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Today, Anda will talk about Cancer. In the eyes of many people, Cancer is very gentle, always appears sentimental, very loving, knows how to take care of other people’s emotions, and is very caring about people, but the heart of Cancer is actually They are also very tough, not easy to admit defeat, but also very resilient, but their side is not easy to show.
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01 Cancer: a constellation that is soft on the outside and strong on the inside.
When many people talk about Cancer, their first reaction is very gentle and emotional. They always seem to use emotional things. When thinking about problems, they are basically good at taking care of others’ emotions. In many cases, they will not expressly oppose others. Even if they know that what the other person said is incorrect or not what they want, they will pretend to cater and express it euphemistically. Some people think that Cancer is very talkative or easy to fool around, but in fact, they just don't want to hurt feelings.
If the superficial retreat can make the other party feel satisfied, then for the sake of this harmonious atmosphere, they will not point out what is wrong in person.
However, this does not mean that Cancer agrees. In private, they may also strongly oppose it or deliberately fight against you. Don’t think that they are "two-sided and three-handed" or not simply enough. Cancer is just too kind. They feel that it hurts your feelings to refute you face to face, but people still have to live for themselves. When doing things, they have to follow their own ideas, because their hearts are actually very strong.
02 When will Cancer shut up?
This makes Cancers insist on being themselves regardless of the opposition of others, but they will not say, even the more you ask, the more they hide from you and close themselves up. Sometimes, it is true that Cancer does not want to care about you, but has something to you. Deeply disappointed, but more often, they are afraid that their emotions will suddenly erupt and hurt those around them.
Because Cancer actually knows what their problems are. They are "very mind-blowing" about their emotionality and sensitivity. Although sensitivity may be a very good skill in modern society, after all, they can find information around them faster and take care of them. To other people's changing mood, but for Cancer, it may be a "burden".
They don’t want to take care of other people’s feelings, but they just can’t bear it. They don’t want to be like a sponge, receiving so many emotions around them, but they can’t “shield” them, so they simply close themselves and hide themselves. In the "little shell", wait until you feel safe and comfortable before going out.
It can be said that when Cancer is insecure, it is easy to close oneself, which may also be an evasive attitude.
03 What things will Cancer insist on?
Cancers are actually not so childish, full of innocence. They will insist on some things and let themselves go on. It’s just that Cancers tend to be a bit late bloomers. Compared with their antagonist Capricorns, they are more willing to "My comfort zone, enjoying the feeling of being taken care of, this is the "childish" side of Cancer. However, not all Cancers have such good luck. Maybe some people have to go early because of the pressure of life or the family environment. Independence, at this time, Cancer will develop a kind of "maternal" glory, eager to take care of others.
It can be said that they are used to nourish something, whether it is a family, a lover, or a well-managed business, these are the "safe homes" on which they live. For this reason, Cancer can be like a mother Just like caring for children, to persevere, to fight hard, don't ignore the energy that a Cancer pays to protect what you have, it is very huge.
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