Humans are "emotional animals". Therefore, we will add an inertial thinking to common sense, which is: when encountering problems that cannot be solved, "move them with emotions and understand them with reason", in order to rely on "sensibility" to solve the "rational" problem. O

people are "emotional animals".

Therefore, we will add an inertial thinking to common sense, which is: when encountering problems that cannot be solved, "move them with emotions and understand them with reason", in order to rely on "sensibility" to solve the "rational" problem.

Of course: This kind of thinking will definitely work for most people.

Because while you think about the problem this way, many people will have similar thoughts to you: you can also feel your difficulty and your emotions express the helplessness behind it.

On this basis, once " empathy " is formed: some things that cannot help you, they may choose to help you.

Some requests that they could not agree to may also "make exceptions"!

But: Whether you believe it or not, there are many people who can put "feelings" second.

In their hearts, the "feelings" she understands will be completely different from you.

So: the concept of "empathy" is basically impossible to produce between you and her.

She can't understand the importance of "what you think" that two people are together, so they must be "independence"; everything must be "you know, I know".

And in her concept, she would think so: "If you have your affairs, I won't disturb you; if I have mine, don't disturb me!"

So: they can go shopping alone and watch movies alone; when you are not very happy, there is no desire to comfort you at all; when you say an idea, she does not have the urge to help you execute it!

even: Many times, they eat something, and you are by your side, and she doesn’t have the urge to ask you “whether to eat”.

When everyone is rushing to pay the bill, he can watch your "performance" leisurely and !

Therefore: If you spend a long time with her, you will feel that this person is "ruthless", as if you ignore all "interpersonal relationships, family affection far and near"!

Moreover, once you get along for a long time, you will feel a huge "pressure and loneliness", and there is basically no way to make up for this feeling!

Because: What people need is "understanding and communication": but "understanding" must be in front of you, so that there will be subsequent communication methods. When "understanding" is simply impossible to achieve, the so-called "communication" is only "talking to oneself"!

When even "talking to yourself" is unwilling to give, then "distance, gap, disappointment" and have to "look down and see you, look up and see you"!

will cause "embarrassment, helplessness" and "willingness" deep in my heart: this is what a series of feelings are like after encountering cold violence!

So, among the twelve zodiac signs, which are the easiest to exist "ruthlessly"?

is actually several "winter zodiac signs": just like in the cold winter, your tactile nerve sensitivity will be reduced, and your reaction will slow down accordingly; for all problems, due to the slow pace of life, I want to get more!

"Scorpio, Capricorn, Sagittarius, and Aquarius in winter" will have corresponding problems: they basically cannot sense what others think, and sometimes, even if they try their best to understand what others think.

The final answer will still be based on her own "feeling in, thinking in".

Therefore: these four zodiac signs are basically alienated from " native family ": because their parents cannot find any sense of existence or a consensus existence in her.

so there will be less communication and a large gap.

And: These four zodiac signs are basically passive to "friends".

Although they know how to "reciting and reciprocating", they do not have a sense of responsibility in "emotional coexistence"!

She doesn’t think she should be responsible for other people’s emotions; she doesn’t think that what she likes must be shared with people around her.

So: With these four zodiac signs, whether they are friends, relatives, family, or marriage, they will feel that these four zodiac signs are more "ruthless"!

But: the most serious of them is "Capricorn"!

Why do you say so? Let’s talk about this topic carefully in this article

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"Saturn Guardian": Pragmatic and "unkind"!

Usually, the limited word "my" will be added to the things that belong to you.

So: Generally, "pragmatic" people understand very well: it is better to rely on yourself than to ask others; no one has the obligation to help you, and if you want to have it, you have to rely on your own efforts to obtain it.

It's like Capricorn, always being protected by "Saturn".

And this star represents the character background: conservative, stubborn, self-disciplined and pragmatic.

So: When Capricorn was very young, they would be very resistant to "seeking others".

Deep in her heart, she will feel: she should do her own things; she should explore what she is interested in.

Therefore: they will have very few requirements for their parents, and they will also have very low questions about their parents.

Speaking of this, everyone's impression of Capricorn is probably very positive, and they can basically be fixed on "independent and self-improvement".

But: let it go, you can understand that this way of thinking has caused harm to "family affection and feelings".

Because the basic relationship between people actually comes from "mutual needs"!

Given a simple example: If you accept the "gift" from others, you will have a "touched" mentality, so you want to give back to others.

In the process of going back and forth, "understanding, communication, mutual knowledge, and mutual love" is produced!

In a team, the happiness of everyone playing together comes from "You trust me, I'll leave it to you". In the process of running-in with each other, we pursue the final score and the result of victory!

And when you are with people, the "demand degree" of comparison is "0".

Others will feel very lacking when they are with you!

And when you feel that others are by your side, it will not help you in any way; the "respect" and "appreciation" of him in your heart will never be possible!

So: In the end, it will lead to a result. "You will forget what she says to you very quickly; you will always be immersed in your own world and close the windows and channels for communication with each other."

This is why: whether it is the "Capricorn" parents, relatives, friends, or lovers, they can easily feel that when listening to you, Capricorn's nod is perfunctory; she will not accept any of your opinions.

Your enthusiastic sentence: Remember to look for me if you have something; the result is that she will never look for you; and once you encounter a dispute, you really want to "explain it clearly and explain it clearly" to her.

And she basically chooses to "silence, leave", which makes you angry and don't know how to solve it!

So if the definition of "human favor" is: to actively understand and explore where the other party's emotional outlet is!

Correspondingly: "Capricorn" guarded by Saturn is really an "unkind" ironclad piece!

"Self" and "selfish": Maybe "self" is even more terrifying!

Capricorn is not a stingy sign: most of the time, she will basically not refuse as long as it is something that others can't use.

Moreover, her concept of "money" will also have that "overly conservative" attitude.

Therefore: although she doesn't like "performance" and rush to pay for it; she doesn't like that "fake" and generous, she is definitely not a "selfish, stingy" person in essence.

But: She has a more terrifying personality than "selfish", that is "self"!

And this "self" comes from the concept of "self-sufficiency": I can live without anyone else, why do I care about what you think, what you think, and what you say?

So: If you talk to Capricorn about your "needs", you want her to make adjustments and change according to your ideas!

she absolutely cannot do it.

Moreover, no matter what topic you debate, no matter how down-to-earth your words are, she will not recognize you.

Then there will be only two final results: one is that you accommodate her, obey her living habits, and cognitive view.

The second is: Don’t continue to discuss, and I don’t want to continue to talk to you about any topics!

So for others: no matter how hard you try to communicate with her, it will either be "you must listen to her, or don't say it"; or after a quarrel, you obey, you will continue to do your own things; or you will do your own things directly!

So: You will eventually find that no matter how you choose and do it, what you want to welcome you in the end is loneliness, not the warmth you imagined!

Especially when others are anxious and will involuntarily "worry and don't know how to do it".

Capricorn's "self" can also make themselves appear "calm": in their opinion, it's useless to be anxious, so it's better to wait calmly.

But in "empathy recognition", this is simply a "cold-blooded" manifestation.

So: In many hospitals, you are scolded hysterically when you see it: When is this time? No matter how I think about it, you are not worried at all!

This person who was scolded may basically be a "Capricorn": because this is the result of their family and other half being suppressed for a long time due to the need for "empathy"!

"necessary" and "unnecessary" and "Capricorn" "Thanos' thinking"!

When you are with someone who can recognize your emotional changes, you will definitely feel "relaxed"!

Because in her eyes, you are "naked": she can grasp your emotional characteristics and use words to regulate your emotional changes!

And if you are with someone who cannot recognize your emotional changes, you will definitely feel "heavy"!

Because she doesn’t know how to look at people’s faces, doesn’t know how to comfort people, and doesn’t know what “consider” is!

So: She will have no interest in "performance", and her satisfaction with your "emotional" needs will be extremely low!

Capricorn is precisely the type of person who "bluntly" the changes in "emotion" and "sensory dullness".

Therefore: She defines herself as “talking” regardless of whether she defines herself as “talking”; fundamentally, she belongs to the category that can’t speak.

Whether she is stingy with "paying", she will definitely not be the best type to know how to "share your own happiness".

So: When they are finally required to "take a team", she will basically not choose her direction based on the "family relationship".

instead chooses your own direction based on what you think is "facts" and the "judgment" you make.

and they need comfort and emotional support, she may tell you directly: Just get used to it!

So: This "rational" communication method is like a "cold" "scalpel".

Although "it" can ultimately solve the problem, both in terms of whether it looks or the whole process, it makes people feel "fear and cruel"!

And Capricorn naturally became the most "ruthless" existence among the twelve zodiac signs!

Seeing this, I don’t know what different opinions and ideas people who have had in-depth contact with Capricorns or who are Capricorns themselves will have!

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