Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always been a very worrying family problem from ancient times to the present. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were originally people who had never known each other. Because when the same man lived together, problems with age gap, problems with living habits, and attitude towards people and things would all create many contradictions in life.
Some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be as close as sisters or mother-in-law, but some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stand opposite each other. It’s either open and secretly fighting, just like a palace drama, or accusations and complaints on the table, which almost made the man who had something to do with them worry to death.
A smart woman will have her own set of methods, keep a proper distance from her in-laws and will not interfere in things that have nothing to do with her. Not only does it take less trouble, it also makes this home more peaceful and harmonious.
What should be noted in particular is that some daughters-in-law do not put their position in the right place, always want to take advantage of the wealth of their mother-in-law, but in fact they make their mother-in-law hold a grudge for the rest of their lives, and even affect their marriage.
High bride price
Marriage is the union of two lovers. Although love cannot be tied to material basis, the end of love is marriage, and marriage must return to material life.
So, as long as you get married, there will be a bride price. For families with better conditions, the amount of bride price represents their sincerity in marrying a wife. However, for some ordinary families, the sky-high bride price can easily cause the relationship between the two families to fall into a deadlock.
Marriage is the most important thing in life, but some people turn happy events into jokes in order to gain some money.
There is a couple in Henan who got married. After the bride took the bus to the man, she didn't get off the bus. No matter how my in-laws persuaded him, the bride just closed the car door and remained indifferent.
So what is the reason? It turned out that the bride said that it would cost 66,000 yuan to get off the bus. The bride had already agreed to be 100,000 yuan before marriage, but she didn't expect that when she got off the bus, the bride said arrogantly that she would not give 66,000 yuan and would not get off the bus.
At this time, the groom was also angry and shouted that he couldn't say anything, so he wouldn't go out and not get married.
The couple's happy days were just broken. In the end, I failed to enter the ideal marriage hall.
Borrow gift is a testimony of marriage. You can ask for it, but it must be moderate.
In-law’s savings
money is the touchstone of anything.
In front of the closest relatives, money can make people suspicious, let alone parents-in-law.
TV series "Home Temptation ", Allie encourages her mother-in-law to spend her own private money to buy Venus for her own personal gain. On the surface, it is for her mother-in-law's goodness, and said that her father-in-law restricts her mother-in-law everywhere, leaving her worthless. After Venus' normal operation begins, the money she earns becomes her own money, and she will be confident in this family in the future.
The mother-in-law was immediately shaken after hearing this. She thought that her daughter-in-law was really thinking about her, so she took out the money she had saved with great effort.
Unexpectedly, she fell in love with Ellie. The Venus company is actually her own company, and she is just for her own purposes. Later, my mother-in-law knew the truth, and my husband began to have an opinion on her.
A truly smart daughter-in-law will understand that the savings of her parents-in-law belong to their own privacy. The most correct way for her is to avoid talking, rather than constantly asking the other party to use the money wherever they want.
As a daughter-in-law, it is easy to cause some minor frictions and misunderstandings with her mother-in-law, let alone money. Such a sensitive thing, if you are not careful, you will cause unnecessary quarrels in the family and intensify the conflict.
Although he is already a family with his in-laws, he is not his mother's family. He has no blood relationship and will not treat you well without asking for anything in return. To become someone else's wife, you must have a clear understanding, that is, your relationship with your in-laws, and you must know how to judge. As long as you don't cross the line, your relationship will always be peaceful.Although
money plays a very important role in marriage, marriage is not a business. As long as two people love each other, the bride price is just a procedure. As long as the other party has a reliable character and knows how to work hard, everything else is not a problem.
For parents-in-law’s money, they have worked hard all their lives to spend some of the money they spend on holding a wedding for their children. The rest is the money they spend on their elderly care. Do their best to be filial to their juniors. They will naturally treat you sincerely.
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