In China's five thousand years of history, many different cultures have been nurtured. They have rich schools and all-encompassing content, among which folk sayings are part of these cultures. The common saying comes from life, and its meaning is concise and clear, easy to understand. It has been passed down to this day after generations of people over thousands of years. The common sayings are rich and diverse, including agriculture, planting, life, weather, and life. They are all summaries of the experiences of the ancients in life, and there is a certain reason to say. Among them, the common sayings related to dealing with people can also be said to be the art of knowing people by the ancients.
Speaking of human recognition, I believe most people will think of facial features and palmistry. In fact, this is not the case. In addition to facial features and palmistry, the ancient human recognition technique also included palmistry, bone features, and body equality. Today I want to talk about it. In fact, facial features are a physique that the ancients used to judge a person's personality by judging his facial features. People often say: "Good and fortune are always at the edge of ugly people" is just such an example. It is not difficult to understand the literal meaning of this sentence. It means that blessings and wealth always exist around ugly people. Does this common saying make sense?
As the saying goes, "Everyone has a love for beauty." Throughout history, who has not pursued a beautiful appearance? Who doesn’t like good-looking skins? In today's terms, a good appearance can enhance your excellent temperament and bring countless opportunities, but is this really the case?
is not the case. Looking at the past and present, taking women as an example, how many beautiful women have a good ending? In terms of appearance alone, there were many beautiful women in ancient times. The well-known Chen Yuanyuan , Xishi , Yang Yuhuan , and Zhao Feiyan , which one of them is not a talented person, but their ending is very miserable, otherwise there would be no saying that the beauty is thin and the life is as thin as paper.
Nowadays, many girls are very good-looking, but in fact, there are "disadvantages but no advantages". Because a girl has been very beautiful since childhood, her parents are also very worried while they are happy, because some girls are beautiful, and she has attracted too much attention in school and cannot concentrate on studying. If you are too beautiful, you will be easily seduced. On the contrary, a girl who is not very good-looking is not so eye-catching and no one disturbs her, so that she can concentrate on studying.
The ancients said, "Good and fortune are always at the edge of ugly people" are actually reflected in women's spouses. Through observation, you will find that many people with high official positions and rich wives are not people with high appearance. The ancients believed that men with high official positions and earn a lot of money are often the reasons for their poor appearance, rather than how capable they are. Why do you say that? In fact, his wife’s poor appearance will save him a lot of unnecessary trouble and allow him to concentrate on his career.
As we all know, Zhuge Liang is a handsome guy. The book describes him as: " is eight feet long, has a crown and jade face, wears a lunar scarf on his head, a crane cloak, and a feather fan. He is elegant and elegant, and has a look of a god." Such an extremely independent person, his wife is a woman with yellow hair, dark skin and ugly appearance. There is a folk saying: , "Don't learn from Zhuge Liang to marry a wife, and hit A Cheng's ugly daughter." It refers to Zhuge Liang and her ugly wife. But in fact, Zhuge Liang's wife is not only ugly, but her talent is very consistent with Zhuge Liang.
After all, the common saying "Good fortune is always at the edge of ugly people" can be passed down for thousands of years and has a certain truth. However, in modern society, only when a person cultivates both inside and outside and through his own efforts is the most effective way to success.