A writer said: The relationship between beauty and happiness has made young people very excited in all eras.
Faceful is the first impression we show to strangers and an important life pass.
The dignified and beautiful face will undoubtedly become a plus point.
No one will see the inner beauty of gold through his sloppy appearance.
A good face is attractive to anyone.
so how can we make the ordinary face look extraordinary?
Reading makes people feel poetic and elegant; praise makes people spit the fragrance of lotus flowers in the courtyard; tolerance makes people feel as if they are as open as the valley.
Cultivate these three temperaments, and the face will become more and more noble and blessed!
01, Read books frequently
Li Xu said: If you don’t write for a day, everything will be desolate.
Daily reading is to increase nourishment for the spirit and nourish the body and mind.
If you don’t study for one day, you will feel that you have wasted your time.
Reading will make the temperament emit a different light.
Zeng Guofan In his letter to his second son Zeng Jize in the first year of Tongzhi , he said: A person's temperament is difficult to change because of his innate nature, but reading can change his temperament. In ancient times, those who were proficient in physiognomy also said that reading can change the sound and appearance.
From some perspectives, we can see that reading increases people's charm and temperament.
I have seen a video made by a blogger @Zhao Jian's reading diary. I first played a piece of myself 15 years ago, and I was still a primary school student at that time.
has a simple face and a clear eyes. He thinks that reading is like eating a banquet, watching TV is like eating fast food and snacks.
and called on students to read by having a banquet.
video converted to the current blogger who participated in the reading circle "the strongest brain" and became the champion.
Confident and wise, full of youthful vitality.
Reading changes the blogger's appearance, not only confident but also elegance of a scholar.
reading has no meaning to the world, but the words in the book can change people's perception of the world and oneself.
Reading opens the door to knowing the world.
Ancient Greek philosopher PlatoSo said: Time takes away everything, and your name, appearance, personality, and destiny will change over the years.
What time cannot be taken away is the connotation formed by knowledge after precipitation.
These connotations have changed our lives and people’s faces.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Min Ziqian was a disciple of Confucius .
First meeting, Ziqian's face was gray and had no magical charm. After learning with Confucius for a while, he became radiant and bright in his eyes.
Confucius was curious and asked why.
Ziqian replied: "When I came here, I was taught by the teacher, read often, and understood many great principles; I learned how to distinguish right from wrong, beauty and ugliness, be calm when encountering things, and my face naturally became rosy."
Confucius stroking his hands and praised him after hearing this.
If a person's mind is often immersed in knowledge, his face will naturally produce spiritual energy and calmness.
reading can nourish the spirit and increase temperament.
I hope we can all pass on the aura in the book, change our words and deeds, and be more charming.
02. More praise
British writer Samuel John said: Praise is like gold and diamonds, but it is valuable because it is rare.
We are all accustomed to criticism and criticism, but we don’t know that praise can inspire people.
Both adults and children want to be recognized by others, and the sincere appreciation is as effective as a heart-warming agent.
Praise is a good means of communication.
Like to praise others, and it also makes people feel comfortable in dealing with people.
Awen in the company is recognized as having a good reputation and excellent performance, and is deeply loved by colleagues and leaders.
Axiang was very curious about this and asked him what secrets he had. Awen only told him two words - "appreciate".
A Xiang thought Awen was perfunctory.
But something happened, but it changed his mind.
That day Axiang asked Awen to discuss the class reunion, but saw Awen coming out of the boss's office with a bunch of documents. Before closing the door, Awen seemed to be inadvertently saying to the boss: "Boss, your tie and clothes are so well matched today. Mrs. Zun really has vision."
The boss's office is a transparent glass wall. The boss was angry just now. Just for this simple sentence, the boss stood up, raised his head and smiled at Awen, with warmth on his face.
Awen turned around and saw Axiang, but Axiang was still thinking about the scene that happened in an instant. He finally realized the charm of "appreciation" that Awen called.
British dictionary compiler To Fuller once said: Praise can make good people better and make bad people worse.
is an ordinary word of praise that will form a powerful energy that will affect a person or something.
The well-known American female entrepreneur Mary Kay Manager once said: There are two things in the world that people need more than money, recognition and praise.
Money is not universal in mobilizing the enthusiasm of subordinates, but praise just makes up for its shortcomings.
The language of praise satisfyes the other party and also reflects the other party's sense of value.
Praise is the most beautiful language in the world, and it also reflects a shadow of virtue.
often praises others, which is a manifestation of one's own virtue.
The language that appreciates makes the other person comfortable while also conveying friendly messages.
always sees other people's shining points, and their eyes and face will also be filled with spring breeze.
03. We must be tolerant
Shakespeare said: There is no good or bad in the world, it is all due to thoughts.
You must tolerate unsatisfactory things in life with a tolerant heart.
The heart is wider, and the road is wider. The hurdle that I thought I could not overcome disappeared.
" Caigen Tan " says: is generous in front of you, and you will be grateful for your long after death
The fields in front of you should be relaxed, so that people will sigh with peace; the favors behind you should stay for a long time, so that people will be grateful for their unsweetness.
A person should be more tolerant in dealing with people in front of him, so that the people around him will not complain unfairly; if you want to leave grace to your descendants and future generations, you must look far away to leave your mind in the world.
used to be good friends in Qiguo Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya .
When he was young, Guan Zhong's family was poor and he wanted to support his mother. Bao Shuya knew about it and invested in business with Guan Zhong.
The money for doing business is invested by Bao Shuya. However, after making money, Guan Zhong got more than Bao Shuya.
Bao Shuya's servant said, "This Guan Zhong is really strange. He takes less capital than our master, but when he is dividing the money, he takes more than our master!"
Bao Shuya said to the servant, "You can't say that! Guan Zhong's family is poor and he has to support his mother, so it doesn't matter if he takes more."
Once, Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya went to the front line to fight. Every time they attacked, Guan Zhong always hid behind, and everyone called him a greedy person who was afraid of death! "
Bao Shuya said: "You misunderstood Guan Zhong. He is not afraid of death, he is saving his life to take care of his old mother! "
Guan Zhong heard this and said, "The one who gave birth to me was his parents, and the person who knew me was Bao Shuya! ”
Later, the eldest prince Zhu of Qi became king and ignored the government every day.
Bao Shuya felt that there would be civil strife in Qi, so he took the little prince Xiaobai to Ju , and Guan Zhongze fled to Lu with the little prince.
Not long after, the eldest prince Zhu was killed, and civil strife in Qi really occurred.
Guan Zhong wants to kill Xiaobai so that Jiu can successfully become the king.
just shot the arrow when he assassinated Xiaobai, but Xiaobai was not dead.
Bao Shuya and Xiaobai returned to Qi early, and Xiaobai became the king of Qi.
After Xiaobai became the king, he decided to grant Bao Shuya the prime minister.
Bao Shuya said to Xiaobai, "Guan Zhong is better than me in all aspects, so he should be invited to be the prime minister!"
Xiaobai heard it, "Guan Zhong wants to kill me, he is my enemy, you actually asked me to invite him to be the prime minister!"
Bao Shuya said, "It's not his fault. He did this to help his master reconcile!"
Xiaobai heard Bao Shuya's words, asked Guan Zhong to come back and be the prime minister, and Guan Zhong really helped Xiaobai to govern Qi very well!
This is " Guanbao's Friendship ".
Bao Shuya's tolerance and understanding of Guan Zhong is far-sighted. He does not care about Guan Zhong's behavior, and is tolerant and understands him again and again.
Even if you can become an official, Guan Zhong will be recommended to do it. I am willing to be a green leaf to set off Guan Zhong.
Some people say: Tolerance is the grain that grows in the thorn bushes.
can be tolerant of others and life will also be tolerant of you.
The tolerant heart is the fruit that bears after encountering various wind and rain.
Tolerance is respect for others, not caring about things and not focusing on details.
04, Austrian writer Zimmermann said: Beauty is often worse than wine because it can intoxicate both the holder and the admirer.
Cultivating the mind is to cultivate the nature, and once the mind is cultivated, the face will also improve.
The appearance is born from the mind, and the good appearance is displayed by the inner mind.
Lin Qingxuan said: Cultivate a normal mind, see surprises in ordinary people, and see concentration in storms; ordinary life is flexible and free.
As long as you repair your heart, it will be as plain as water and there will be no ups and downs when encountering any trouble.
faces are naturally stretched and brilliant, and they are energetic.
Read books frequently. The essence in the book can nourish the spirit and be better than all health products
. The energy of praise can increase motivation, which is better than the most vicious accusations.
Don’t worry, a tolerant mind can repair ravines, and natural barriers can become smooth.
French writer Hugo evaluates appearance like this: If there is no inner beauty, any appearance beauty will be incomplete.
Only by truly maintaining good cultivation and increasing inner qualities can a beautiful face be more touching!
Do these three points and your face will definitely get better and better!
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