have said to the author this question: "My boyfriend, he is the same when chasing me, and the same when he is really together. Sometimes
, I think: "Is he Captured by aliens, is the person next to me the one I liked at the beginning, the one who pursued me? "Z1z
, in fact, don’t have to wonder about this question. Not only is
different from before, you are also different from before. Why is
?
Imagine that at the beginning, because we were not familiar with each other, we all showed politeness. , Tactful, respectful. When we really get along for a long time, it will become "direct and real."
Therefore, when "roses and well-dressed" are transformed into "pinching feet and running around in pajamas", you will naturally feel There are some gaps.
But after all, "plainness" is true. When two people are together, they are more relaxed and show their true selves to each other. This is the real "run-in", and this is the origin of "happiness and love."
However, since readers and friends are very concerned about this, I will tell you about the twelve constellations, what are the differences between before and after love.
believes that after you finish, when you are in love with this constellation, you will not There is too much "a sense of gap"! The three lovely constellations
Scorpio, Cancer, and Pisces
are called "water signs". The name
is not for nothing but represents these constellations." Delicate and strong in observation ability" also means "internal drama"!
Therefore, being chased by them is a very enjoyable thing. He wants to know what you think, and he will also spend a lot of time and energy. To understand what you want, what you want to listen to, what you want him to do.
And, since it is delicate, you will not miss any small details, a small bridge.
any festival, other "straight men, "Straight daughter", he can remember, and will give you romance and give you warmth.
makes you feel like a "prince or princess".
But this is just "in love" Before", or in the "period of love". Once
begins to fall in love, these three constellations will become very strong. Like these constellations and people "lift the bar", she will say: "Yes, you are right. "Z1z
is looking for all kinds of evidence and reasons to prove that you are "not right."
and this habit will be magnified many times in the "feeling". You will feel that the longer you are in love, the more he will be" Be careful", the more you want to restrain you, the more you want to prove that you can’t do it and you can’t leave him.
In this case, the formerly "romantic and gentle" him slowly began to "disappear".
then came to be "control desire" Super strong, very stingy, I want to care about everything with you, right or wrong!
So, if you start to fall in love with the "water sign", you have to think about whether you can bear it. The prerequisite of "sticking to others and everything in life will have him".
If you are a very "self" and very "stubborn" character, it may be easy to fall in love, but it will be difficult to get along!
Aries, Sagittarius, Leo
actually fell in love, the one who felt the most like "seeing netizen photos" and really seeing the "netizens" is the "fire sign." The big brothers and sisters of
, the big sisters, are after you Sometimes, it will make you feel "everything i do."
He will make you feel next to you every day: "I want to take you to romantic Turkey, and also to Tokyo and Paris by the way. "Z1z
If you want to eat steamed buns ten miles away, he will never buy a "fake" nearby to make you happy.
He will feel like a "spring breeze ten miles" and jogging happily all the way to help you buy it.
At that time, his "heart of fire" was constantly charged by love.
When you feel that this person is "really diligent and really loves me", you choose to fall in love with him.
At the end of the period, you will find that this person neither likes washing clothes, but alsoLike to throw things around.
He started not only not wanting to take you to "Romantic Turkey", but even taking you to the park downstairs, he didn't bother to go.
If you want to eat "buns ten miles away", he who is playing the game will tell you: "Go buy it yourself, buy some for me by the way!"
When you are angry, "No, no, no", it even makes you feel "All fairy tales are deceptive".
In fact, you should have known long ago that feelings are mutual. If you are faced with hot feelings, you want to hold the feeling of "sit back and enjoy the fruits", and the intention of being a "love beneficiary" forever is definitely unrealistic.
So, if you start to fall in love with the "fire sign", you have to know how much he paid, and you have to give him corresponding feedback.
rather than feeling, what you do for me is "should".
Yes, fire elephants are like knights. They like "princesses, princes" and they are willing to fight "evil dragons" for you, but you must be willing to give them "medals" accordingly.
can't they keep working hard, you keep enjoying.
In this way, it is estimated that their love has a shelf life, and after the shelf life, it will no longer be "fresh"!
Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Will you fall in love with this person because he is different from others?
Will you eventually leave him because this person is "different" from others?
find a wind sign, he will definitely make you "feel": I am "like fog, rain and wind" to you!
At the beginning, you will think that this person is so "talented" because the way of thinking of this person is different from that of ordinary people; and because of his clothing taste, aesthetic taste, and the "modification" of his appearance, you are very fond of him .
At this time, a good impression is coming, that is, it is time for him to make you "unwanted".
You will feel a sense of "worries about gains and losses". At this time, if you are a "fire sign", you will care more about him and want to "get" him.
Finally, after your unremitting efforts, you finally got his "love".
The feeling of your whole person is the same as experiencing the "Nine-Nine-Eight-One Difficulties" and finally obtaining the "Truth".
After the results are together, you will understand that in addition to the "Nine, Nine and Eighty One Difficulties", there is also a "Eighty Two Difficulties and Eighty-Three Difficulties" waiting for you.
's innate self makes him dislike "trouble" and don't want to face the "trivialities" of life; he who doesn't like "these", you think he might listen to your "trivial things and your troubles" "?
So, at first, the "knowing cold and warm" you feel is on them, you may not find it in the end.
and with the end of "love", the feeling of "not grasping and touching" will become stronger and stronger.
Therefore, if you are a "lack of security" and need a warm character, "wind sign", you should not try to touch it.
Because of how this "feeling of the gap" will make you come, go back the same way!
Virgo, Capricorn, Taurus
When you read the above three, you will feel: "It's better to find an honest person!"
By the way, you also turned on the computer and played a song of Faye Wong's "Red Bean" , When you hear: "Wait until the scenery can be seen through, maybe you will accompany me to watch the long stream." This line of lyrics.
You nodded with satisfaction, these three "stable" constellations are really good! It's stable now.
Yes, when you feel that the other nine constellations are not reliable, a character who is willing to live a stable life is undoubtedly the best for you. When
is with him, you will feel "stable and warm", and you will feel "spoiled and loved".
His "20-year-old age with 30-year-old face", no matter how you seem to think "too suitable for my young heart."
However, life is not a fairy tale that "stops abruptly" when the prince and the princess live a happy life.
After the "passionate love period", the problem came again.
has chosen twoIn people's life, one must think of the tacit understanding of "I am in you and you in me".
But these constellations seem to lack such a little "smart", they don't understand what you think, they only know how to do their own things.
When you need comfort or understanding, he always tells you: "How about drink more hot water!"
When you fell angrily, he looked at you with indifferent eyes: "Come on, you should be tired after a while."
And, no matter what, he always lacks such a bit of "romance", but is always so "practical".
No matter what you argue, he will eventually overwhelm you with a strong and angry roar.
Finally, the gap in your heart has come again.
At this time, you will understand that the original twelve constellations are all right. The most problematic
is myself.
comes from "psychological expectations" because of the "gap".
When your "expectations" of others are too high, you get a little bit less, and you will feel "lost".
When you hear the song "It’s not that simple", you always hum along: "It’s not that easy to fall in love!"
But have you continued to sing along: "Everyone has his temper and has passed love The age of dreaming is not as vigorous as peaceful"?
So, since you are so unhappy, why don't you demand high points for yourself and low points for others?
If you ask your partner to be a "prince", then what you want of yourself should be at least a "princess".
When you are a princess, you think: "Either I find a prince who looks ordinary". At this time, a handsome prince will give you a "surprise".
is afraid that you are a "Cinderella", you always think, even if I am not a princess, I will marry a prince.
Then this story is not "Cinderella", but the story of "The Fisherman and the Goldfish"! The corresponding "psychological gap" of
will accompany you throughout the "love period" until you are willing to watch the "long stream of water".
So, after reading this article, find the "pros and cons" of each constellation.
Choose the one that suits you best, and you don't necessarily have to make others adapt to you; if you make some sacrifices, make some changes, and adapt to others, what will the end be like?
Okay, this concludes this article. Thank you for reading, and I look forward to your views, ideas, and opinions.
I wish everyone a happy mood, and you can find your favorite and the person who loves you the most!
