My father-in-law is in poor health, and my mother-in-law takes her little niece with her. Most of the time I always take care of the children myself, while working at the same time, I take care of them every day like fighting, especially in the morning, I am busy. I really want to use it as two people, but I don’t blame my parents-in-law at all.
Because I know that it is my responsibility and obligation to raise children. It is a love relationship for parents-in-law to help, and it is also a duty not to help. I feel that as long as they live a healthy life, they are happy. At such an old age, they have their own ideas and feel that they live freely and stretch, so they follow the elderly. Being young is like exercising.
In fact, the elderly also have their own difficulties, and young people must be considerate. After all, I am old and have inconvenient health, and it is not easy to raise children. Many elderly people can't bear it after a day. If the elderly are sick, it is even more unsuitable to take care of children.
There are also some elderly people who go out to work and support themselves every day in order not to add burden to young people. We should understand that they don’t have time to help take care of their children. It is not a mistake to not ask for money from us, not increase our financial burden, and not be able to help take care of children.
Usually, they are more filial to the elderly. If you have any difficulties, they will generally help. Don’t just ask your parents-in-law to do this and that!
Parents-in-law don’t show their children, think about whether you do it properly in your daily life? Have you fulfilled your filial piety and respect? We must have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and get along well. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, no matter who is wrong? It will cause the elderly to not see children.
There are also some elderly people who are afraid of not being able to see their children well, and they are worried that they will make young people unhappy and blame themselves; they are also worried that they are not well educated and cannot educate their children well; there are also some elderly people who are worried that young people will think they are dirty and that what they do cannot satisfy young people. These worries also make some elderly people reluctant to go to their children's house to see their grandchildren.
There are also some elderly people, whether they are in good health or financial condition, and they are time, but they just don’t take care of their children. Because they feel that they are so old and have worked hard all their lives and want to live their old age well. I want to go out for a walk, have fun, usually dance square dance, play chess, etc. There is no need for young people to blame this. A person has his own way of living, and there is no absolute right or wrong in anything. Different ideas, different cultures, and even different views. No one can force anyone. If you feel a little wronged and suffer a little, you will be over. If the child is taken care of by the elderly, you will grow up! The children you bring out will be better.
It is better for the elderly to help, but it is normal for them to raise themselves. There is no standard for reasoning at home. Parents and in-laws have the freedom to take care of, and daughters-in-law also has the right to complain. Be considerate and tolerant of each other, and it is not easy to have children!
So sisters who have no one to take care of their children, close their eyes and survive, the children will always grow up, and the older the better. Who are you not expecting? Who do you not ask for? We can live without anyone, and we must work hard to live better. Come on
This article only represents personal opinions. Don’t criticize if you don’t like it. Hope √ Sisters will help
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