The poor family gave birth to noble children, and the princes were born in the white house. There was also fairness in ancient feudal society. The greatest fairness was imperial examination system . All students in the world had the opportunity to pass the exam by hard work, so as to become officials in the court, be promoted to class, and change the fate of the family.
The current college entrance examination system is undoubtedly a variant of the ancient imperial examination system. Its core is the same. Students all over the world can take the college entrance examination, thereby changing people's life destiny.
The only difference is that the test papers are uneven and the educational environment, and the difficulty of the test papers and the richness of educational resources determine the different destinies of people in different regions to a certain extent.
So from the saying "The poor family gives birth to a noble son, and the princes are born in a white house" a proverb from the new era: "No matter how hard the poor family gives birth to a noble son, and no matter how hard the princes are born in a white house."
The parents in the world have the most say in the issue of their children's education.
This parents are in the countryside. In order to earn living expenses, they came to a big city to work and left the elderly and children in their hometown. This is a typical "left-behind family".
The youngest daughter was born in 2019, so there is no need to worry about her schooling problems. The eldest son was born in 2014 and is in the third grade of elementary school this year. Like all young boys of the same age, his education issues have become the most troublesome problem for parents.
As the saying goes, children from poor families have long been the home. This third-grade boy was instilled with the idea of using knowledge to change his destiny since he was a child. He has engraved the idea of studying hard in his mind. However, the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop. As a rural child, many times he has the will but lacks the ability.
Shortly after the third grade of elementary school started, the boy returned to his hometown on holiday and cried loudly in front of everyone, looking very painful. He also had an exercise book on his hand. You can imagine what he had experienced.
It is reported that the teacher assigned English homework to the students before the holiday. The boy did not know much, and his parents were not around. The elderly at home were not educated and did not understand English knowledge at all. They could only be anxious. The boy had no way to ask for help and cried anxiously.
The elderly at home sent this scene to the boy's parents. Seeing the child crying so sadly, the parents felt sorry for their son from the bottom of their hearts, but working outside, coupled with the impact of the epidemic, it is definitely unrealistic to go home.
So the only thing parents can do is publish their children's experiences on the Internet and seek help from netizens.
This parent provided several key information: First, the English teacher taught four units in one month; Second, the boy had no English foundation; Third, the family could not provide him with any help.
Based on this information, you can describe the financial situation of the family.
The boy was born in a poor family. He lacked the company of his parents, the substantive guidance and help from his family, and the support of extracurricular tutoring. He was in an isolated state and his only source of knowledge was the school.
This boy's family is not an exception in the countryside, but it is obviously different from that in the city. In other words, if he went to school in a rural school, he could grow up with his classmates; if he went to school in a city school, he was in a natural disadvantage.
Netizens provided some opinions and suggestions to this parent.
An English teacher said that it was a bit too fast to talk about unit 4 in one month after school. As a teacher, it was a bit too late to watch. No matter how the school arranges the courses, it would be a harm to the child's learning and growth. Family members can go to the relevant departments to make complaints.
Some other netizens provided advice to the parent, suggesting that he buys relevant learning machines and software for his children to help them learn English well; some netizens also suggested that he give his children psychological hints, don’t always think that he has no foundation, and try to keep up with the teacher’s rhythm.
One of the netizens' comments were heartbreaking, but they hit the nail on the head. All auxiliary materials and learning machine are redundant. The problem with this child is that he has not enrolled in extracurricular training classes, while other children have enrolled in extracurricular training classes. This is a key link in broadening the gap. If you want to keep up with the mainstream, you must follow it.There are many suggestions for
, and there are many practical solutions, but none of them fundamentally solve the problem. There are two fundamental problems, one is the issue of the allocation of educational resources, and the other is the issue of educational intra-volume.
Everyone is born equal, and everyone is born unequal. Every child is born with a new life with infinite possibilities. In fact, most people are destined to have a lifetime of destiny from birth.
household registration, ethnicity, parents' cultural level, local educational resources, the environment created by surrounding peers, and the real vision that money can bring. These factors are invisible, but they are extremely important and difficult to make up for.
A noble son from a poor family is talking about children with extraordinary talents and those children who are sympathetic to God. It is difficult for a child who has lost at the starting line since he was born to catch up with those children who have been driven by their parents through their efforts in the later stage.
The above two fundamental problems have a long history and are difficult to solve in a short period of time. Therefore, we must accept reality and find the best way out in the current environment.
This parent has expressed many common worries of parents in similar situations. It is difficult for children to maintain a balanced mindset in their severe study career. They are not able to cope with complex life plans, and parents should take this responsibility.
First point, parents should choose the most suitable school for their children based on their own strength, rather than a high-level school but not a school that is not suitable for their children, nor a school that can be put into a bad situation.
Second point, parents must pay more attention to their children's physical and mental health during the breaks of working, and provide scientific guidance to them. For example, during primary school, character development is more important than knowledge absorption, and character will largely determine a person's interest in learning.
The period for boys to focus on is in middle school, and their IQ cannot be changed. Under the premise of the same IQ, whoever has a higher interest in learning will have better grades. Therefore, during primary school, cultivating interest in learning is more important than grades. If the latter harms the former, it will be more cost-effective.
As a parent, the most important thing is to take a long-term perspective.
