On July 1, a father in Harbin City asked his child to go home alone after school in order to train his child's ability to survive independently. As a result, the child got lost. Although the child was finally found after the efforts of the police, the family is inevitably worried

htmlOn July 1, a father in Harbin City, in order to train his child's ability to survive independently, asked his child to go home alone after school. As a result, the child got lost. Although the child was finally found after the efforts of the police, the family is inevitably worried.

Every parent hopes that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. As their children grow up, they try their best to avoid taking insufficient care of them and delaying their children's growth. They are also afraid that overindulgence will affect their children's growth. No matter what parents do, the starting point is good, but this does not mean that what parents do is necessarily correct.

Every child's growth has its own objective rules. He must do the right things at the right age. At the same time, this is also a step-by-step process. Everything cannot be accomplished overnight, and must not encourage growth.

The lost child is already 11 years old. According to common sense, he should be able to go home alone. But his parents had been driving him to and from school. He was old enough but not capable enough. Parents hold hands too tightly and do not know how to let go, which has unintentionally become a key factor hindering the growth of their children.

Perhaps the father discovered that the child was not capable of independent living, and then he came up with the idea of ​​​​training the child, so he let the child go home alone. As a result, the family was frightened and confused. This time the father was wrong again. The mistake was that he let go too quickly and did not leave enough time for the child to grow up, which almost led to a big mistake.

It is said that "governing a big country is like cooking small dishes". This is how to govern a country, so it is not the same to raising children! How difficult it is to not only respect objective laws but also accompany children to grow up quietly!