Many words left by the poet Tagore allow us to see what the beautiful love in the world looks like. In our lives, we always meet someone, and then gradually sublimate this relationship based on goodwill. However, sometimes we will let this relationship develop in two directions b

Many words left by the poet Tagore let us see what the beautiful love in the world looks like.

In our lives, we always meet someone, and then gradually sublimate this relationship based on goodwill. However, sometimes we will let this relationship develop in two directions because of the different management methods.

One is ambiguous, and everything that two people do seems to be related to a couple. When they see each other talking to the opposite sex, they will be jealous, and they will also send care and blessings, and they will also ask about their well-being and give gifts.

However, the two of them have never had the name of a boyfriend and girlfriend. They seem to be waiting for each other to break through the window paper, and they seem to be enjoying this erratic feeling.

The other is love, which means that everything that two people do will be related to a couple. They want to tell the world after confirming their relationship, so that everyone around them can know each other's existence, that they will miss each other if they cannot see each other, that they want to give each other a sense of security, rather than being far and near.

In Tagore's view, whether the feelings between people are ambiguous or love is actually hidden in this sentence.

Tagore said: "The eyes are raining for her, but the heart holds an umbrella for her. This is love."

TV series "Know or Not" Sheng Minglan Because she lost her mother since she was a child, her father did not attach much importance to her. The only thing she could rely on was her elderly grandmother. Therefore, although Sheng Minglan is the youngest among all the female relatives of the Sheng family, she is the smartest and sensible one. She is clumsy and calm and rarely emotional.

In Sheng Minglan's world, getting married should be a down-to-earth life, and there is not so much love and romance. So after she married Gu Tingye , she also adhered to her duty as a wife and was generous and virtuous. Other wives would be jealous of her husband's concubine, but Sheng Minglan would take the initiative to take a concubine for Gu Tingye.

In Gu Tingye's opinion, this did not care about his own manifestation, so he was very angry. However, even when he went to the study to sleep in anger, he was still thinking about whether he would be afraid of sleeping alone. So in the second half of the night, Gu Tingye returned to Minglan with the quilt again.

In fact, love is like this the original way. Even if you are very angry, even if you are determined to ignore the other person at that time, when we see the other person, we still can’t help but worry and be in love with each other, because liking someone or loving someone means putting the other person in our hearts, and every word and action will affect our thoughts.

Ambiguousness is just a flash of things.

The so-called ambiguity refers to a vague and unclear relationship between men and women when they get along. Two people are nominally friends, but in fact all behaviors exceed the scope of friends. Ambiguousness is a very special relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend. It exists between friendship, but is also transcendent to friendship.

From an objective perspective, ambiguity is essentially a "self-satisfied" companionship, because love means responsibility, and when we are together, we need to exclude other opposite sexes and automatically divide distances.

is like listening to songs. In the past, there were many songs on our song list, all kinds of them. One day we needed to keep one song, delete the others, and then only the singles will be looped from now on.

This feeling is boring, so many people are not willing to take responsibility.

So, they are keen to experience the feeling of getting along with the opposite sex in one vague relationship after another, and then wave their sleeves and leave without taking away a cloud of clouds. They do not need to take any responsibility.

But, such a relationship will never last long. It is like fireworks blooming in the sky. It will give people a bright feeling, but it will be fleeting. It is a short-term relationship, just a brief look, just love each other.

Good love must be loyal and responsible

Zhang Xiaoxian once said this: "In the right time, meeting the right person is a kind of happiness; in the right time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of sadness; in the wrong time, meeting the right person is a sigh; in the wrong time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of helplessness."

The so-called love means meeting the right person at the right time, and the so-called ambiguity means meeting the wrong person at the wrong time.

To put it bluntly, ambiguity is like an object suspended in the air. It exists, but it will not be fully possessed by us. Therefore, our hearts are always in a state of worrying about gains and losses. In such an uncertain environment, we will doubt our actions and further evolve into self-denial.

The love we want must have and only one, which will definitely make us feel that the other person exists, rather than worrying about gains and losses.

If the feelings we are experiencing are vague, then we must remember to stay away, because such feelings cannot give us happiness and will only consume our time and energy.

Good love must be loyal and responsible, because only in this way can we experience the unique beauty,