I hope my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix. Is it right?
pair, "look" just cares about "look", that is, just think about
Then we give the best school, best teachers, and best classmates for the children----- We did: not just "look"! We have all taken action, and have even been doing it for decades, shaping children and creating the next generation that is more perfect. Does this work? Haha, it may work for some people, but it doesn't work for some people. Who does work for? works for parents and children who can learn, improve, work hard and encourage them together. Langlang 's children will definitely become pianists? This is really hard to say! Who shaped Lang Lang’s success? His father, is his father successful? In fact, Lang Lang's parents are quite successful, and they also devote their efforts to their children. not only practices it, but also sets an example. Lang Lang rebelled several times and was disgusted with learning, but he was able to finally be "a prodigal son turned back", which is related to this. That is to say, father and son, mother and son can understand each other and achieve each other. While his son is constantly improving, as Lang Lang's father has not wasted his life, and he is also learning and making progress without hesitation. While consolidating his major, he also expands his knowledge field. Seeing the changes, determination, will and quality of his father and mother, Lang Lang also resolutely moved towards glory in his piano career. Father, my mother did not verbally teach you, you should learn from me; but every move affects Lang Lang's thoughts and actions, allowing him to have goals and clarify every coordinate of his own. So, rather than saying that the "pianist" was "asked by Lang Lang's parents, it is better to say that their determination and actions have won for themselves. Lang Lang's life is achieved through continuous learning from his parents and gaining strength. Putting aside the concept of success, even if it is just to give the child a relatively satisfactory life, the first thing to do is not to make requirements for the child, but to make requirements for themselves by parents. If you want to get a result, what aspects should we adults start from? Improve yourself and shape yourself! If we are allowed to meet all the conditions we need, the children will automatically and consciously step on the "track" next to us. Children will not admit defeat, not give up, not complain, and not slacken. So, we parents should say to ourselves: Do I really want to make requests to my children? Want your son to become a dragon, and your daughter to become a phoenix? So let’s ask first: Am I a dragon? Am I Feng?