continues: The first problem to be solved is how to make a high school student sleep an hour more every day.
The first day of accompanying the study was also the first day of late, and it ended happily like this. tomorrow? the day after tomorrow? I can't be late every day just to let her sleep.
To be honest, I can't accept being late in my heart. Now, what's even more disgusting is that I have to make up lies and ask for leave.
I am not late during school, and I even often arrive early. But just talking about the matter, I am not her, nor is she me. Taking advantage of my own advantages is simply a hooligan.
I became the person I hate. I felt that there were flames on one side of my body and sea water on the other. I despise my behavior and was happy to see her sleep well and learn to be fragrant.
It was late at night. I was in a hurry for a day, and I continued to sanitate. I also ran out to buy green plants and flowers. In my eyes, the best soft decoration is the vitality flowers and plants. Seeing them bathing in the sun, rain and dew, and trying hard to take root and sprout, I feel that life is cute.
is almost 12 o'clock, I am extremely sleepy, but I still can't sleep. From a 1.8-meter large bed to a 0.8-meter sofa bed , from a large bedroom to sleeping in a small living room, these things can't bother me at all. I'm just worried about how to wake up a high school student who is sleepless tomorrow morning.
people, working is not tiring, balancing emotions is the most tiring, and what I want to balance is not just my own emotions, I want to balance the emotions of many people.
The first thing I have to do is my relationship with my child, followed by my relationship with my teacher, my relationship with my parents, my relationship with other members of the family, my relationship with my child and family, etc. These relationships affect each other.
Negative emotions of people are like the characteristics of viruses that are transmitted from human to human. A high school student in a sensitive period can capture the changes in other people's emotions at any time, even if they say a word or look, they feel that they are criticizing themselves.
If you don’t help her clear the emotional oppositions that are full of various relationships, she will not be able to stay in the present moment. She has exhausted her spirit and does not have enough time to sleep. Where can she have the energy to study? For me,
Accompanying reading is a process of decomplexity from traditional to simple.
Cooking and washing clothes is important, but what is more important is spiritual support. I need to help her eliminate those mental internal frictions. The cleaner she gets, the easier her life is, and the more efficient she learns. Regarding learning, we must always pursue learning efficiency, rather than endlessly extending learning time.
In a popular word now, it is "a sense of atmosphere", and it is necessary to create an atmosphere that is conducive to her learning. Create a comfortable space for her: quiet, clean, reasonable and scientific, so that she can relax and focus on doing one thing well.
After thinking about it, if you can't be late, can you leave early? Or compress the time spent on the road.
I see all kinds of electric bikes and bicycles placed on the upper floor of the first floor, otherwise we can get one too, so that the child can sleep at least 10 minutes more in the morning.
I don’t want to make up lies to ask for leave for lateness, but I really feel that it’s too late for high school students to finish their evening self-study classes. When I got home, it was almost 11 o’clock, and I just washed it and washed it and got up again at 6 o’clock. This is not scientific and unreasonable at all.
I can't change the rules, but I can deviate within the rules.
That's it, I decided:
first, save time on the road, buy a small tram for transportation;
second, save time for breakfast, pack it and take it to school after it is done;
third, reduce evening self-study time, find reasons to take leave twice a week to get home to make up for sleep.
The slogan for the next 421 days is: We want to win in vain! Let others stay up late!
After thinking about these things, I fell asleep.
Wake up on time at 5:30 in the morning. From that day on, my biological clock was implanted at 5:30.
Make breakfast and wake up the child. I found that her " get up and get angry " is quite big.
gave her a bowl of "pseudo- Changsha rice noodles " with eggs and meat paste, and discussed our next "sleep transformation plan" while eating.He also informed other members of the family of the plan and had objections, but in the end they all raised their hands through WeChat meeting to express their agreement.
Since we haven’t bought the car and the packaging box has not arrived yet, we are late again. However, this time the improvement is really great, 5 minutes late. This also inversely shows that our sleep transformation plan is feasible.
During the days of studying with me, I often feel like an catfish that was put into the sardine group, swimming desperately to stir up a pool of stagnant water.
If you lead, you will definitely be the most tiring. If you dominate, you must give up your current interests. I have no way to be a camel, bury my head in the desert, and turn a blind eye to the crisis in front of me. I would rather be a catfish swimming all day long.
The best way to reduce your fear of the future is to work together with the parties involved and those who are related to the interests. Don’t always fight blindly alone. The more you get the best, the more help you get. The more you understand, the more help you get.
Next, let’s look forward to our small car together, and I want to relieve her agitation. (To be continued)
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