have mercy and room for your relatives, but you will fight for your relatives in the slightest sense of your efforts. You always feel that you have paid more but you cannot see the other person's efforts. You will never tolerate yourself to suffer losses and would rather hurt your relationship.
Gu Juan is about to get married, but she feels like she has knocked her five flavor bottles over. The reason why she was upset was not from her in-laws’ family, but from her own family. Two days ago, my husband's family sent a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift as promised, but Gu Juan did not see the bride price at all, and was taken away by her brother and sister-in-law without permission. When talking about her brother and sister-in-law, Gu Juan was always very grateful.
Gu Juan was born after her parents were middle-aged, so she was more than a teenager from her brother. Gu Juan and her brother were not very close since childhood. Although her brother rarely showed it, Gu Juan could feel her brother's love, especially after her brother dropped out of school and went out to work, she would buy things for Gu Juan every time she came back. Later, my brother and sister-in-law got married. Although my sister-in-law sometimes speaks meanly, what she really needs is that my brother and sister-in-law will do her best.
After graduating from college, Gu Juan found a good job. She took out her first salary from her job and bought gifts for her family. She also often bought toys and clothes for her nephew. The reason why Gu Juan did this was nothing more than thanking her brother and sister-in-law for her efforts over the years. Despite this, Gu Juan felt that her brother and sister-in-law should not have taken her bride price without authorization, which was really unreasonable.
After a night of ideological work, Gu Juan decided to tell her brother and sister-in-law and get a 100,000 yuan betrothal gift. Gu Juan went around for a long time and finally brought the topic to the dowry. After understanding Gu Juan's meaning, her sister-in-law's face changed immediately, and she said, "Little sister, what do you mean? You are going to get married. You will be someone else's family in the future. We will keep the 100,000 yuan for you. If the elderly need it, they will use it for them in the future. This money will be regarded as the support you give to your parents."
Sister-in-law's words made Gu Juan a little annoyed, so she said without hesitation: "Sister-in-law, since you say that, I will not care about my parents anymore. Even if I pay the entire support for the elderly, you will bear all the things in the future." The sister-in-law said angrily, "If you don't look for you, you won't look for you. You won't have to come back in the future, and you will think that you have no parents' home." In the end, the two of them had to part ways.
Regarding the issue of supporting the elderly, Uncle Qiang always feels that how can the family be completely fair? As long as you can take more responsibility and understand more, it will not be a big deal if you give more. What I fear most is that my brothers and sisters are in conflict with each other, and my parents suffer in the middle. Therefore, no matter when, don’t use the word “fairness” as an excuse for not fulfilling filial piety.
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