First, let's take a look at the characteristics of people who enter the life palace:
Positive and internal phenomena:
1. Has the essence of tranquility, experience the benefits of tranquility
2. The heart is peaceful and meticulous, gentle and resilient
3. It is not easy to be decadent and depressed, born with care and comfort
4. Has a broad mood space, accommodates many thoughts
5. Experience whether in front of the scene, on the stage, or under the stage, be content with reality, do your best
6. Embrace human nature Have an optimistic attitude
Negative internal phenomena:
1. Cannot maintain inner peace, emotional fluctuations
2. Cannot position yourself, feel that you are nothing
3. It is difficult to express the complexity in your heart even if you have a mouth, the pain of darkness
0 positive external phenomena:
1. Talk appropriately
2. Have personality, give people more cleverness, and have a good impression
3. Treat people with a tolerant heart, and be willing to do things that are beneficial to the public
4. My own opinions, ideas, but I can be content with my status, and I can also gain
5. I have strong endurance and talent in exams, reading, literature and art, and I also show
negative external phenomena
1. I look calm, but I feel anxious and uneasy
2. I always feel that my status is threatened
3. Sometimes my life is chaotic, it is difficult to master the quality of sleep, and my work efficiency
4. I feel lonely, others think they are lonely, and I don’t have any spiritual comfort and understanding
5. I am easily deceived
suggestion:
1. Turn your brain faster and slow your mouth down
Today, on Weibo , I saw a passage from Teacher Luna: "Delayed speaking is a kind of wisdom of expression. Many people's problem is that they respond too quickly. The water poured out of what they say." How many disasters are caused by not thinking, how many words they say and regret are blurted out, and how many businesses are defeated by not being able to speak.
"So when you encounter a moment that makes you very collapse, your brain needs to have a sudden brake mechanism. When your self-control is about to fail, you must quickly start it in your brain. Increase thinking time, use this time to brew vocabulary and speech, and improve euphemism and fullness. Waiting for a while is a kind of concentration. Staying calm is a kind of wisdom."
2. Learn to control emotions, don't get angry easily
, which means that a person is not angry easily, which means that he has more aces in his hands. On the contrary, if a person loses his temper at any time, it means that he has no ace in his hands, and he only has the ability to lose his temper. The reason why people get angry and lose their temper is because they have no choice but to do so.
So don’t get angry at all times, this is a sign of incompetence. This will make people feel that you are an inaction person. You should say more good things, do more good things, make good use of your own advantages, be cold on the outside and warm on the inside, be rational and sweet on the inside. This is likable. No one likes to listen to too much negative news and receive too many negative emotions. Just as a person always complains and even keeps saying bad things about others, slowly everyone's impression of this person is also negative.
3. Understand what you want
I hope you can do your own things, instead of engaging in love or the role of a woman defined by the world every day. If you do this, not only will no one look at you at the top, but you will also be controlled by others.
And those who really like it all have this trait: they are always full of vitality and have what they like to do, but interfere with other people's lives much, understand the boundaries of interpersonal communication, do not show off everything they have, be gentle in words, be kind to others, and have moderate ambitions.
can tolerate the imperfection of life, withstand the bumps of the world, and root everything in life in life.
Don’t be confused and self-doubted all day because of a little thing. You have to be as rational as a man and weigh the pros and cons. Is this matter worth consuming yourself internally and wasting your precious time?
Sometimes we just take others too seriously and don’t take ourselves seriously.This is to some extent you have lost because you lowered your identity and status from the beginning and became a person with a pleasing personality! You must always remember that your beauty and confidence will not change because of anything or anyone. You are you, the irreplaceable you!
With this time of random thoughts, you might as well jump out of your comfort zone, learn new skills, and develop your own multiple hobbies. In addition to reason, a large part of the reason why men can withdraw from failed things is that they will not devote all their energy and focus to one thing. They always develop multiple lines and multiple possibilities like "Aquaman". So if a line breaks, it won’t cause emotional collapse. This is where we want to learn!
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