Recently, "Xinchuan Middle School 1107 Incident" has aroused widespread concern from all walks of life. A high school girl who could not bear the verbal violence of the class teacher chose to jump into the river and kill herself to end her young life. This incident once again aroused everyone's ardent attention to school violence. Compared with the well-known school violence incident, the violence in this incident came more from the spirit, which is what everyone often calls soft violence.
The high school girl jumped into the river and committed suicide. The head teacher became the pusher behind
. "Isn’t the best thing death?" It’s hard to imagine that this is a 17-year-old girl who uttered a silent sigh in the most beautiful years of life.
According to my understanding, this female high school student is a gentle and shy girl in the mouth of her classmates, and in the eyes of the junior high school teacher, she is even more an outstanding student who works hard. After entering high school, the ups and downs of grades are a very common thing, but according to the high school head teacher, she "improved her grades is cheating, and her bad exams are due to her premature love."
The last straw that crushed this female high school student was precisely from her high school head teacher. It is reported that the head teacher once called the girl’s parent in front of the whole class. After that, rumors about her circulated everywhere in the class. The girl who was only a teenager and weak and introverted finally couldn't bear the negative energy and chose to leave the world.
When it comes to the topic of campus mental violence, most people will suggest that when encountering such a situation, do not forbear, and take the initiative to talk to the class teacher! But when this kind of mental violence comes from the teacher in charge and the identity that students can rely on, what should they do as a student? The
incident caused an uproar on the Internet as soon as it went out. Many netizens who had studied at Xinchuan Middle School or knew about the middle school said: "The teaching equipment of Xinchuan Middle School is very good, but the teaching concept should be changed. !"
actually comes from teachers’ language violence, and the Xinchuan Middle School incident is not an exception. In the teaching process, teachers ridicule, discriminate, abuse, and discriminate against students, all of which belong to a form of teacher language violence. Teachers have a certain degree of guidance in front of students. If teachers cannot treat students correctly and equally, why ask other students to treat others correctly?
When will school mental violence stop?
Generally speaking, teachers’ frequent language violence generally originates from teachers’ backward educational concepts or some quality problems in teachers themselves. Language violence itself destroys the essence of education. It is not a good teacher who teaches well. Correct education methods and educational concepts are also essential! The reduction of language violence in schools requires not only teachers, but also teachers’ self-reflection, corresponding measures taken by the education department, and the improvement of students’ parents’ awareness!
01 Teachers’ own mentality must be adjusted.
To teach and educate people, first of all, you must become a capitalized person, and you must not make some radical behaviors or say some radical words! Since you are a teacher, you should do what you should do as a teacher. The so-called being a teacher, preaching and teaching knowledge, teachers’ emotions in their personal lives should not be brought to the work level. In order to adjust the mentality of teachers, teachers can hold regular activities to help teachers relax, strengthen communication, and adjust their mentality.
02 Teacher’s language behavior should be added to the assessment.
A truly good teacher should not only examine his teaching ability and knowledge reserve, whether his own moral quality and behavior match the identity of a teacher, and whether his own personality is suitable for becoming a teacher A qualified people's teacher, whether the teacher has a good mentality to calmly respond to some emergencies, these should be included in the scope of teacher assessment.
Teaching and educating people is not just about teaching, but more importantly, educating people. If the teacher himself cannot be an admirable person, the wrong demonstrations and bad behavior language brought to the students will affect the students. The future has a very negative impact.
03 Parents of students must learn to take the initiative to defend their rights
In the eyes of most parents, what the teacher says is always right. One can say 100% respect and trust for teachers. It is precisely because of this wrong psychology that most parents will try their best to meet the requirements of teachers. But when parents send their children to school, in addition to hoping their children have a bright future, they also = hopeA child can become a good person with good conduct and admiration!
Therefore, parents can't just pay attention to their children's performance, and can't blindly follow the teacher's words, they should carefully explore the reasons and understand the truth! When you find that things are off the right track, you should boldly stand up and speak for your children!
In the eyes of most people, only physical injuries to students fall into the category of school violence, but in fact, mental violence is far more serious than physical injuries. Mental violence can destroy a child's self-esteem and even destroy his hope in life. Therefore, both parents and students should treat mental violence in a correct way. It is also an intolerable act of school violence. When there is any signs of similar mental violence, you must stand up in time to protect your rights and protect your rights, so that your blooming years will become truly sunny!
In short, whether the violence on campus comes from the body or spirit, whether it comes from classmates or teachers, where there is violence, there will be shadows. The flowers under this shadow cannot be bathed in the warm sunshine. If you grow up positively and cannot feel the beauty of the real world, you will have the excitement of the phrase "the best thing is not death". I hope everyone will take it seriously and avoid a similar tragedy from happening again!
