Wen/Ling Ting Qiqi
Many people are eager for others to take the initiative, of course, some people like to take the initiative, but after the active enthusiasm is consumed too much, the rest will only let the feelings It becomes superfluous, especially for those who will be particularly obvious at the beginning of the relationship. They need to respond to their own efforts. Once their concern is waiting for a late response, they will reverse the emotional matter. Today Let's talk about caring that once you are late, there will be only extra constellations left in your relationship. (The following constellations do not only refer to the sun sign)
Aries: Excessive consumption of enthusiasm, no passion
and Aries love, in fact, there is still a little brain-burning, although they like the active mode, do not like others licking themselves, but if Their active enthusiasm is consumed too much by people, and there will be times when they burn out. After all, Mars will not burn all the time, and there will also be times when the consumption is stagnant or retrograde. They are explosive, but they may not last for a long time. time.
Therefore, when Aries is taking the initiative to you, you'd better also give some expressions at the right time. You must have a caring attitude towards them. Otherwise, even if the affection of Aries towards you is very hot at first, your indifferent will be affected. Aries is exhausted, they will be passionate when they like you, but it doesn't mean that you will be allowed to keep giving, and you don't have to do it at all.
Although the emotional interaction of Aries does not require you to do too much action, you can’t do nothing. You completely lose the “working ability” in the relationship. That is tantamount to the relationship with Aries becoming crippled. When you care about you, the passion for you will gradually fade. Then this relationship is unnecessary for Aries, and there is no value at all. It turns out that Aries is so passionate about you, and this time also It will become ruthless, because you don't understand the care that Aries needs, not your endless requests, even a little bit is enough.
Sagittarius: Excessive enthusiasm is wasted, likes become superfluous.
Sagittarius and Aries are actually a bit similar in their relationships. They care, and their enthusiasm soars instantly, almost at the next table, the people in the next class, and sometimes even the neighbors next door. You can know who Sagittarius likes. Their movements are too big. They can be so bold that people around them can almost notice their emotional surge. The likes are so straightforward, and the enthusiasm will follow.
And Sagittarius also has one thing in common with Aries, that is, they don’t like being licked, that is to say, for Sagittarius, they also need to take the initiative, otherwise they will find it boring, but if you are the same kind of nothing Do, just wait blindly for Sagittarius to give, over time, Sagittarius’ feelings will also change, because their emotional exhaustion is tantamount to a waste, let alone the test of time.
Smart people will not lick the feelings of Sagittarius, but they will not let Sagittarius feel that this relationship is totally fruitless. To put it differently, it should be like flying a kite to Sagittarius. Let it go, but you remember, you can’t put them too high or far, you still have to be within your control, otherwise the line will float away, so once the Sagittarius’ feelings become wasted, you can’t see it at all. Your care and concern, even if they like it again, they will retreat. What they liked later became redundant. In the end, only your regret and sadness remain, because once Sagittarius decides to drift away, there is basically no possibility of turning back. .
Aquarius: Give too much enthusiasm, goodbye to strangers
Aquarius is a person who feels indifferent and ruthless, and seems to have become the kind of unwilling group in love. In fact, on the contrary, the passion in Aquarius’s relationship is still not Less, but not everyone can feel deeply, because the enthusiasm of Aquarius comes from the little bit of life, they will subjectively solve various problems for you, and share various problems for you.
Their enthusiasm is to solve problems for you. You have to know that it is not easy to make them willing to do something. If you feel that these behaviors of Aquarius, your love for you is fixed, and you think you can take it. They are, it is estimated that you are not far from the unfeeling of Aquarius. They pay for you and take the initiative for you. They all hope you can see their greatness. With such enthusiasm, they just hope that they like people Can know their abilities, can give worship, give appreciation, not in disguiseFor the other side's "tool".
Once you are late for the care that Aquarius wants, then basically you will not be far away from strangers. Even if the Aquarius is unfeeling, even if you have feelings for you, you will not know you. Basically, it is best to go with you. Clear boundaries, in the end you will feel that Aquarius is very ruthless, but if you turn your head and see if you have paid for you in Aquarius, you will give you proper care and admiration. If not, don’t think they are just feelings." Slag".
Ling Ting talks about
feelings. Most of the time, it is two-sided. One person’s giving always needs the other’s response. It’s just that some people’s needs are smaller, and some have greater needs. People who have to give and get are the same, and some people need to get more than they give, but if there are a few who give more than they get, please seize their enthusiasm, because once you think this is a kind of Inertia, not interaction, is basically not far from breaking up. Any relationship requires both parties to give their love, no one is exception.
