Introduction : Lonely single old people always want to get married. In this way, I will have someone to accompany me, and I will have someone to take care of me when I am sick. It’s just that it’s so difficult to find a suitable wife who treats you sincerely. The 50-year-old aunt once thought she had found true love and married her soon after. Unexpectedly, the other party turned out to be a shrewd and wealthy old man. Getting married is just to find a free nanny. What exactly is going on with
? Let us listen to what 50-year-old Aunt Zhang has to say.
50-year-old Aunt Zhang’s self-report:
I was born in a remote rural area. My family was very poor, so I had to borrow money from everywhere to pay for my tuition. Everyone in my family hopes that I can change my destiny through knowledge. But I don't like studying at all. His grades were also ranked last in the class. I had no choice but to drop out of school and go out to work.
I met my husband in a factory. At that time, he was the director of the factory and was very impressive. Everyone must obey him. He said I was as beautiful as a flower and took great care of me.
We got married soon. After we got married, he took good care of me in every possible way and handed over all his salary to me. He said that all the money should be saved for his wife. This way I can also feel safe. I am also very touched. In order to take good care of the children, he asked me to resign. I work as a full-time housewife and take care of the family's daily life.
Although life is not rich, it is very happy. Twenty years passed in a flash. I look forward to my husband retiring early and staying home with me. But something unexpected happened and he had a car accident when he was going home one night. I was devastated and wanted to just leave him. But the child needs me. Children need money for school and life. There was no way I had to cheer up. I looked for a job everywhere but never found a suitable job.
Later, I heard from a little sister that rich families now need live-in nannies. The salary package is particularly good. I was also moved, and soon became a live-in nanny. As for the child, I left it to my mother-in-law to take care of.
My first employer was a single old man. His name is Li Ming, he is 65 years old this year. His wife died of cancer a few years ago. It’s really hard to live without someone to take care of you. So he spent 4,000 yuan a month hiring me as a nanny. But I didn't expect that two years later, he would confess to me. He said I was the most gentle and considerate woman in the world. He said that my careful care made him a little bit tempted.
I also fell in love with him bit by bit in our daily interactions. Uncle Li's financial strength is also good. When he was young, he was an executive of a company and made many contributions to the company. Now I can receive a pension of more than 8,000 yuan every month. He also has two houses and a luxury car at home.
I feel very safe finding such a rich man. Then I don't have to work so hard. If something unexpected happens, he will help.
I thought marrying him was the starting point of my happiness. I didn’t expect the reality to be too skinny. I discovered that Uncle Li is an iron rooster. I asked him for money to buy groceries, but he was unwilling to give it. Every penny spent on any household expenses must be shared with me.
And because I used to be his nanny, he is used to bossing me around. I help him with everything and serve him in everything. I feel tired and I haven’t been paid yet. I'm living off my old laurels. Seeing that the old money is almost spent. I brought up the salary issue with Uncle Li. Uncle Li scolded me.
He said I was already married to him. These are things a wife should do. I shouldn't worship money so much. I felt at that time that he was really thick-skinned and liked to take advantage of me. He is obviously so rich, but he doesn't give me living expenses or pocket money. My quality of life plummeted. Living with Uncle Li is not as good as living alone!
When I got divorced, I accused Uncle Li of being greedy and just wanting to take advantage of me. But he said that everything was done voluntarily and I couldn't blame him.
Alas, I really lost my wife and my troops. I am now working as a nanny for another family.I will never marry my employer again.
Conclusion : There are too many smart old people nowadays. Many uncles do not do it because of feelings at all, but entirely for practical needs. He wants to marry you, but he just wants to find a free nanny. Women must keep their eyes open and don’t be deceived!
