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Everyone has his own secret. Most of the reasons why they are secret cannot be told to others. But people have different personalities. Some people like to confide in secrets, while others prefer to be tight-lipped. This is the different style of doing things for different people. As an outsider, no one can say right from wrong.
However, sometimes it is better for people to keep some of their secrets, because society is complicated, and it is difficult to guarantee that there will be people with unpredictable people around them. If you say it and you feel that you can use it, it will cause trouble for yourself. Therefore, it is better to keep the secret. At least, the following four secrets will be safer if you can keep them.
★ Your information
When you take the subway, you will always hear the broadcast reminding passengers not to disclose personal information to strangers. Personal information is something you should keep confidential. Because the Internet is now convenient and the technology is advanced, a lot of personal information will be leaked unknowingly, but that is a kind of helplessness, and there is nothing we can do to protect it.
But speaking out by myself is another matter. Some people like to show off or show off, so they will deliberately reveal some personal information to others to get more vanity. Of course, those who are willing to say "secrets" in this way tend to exaggerate their achievements. is just that no matter what, it is always inappropriate to disclose your own information. In case someone has bad intentions, they will use your information to make a fuss.
remembered that there was a colleague who was a big talker. Regardless of colleagues or strangers, as long as they have the opportunity, they will brag about their abilities. In bragging, reveal your own information intentionally or unintentionally. One day, an unknown person used his name and unit name to deceive another person, causing the family to suffer financial losses. It wasn't until someone came to him that the colleague knew that he was being used. Although the person was finally found, the colleague's "big mouth" also learned a lesson.
Therefore, remember to try not to disclose your information anywhere, so as not to get into trouble with the upper body .
★ family information
Don’t think that you are outside, far away from home, and it’s okay to reveal a little family information. In many cases, people with unpredictable intentions will take advantage of the fact that you are not at home and do things that are detrimental to you or your family.
Don't just tell others the situation of your family or the address and telephone number, unless you really trust it. Because many times, you can't prevent what others do.
remembers very early on, I often heard that strangers called someone's home and said what happened to the children of this family when they were outside and needed a sum of money. Because he spoke in great detail, even including the names of his parents and his brothers and sisters. The family members heard him speak so clearly and thought it was true, so they lost a lot of money.
This phenomenon is not rare. It is impossible for people to be at home 24 hours a day, and it is impossible to predict what the bad guys will do. Therefore, the best way for is to keep family information confidential, so as not to let family members be deceived when they are not at home.
★ Your privacy
Regarding your privacy, most people should choose to be silent, but there are also a small number of people who like to talk to others. In fact, I think that my privacy is the most private "secret".
People will have something they don't want to be known. It is different from personal information, but it is more treasured by people themselves. For example, a person had several predecessors before getting married; or someone who admired a crush on his mind; or, someone’s body has some unspeakable medical illness; even more, it’s a past that can’t bear to look back. and many more.
Although carrying these things on your body is a kind of burden, but carrying your own weight is always more insurance than letting people use it for recreation. Many times, once a secret is revealed, even if it is only told to one person, it is not a secret. If the person on the magnet can really keep a secret for you, that would be lucky. But in fact, such a secret is far less important to him or her than you think. So, you said, even if the other party will keep it secret, you stillI am worried that one day, he (she) will speak out.
So, for the sake of safety, keep your own secrets.
★ Deposit or income
There is an old Chinese saying that " people die for money, and birds die for food ". The big reason why people do things wrong is for the word "fortune", so people often say "fortune is easy to attract thieves." Why does
"Cailu easily recruit thieves"? Because no one dislikes "cai". When you encounter a righteous person, you will keep your righteous path to make money; when you encounter a wrong heart, you will see that you have "rich", so you don't care about its origin, just want to take it as your own.
If a person likes to withdraw money from others, whether it is his own savings or income, it will be a bit "dangerous". The so-called "speaker has no intention", but it may be "the listener intends."
There is a person who actually doesn't have a high income, but in order to show off and improve his sense of existence, he always increases his income several times. One day, two friends borrowed money from him at the same time. At this time, in fact, he himself has spent his wages. Where can the money be borrowed?
He explained to his friends, but neither of the two friends believed, because he kept saying that he was very good at earning money, how high his income was, and as a result, he didn't even borrow it from him? This is not clear to fool people. In the end, both friends turned against him, and one even beat him up, saying that he had seen him wrong.
This is the evil that vanity brings to oneself. Whether is really rich or fake, this kind of "disclosure of wealth" is not advisable, and it is easy to bring hidden dangers to your own safety.
Therefore, no matter where people are, the "secrets" that should not be said should be kept. Because safety comes first. What do you say?
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