has been away for more than 30 years and has been used to life in this city, but the only thing I can't forget is the classmates who went to school together and the friends who grew up together.
I remember it was ten years ago that our class monitor organized a WeChat group to bring us classmates together. I felt quite happy at that time. After all, I haven’t seen these classmates in about 20 years, and I still have to recall every bit of it.
happily joined the class group. The good and vague and unimpressed students gradually became impressions. We recalled every bit of school together, and always felt that our relationship was constantly heating up.
However, things are moving forward in a further warmth. In addition to talking about some irrelevant topics, there is also a phenomenon in the class group: whose child is married? Who told the old man to celebrate his birthday? Or whose daughter is married.
In order to express your feelings, giving gifts may be one of the best ways. But since I am in another place, I will send my classmates to my mobile phone. Even if I don’t have WeChat, they will find the phone number and then add WeChat.
At that time, I thought it was very good. After all, being able to be remembered by my classmates is also a bond of emotions, and it is also a memory and make up for emotions.
I have another characteristic, basically I am unwilling to go back to my hometown because my parents have been taken over by us, do I have any relatives in my hometown, and I am relatively lazy, I have never done anything big here, and I don’t have many friends, so when I celebrate my birthday or some festive occasions, it’s basically enough for my family to celebrate.
has been like this one after another, and has always maintained friendship with the first group of classmates. Although all the classmates have big and small things and happy events at home, although I have never been back, the gift has never been delayed.
Ten years are not long, nor are they short. According to my own estimate, in order to maintain this favor, I should have a gift of 20,000 yuan back and forth.
But I think this is nothing. After all, at that time, when I was studying in the countryside, many of them were classmates and childhood friends who grew up together. This kind of relationship cannot be replaced by gifts.
I personally always think so, but this year I have to do something. It is a lifelong event for my daughter to get married, but I just celebrate it with my family internally. This is somewhat unreasonable.
Of course, I didn’t say anything about my relatives and friends who worked here. I also searched for messages in the class group and received a few sparse blessings. The red envelopes I sent were also digested in an instant. At that time, I still felt that my classmates valued feelings.
so I didn't take it to my heart. In addition, I felt that there was no need for everyone to notify me. After all, I have been an old classmate for decades and have been in contact for ten years. I sent such a message in the class group. I think everyone can see it and receive it. Maybe there are still classmates who come to my place to send blessings.
However, I was thinking too much. On the day my daughter got married, no one actually gave me a gift. I didn’t care much about this little money, but I care about this attitude.
I sent the message again. Strangely, the classmate group chose to be collectively silent that day, and I couldn't post it over and over again, as it was a bit embarrassing.Is this necessary for
? Isn’t it just a gift of three or five hundred yuan? Is it so realistic for all the classmates’ relationships over the years? I don’t think it’s important for one classmate or two students to come, but what kind of joke is this collective silence?
is heartbroken. I think I am pretty good at dealing with people and things, and I am quite active in normal times, and I have never said anything too much. Why are you doing this? Did you think that I wouldn’t go back to my hometown anyway, so it doesn’t matter if I think of people like me who never break off friendship?
Even if you don’t give me a gift, it’s great if you have a few blessings! I don’t understand what these people think. Could it be that the innocent friendship back then was defeated just because of this simple gift?
suddenly felt very disappointed, and silently opened the class group and clicked to delete it. I think such plastic friendship, such a class group, it’s fine if I don’t interact with such a class group.
Have you ever encountered this situation? Is it because my situation is too small or I have too little knowledge? Let me explain that this is my elementary school classmate group.
Such a cherished friendship, but others don’t care at all. It is unlikely that you will not feel any discomfort in your heart.
Does anyone analyze what this is? Does anyone give me some comfort?
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