5 Every time I write this series of twelve zodiac signs, I feel like an elder who will urge marriage when I go home during the Chinese New Year. The emotional situation of contemporary young people is probably: when you are not in love, you are bored, lonely, and pitiful, want to accompany you, , Uncle Alex When will our zodiac sign have peach blossoms? Try to find some opportunities? I'm so tired and don't want to move, so I'll forget it if I'm so troublesome. If someone takes the initiative to approach, he will bounce off immediately. It’s so stupid to save my life. That's it? It's really only single. Every time I say that some signs have good luck in love, it means that there will be some opportunities that can be seized, not including the sweet love opportunities that you can't push out from the sky, even if you can't push them out, you will stick to your good deeds. So the main purpose of my writing this topic is actually to hope that if you want to fall in love, you still have to work hard. Don’t reply to me: It’s true that it’s me, this is how our zodiac signs are, seeking good luck, and then there’s nothing left. All is gone, and I’m in vain.
Although the slogan that is most in line with the cool writing routine at the moment should be that we work hard to make money by ourselves, we learn more skills, and we become more beautiful and healthy, which is the best. We don’t need to take love to heart. But I believe that most people still want to be loved in their hearts. As our work and life become more and more mechanical and repetitive, love can bring us many magical times. So I am still willing to write some love strategies for you seriously, hoping that they can come in handy. The series
is about to end. Today I am writing the second to last article. I wonder if the first constellation who watched this series has been in love? I have written several issues in the previous series that I don’t think I have anything to worry about. Most of them are not single all year round. If you can’t talk about falling in love, it may be that you can’t think too much or be too busy. Today it is a sign that is really easy to be single all year round. Take my friends around me as an example. The longest person in mother-fetal solo is him - Taurus. Both are earth signs , I think Virgo and Capricorn will give people the feeling that it is not important to be in love, and they are not very needed anyway. Taurus is not allowed to be in love, but it does require relatively emotional support. Taurus will be more sensitive and easy to internalize and cannot divert his emotions, so he needs people around him to give him affirmation. However, it is really difficult for Taurus to fall in love.
requirements are too high
high requirements are of course not a problem. Everyone has their own standards for choosing objects. There are many zodiac signs with many requirements or even outrageous requirements. There is no saying that it is good or bad. I want to list it separately for Taurus here because Taurus is an invisible "perfectionism". In the earth sign, everyone must know that Virgos are nitpicking, and Capricorns are difficult to be satisfied, but few people say Taurus. Most people will think that they are good, easy to talk, have no much opinions, and are willing to follow the crowd among friends or colleagues, and some of them are even bullied and don’t speak out. It's probably such an honest and not very difficult image. Even my Taurus friends think that they have low requirements for choosing a spouse. No! Taurus and the others just didn't say it. Taurus’ requirements for the object can be said to be comprehensive.
I have done a series before, listing ten conditions for voting for the twelve zodiac signs to see which set you eat when choosing a partner. Even when setting options, I also wrote some special words that I think this zodiac sign should be more indifferent. Taurus is the most average in the ten proportions - that is, they all value them. The points that can impress each Taurus may be different, but they do need to cover everything, and you cannot have any special shortcomings.
For example, Taurus "look at face", this face may be all appearance conditions. For example, some Taurus like good figures, some Taurus have hand control, some Taurus has voice control, and some Taurus has leg control, which varies from person to person, but you can't impress a Taurus by looking alone. It looks like a god, but you don't have a job, so it's not possible. Super talented, but he is cold to Taurus, so he can't. He is a rich and rich second generation, but he is a fool, no. No matter how good you look, character, income, and how good you are to Taurus will become a standard of consideration. On this basis, you may still need to have a future to talk about and your life plan must be consistent. So Taurus' high requirements may not be obvious. They will not say that I must find a top handsome guy who can be nice to the eye. It sounds like a wide range of options, but this pleasing person is quite talented, stable in work, promising in career, good family atmosphere, and careful and considerate in such versatile talents.
Taurus will have many small standards that are not worth mentioning. After you start getting along, they will slowly verify their various small standards. If they do not meet them, they will silently deduct points. After deducting this person, they will enter a team that cannot be developed. Taurus is still very stubborn, and this kind of dislike cannot be changed. This point is only deducted, and there is nowhere to add it. It is a good thing to be able to maintain the starting point with Taurus.
and other all kinds of satisfaction are met. Can a person with 100% excellent condition impress Taurus? They also want resonance in the spiritual world, and even Taurus' pursuit of the spiritual world may be high in the real world. There are many zodiac signs that pursue the spiritual world that can skip reality, but Taurus still needs to be down-to-earth and then reach higher fruits.
too strong in prevention
My mother-fetal solo friend has encountered a person who is moved, and has even had several AUA or above, but after getting along for a while, he ended up in vain. I think Taurus men will have many people who are attracted to each other, but the distance between their hearts and actions is really going to last for many years. It is not an exaggeration. It is indeed based on years. I often laugh at him for being thief-hearted but not being brave. Taurus really needs various methods to verify. This person is the right choice. This person will not hurt me, and this relationship will not hurt me. Then you can move forward tentatively. In this process, once the other party has any feedback that is worse than they expected, Taurus will retreat thousands of miles. Sometimes I think Taurus is a bit oversensitive to the warning of damage.
The more you pay attention to a relationship, the stronger Taurus’ self-esteem may become. For example, if Taurus takes the initiative to ask you for dinner and you don’t agree, you may not have another appointment for dinner. Taurus loves horizontal comparisons and makes no sense. For example, why do you speak very gently to others and not so gentle to me? Why do you go back to other people's circle of friends in seconds and not to me in seconds? Anyway, Taurus cares about people, they will always compare the other person's attitude towards them, and then be hurt. If this nail is touched once or twice, Taurus will automatically reduce the position of this relationship in his heart.
Taurus' inability to take the initiative and hesitation are not reflected in actions. You may have encountered many Taurus who are more eloquent on the surface but are not so dull in love, but their strong sense of prevention will not change. A fan had commented before that the Taurus he met was very stupid and had no sense of prevention. The Taurus below answered him in an orderly manner and pretended. Taurus's mental defense is the first of the twelve zodiac signs.
Taurus had all kinds of hesitation before he started a relationship, but sometimes feelings were just a little flame. If you didn’t catch them, they would cool down as you thought about it.Even if this relationship has begun, they will always remind themselves not to rely too much on the other person, and to leave a hand for themselves, and be ready to escape freely at any time. They completely remove their guards, accept another person, and trust another person, and take time to verify repeatedly. This Taurus will not tell the other person. But the problem is that it is more or less possible to be able to devote yourself to the other party. It is always a kind of harm and defecation, and not everyone can accept it.
It is a serious and has no problem to confirm the other party’s feelings for him. I am not encouraging everyone to rush up without hesitation when they meet someone they like. But silent testing is really not a wise solution. Feelings still require interaction. If you are dissatisfied with someone and you have requirements for someone, you need to say. Taurus does not fight for it or express it, and will not take the initiative to please it. If you feel something is wrong, you will run away. Taurus is already very difficult to get close to someone, and is also very good at taking the initiative to retreat.
Indulge in the comfort zone
Once in love, Taurus will find it difficult to bear to break up. Similarly, Taurus has difficulty making up his mind to start a life of two people since a single relationship. It is not easy for Taurus to change the inherent life state and adapt to a new lifestyle. Here is the psychological difficulty in giving trust and dependence that we discussed above. This feeling of discomfort may be completely in real life. This relatively low-intensity discomfort will not cause Taurus to react much, but the uneasiness will always accompany Taurus. Let’s put it bluntly, changing requires too much effort, Taurus is just lazy. It’s not that I don’t want to fall in love, it’s just that I don’t want to work hard. So they may be single for a long time, and they are too lazy to change. If the other party is not taking the initiative to advance, Taurus would not want to spend too much effort
"lazy" may also have various unpositive symptoms, such as having no desire to express themselves, not knowing how to chat with people, being too lazy to reply to your circle of friends, and being too lazy to go out for dates together. Someone sent a long list, and you could only answer a few people, and others thought you were not interested. Of course, if you like someone enough, this kind of laziness can be overcome, but often you just meet some people who are OK. Maybe you can try it, and all the possibility of development will be "lazy".
I think these problems with Taurus may occur when they have not met a person they like enough. Most of the people they choose may be the ones they feel are proactive enough or the right enough. Because you are too careful and serious about love, it is even more difficult to hold it in your hands, and too many restrictions are easy to miss. In fact, love often requires a little bit of the spirit of flying into the flames, and there is no risk or risk.
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