(EF @蓝占星)
The effect of Mercury retrograde is not only when I placed an order and bought two floral devices with the same model, but also not only when I met with many old friends, but also listened to it. Many old fans and customers talked and recalled...
An old customer who was struggling emotionally, from her initiative to pursue at first, to her initiative to give up, in such a long time, you can It is said that she has witnessed the process of crossing from this shore to the other shore with her own strength. She must know the bitterness and taste of her alone.
She later sent me this sentence: If you can't please a person with every method you can think of, you can only give up. This is the best way to please.
There is also an old fan. When she is with each other now, both of them feel unhappy and unhappy, but she still doesn't want to be separated from them, she doesn't want to let go, so she wanders in pain and collapse day after day The edge of...
-what can I say? That day I chatted with Xiaochen and an old friend in the tea room. After the tea party, the friend left first. Xiaochen and I continued to chat about those emotional matters. For some reason, I thought of a female guest from Fujian:
The husband cheated and made her feel painful. She tried every means to pull herself out. I told her that you will have a peach blossom next year. Maybe you can understand a lot of things by then... She said how is it possible! Then after a year, she divorced happily and told me: my first love boyfriend came back to me from abroad. He said that he still wanted to be with me at the beginning, but he just needed to go abroad with his parents. When the two met, the boy sent her flowers and sent her home after the chat. She felt that she was respected and she deserved better.
Three months later, she divorced, and she felt no harm. Although she did not marry the first boyfriend, she felt that she had been treated kindly.
Well, because you want to make a flower, you will feel that spring leaves you; if you are spring, you will not leave, there will always be flowers.
I saw a friend’s article a few days ago. Speaking of his following hot searches,Passively followed several big gossip events in recent months. To sum it up in his own words, in general, it is actually the little thing about the couple-giving birth, leaving, tearing up, and getting along with others. Under the sun, there is nothing new. But what is interesting is that the public has very different opinions on these similar things.
He also wrote a few paragraphs like this, let me share one or two with you:
For example, in addition to verbal criticism, a lot of people are speculating whether it’s the actress’s or not. The ex-boyfriend tried to ask for money but turned into anger. He just exposed the inside story and died together?
And the traffic actor who suddenly enjoyed his son, could it be that the woman who fled with the ball took advantage of the opportunity to force him?
A little earlier, and the wife of the president who made a lot of noise on Weibo, the latest news is that she has divorced. If it is true, it must be a terrible storm for the "flower of wealth on earth" in this greenhouse. However, until now, there are still people who are laughing at her as "not smart enough" and "without the wisdom of the big house". As for whether she can continue her life that was suddenly interrupted, whether she has the ability to reflect on herself, clean up her emotions, and start a new life as soon as possible... People really care. She must come out on her own, grow silently, or sink silently.
is also a divorce, Zhou Xun also officially announced the divorce a while ago.
No one laughed at Zhou Xun's middle-aged divorce and abandoned by a man, no one came out to say that her life failed, love will never be a positive result, but envied a lot of people who dare to love and hate-because a normal person can see: Zhou Xun is the dominant party in this relationship. In this relationship, any decision she makes will not harm her personal life.
Especially, as a woman, if you are in a marriage that is in a very disparity, once something happens, the reaction of the bystanders, in addition to right or wrong, there is an indescribable gloat: you see, her good fortune is over!
All the criticisms and denials she has endured are, in the final analysis, because she is the weaker side of this unequal relationship. So she was born to be questioned by everyone for her motives, and after failure, she was ridiculed and made fun of. She was not charismatic and couldn't conquer the funder, accused her of disregarding the overall situation and being self-centered, and picky about her only wanting to enjoy rights and not to assume obligations.
Seriously,In today's extremely strong, realistic and utilitarian society, if the rich and the poor really fall in love with each other, they will doubt their motives without being said by others.
Can you tell whether you love him who is filled with charm by money and power, or who loves him who has completely stripped his status and status and only attracts you by character and appearance?
No one can tell.
Because he can't prove himself, he encounters any setbacks and causes any bad consequences. In the marriage relationship, the weaker party will become the most vulnerable person to be splashed with dirty water, suspected, convicted, and accused of being ignorant.
And the strong, even if they were pointed out by thousands of people at the time, as long as they hibernate, wait for the situation to pass, and do a few good things, they will be forgiven by everyone almost immediately. The most important thing is that it doesn't matter if everyone does not forgive. Neither marriage nor public opinion can really destroy the world of a strong man.
So, reality is often like this: the weak suffer from gains and losses, and the strong do whatever they want.
To have an advantage in a relationship, it is not necessarily money, but it must be self-sufficient. Then in this relationship, any decision you make will not harm your personal life.
The author San Mao has such a passage: self-pity, narcissism, self-suffering, conceit, self-respect, self-rejection, self-harm, self-hate, self-interest, selfishness, self-reflection, self-deception and suicide are all Because of myself. Self-use, self-reliance, self-help, self-sufficiency, self-confidence, self-discipline, self-love, self-sufficiency, self-consciousness, self-renewal, self-defense, freedom and nature are all still from oneself.
And I still remember the sentence most: because you want to make a flower, you will feel that spring leaves you; if you are spring, you will not leave, there will always be flowers.
Happy new week!
editorial assistant
: Rongzhen,Jiaen
