celebrated the whole country and welcomed the first day of the victory of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China. We entered the "Home-school and Family Education, Working together to fight the epidemic" micro-classroom as promised by the Shuocheng District Education Bureau. Now, let us wish our motherland to enter the new era with its head held high and to unite our hearts and minds towards the future. I am today's speaker Wang Li, from Shuocheng District No. 2 Middle School. Today I will share with you the topic "Education Reflection on Chinese-style Giant Baby Gives Us".
On March 2 this year, Guo Wensi, known as the "Beijing version of Sun Xiaoguo", was executed by Beijing Second Intermediate People's Court .
Guo Wensi is a native of Beijing, with a wealthy family and excellent grades. He studied at the Department of Business Administration of Beijing University of Technology. He is a class cadre. He is the "proud son of heaven" as people call him, but he is also a typical "Chinese-style giant baby". He was self-righteous and could not accept the incident that was inconsistent with his expectations. Facing the breakup proposed by his girlfriend, he was so angry that he would destroy it if he couldn't get it, so he killed his girlfriend. He was arrogant and could not accept negation and setbacks. Facing Mr. Duan, who kindly reminded him to wear a mask, not only did he not listen to the advice, but instead punched him to death. In the eyes of others, a very small thing will evolve into a major conflict in Guo Wensi until the other party is killed. Although "Chinese-style giant babies" like Guo Wensi are adults, their psychology is still in the infant stage, and they are self-centered, do their own things, and ignore social rules.
Writer Li Yueliang once said: "As a parent, the greatest achievement is to cultivate children who get along with the world." He agrees deeply.
Guo Wensi's story has come to an end with the death penalty on March 2. While we are so sad, we should also reflect on our education: What kind of child should we raise? Member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and Principal of Xishan High School in Jiangsu Province Tang Jiangpeng answered reporters' questions on the "Member Channel" of the Fourth Session of the 13th National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference: "Children only have scores and cannot win the future big test education; only focus on the admission rate, the country has no core competitiveness; scores are not the entire content of education, nor are they the fundamental goal." "Good education should cultivate lifelong athletes, responsible persons, problem solvers, and elegant living people, so that children can win the future with a sound and high-quality personality." Behind every giant baby, there is a pair of parents who take care of everything. For example, Guo Wensi’s parents trained their children to become talents and were admitted to 211 universities. But they ignore making children a "real person", a person who is moral, conscience and understands reflection. When a child kills someone, their first reaction is not to teach a lesson, not to scold, not to regret, nor to apologize; instead, they regard their son as a victim during the trial, feel sorry for him and defend him.
The child was in jail according to law to accept social transformation, which is a good thing! But Guo Wensi's parents were afraid that their baby son would bump into it, so they devoted themselves to winning people's hearts and caring about the relationship network, and reduced Guo Wensi's sentence by 9 times. With his parents' indulgence again and again, Guo Wensi felt from the heart: "Anyway, if I make a mistake, I will have my parents to support me." So he became even more unscrupulous, and he would not accept it even if he committed a crime, and killed someone again after he was released from prison.
Parents should improve their ideological dimension, "My children are not mine, but society." We should not leave a world for children, but a kind of children for this world. Parents should educate their children in accordance with the requirements, norms, methods and patterns of society, so that they can have a strong mind, a sound personality, a perfect mind and a rich feeling. First, there is a motto of my mother-in-law, and then there is a story of loyalty to the country. We must learn from the practices of the sages and saints, so that children are responsible and responsible, moral and conscience, be kind to others, and benefit society. When a child is full of wings, he can achieve great things in the vast world.
As the saying goes: Don’t love too much, everything will turn back! Unconditional love of parents will only make children lose their sense of boundaries and sense of proportion, and even act recklessly and act recklessly. Chulong said: "If parents love their children, they will have a profound plan for them."Real love is to educate children to be a moral and conscience person, have the ability to communicate with others, and have the ability to survive independently and self-reliant.
Adult is more important than becoming talented. Let children become optimistic and confident people, grateful and polite people, compassionate and loving people, and strong-minded people, which is much more important than focusing on academic performance only.
The author of this article is Wang Li, a teacher at Shuocheng District No. 2 Middle School.
