family is the harbor for each of us, and the driving force for our struggle. It is also the first school for children to grow up. It is also the first place for parents to operate and manage. However, to run a family well is only a material condition. It is far from enough, but we need to maintain it carefully.
There are many reasons for the decline of a family, but the fundamental reason for a family to prosper depends on these five "fundamental", which will inevitably prosper and be full of blessings!
1. Diligence and thrift are the foundation of family management
Interpretation: Diligence and thrift is the foundation of managing a family well.
Diligence and frugality are the good virtues recognized by the Chinese since ancient times, as well as an attitude to life. It determines whether we can establish a career, maintain a career, and become a great career.
Zeng Guofan said: "There is nothing difficult in the world with diligence." If a person can maintain the virtues of hard work and thrift, then there is nothing impossible in the world. Similarly, a family, if the children and grandchildren can continue the tradition of hard work and thrift, then the family business will definitely become more and more prosperous.
No matter how rich a family is, one should not stay away from hard work and thrift. On the one hand, money can accumulate, and there is always no squandering that comes quickly; on the other hand, hard work and thrift in the family is a guide to children and grandchildren, and understand that life is hard-won , Seeing hard work and creativity can gain something, frugality is to cherish the fruits of labor.
Because no matter how much wealth, there will always be a day of squandering. Knowing how to use your own hands is the inexhaustible treasure.
2. Heshun, the foundation of the family
Interpretation: Harmony and Anshun are the foundation of family rectification.
Zuo Zongtang said: "Between families, harmony is the most important thing." Family harmony is prosperous, and the family must be full of harmony and harmony. The cold house and the place full of furniture cannot be called a home. Only when someone lives in it happily and harmoniously can be called a home.
Family members emphasize the word "harmony". If you can retreat, take a step back and be tolerant. Then the friction between the wife and the wife will be solved.
In a family, the most taboo is the disharmonious relationship between family members. If the husband and wife or brothers quarrel all day long, the blessing will be driven away. If family conflicts continue, and dealing with family relationships every day is exhausted, there is no energy left to work hard.
As the saying goes: home and everything are prosperous. Heshun is the secret of harmony and happiness in a family, the foundation of a family. The family must be filled with peace and harmony, and everything will be happy.
3. Be cautious and protect the family
Interpretation: Be cautious and prudent, is the foundation of protecting family business.
people's life cannot be smooth sailing, and the more you are at the peak of your life, the more you will encounter all kinds of difficulties and obstacles. This is the so-called "overwhelming coldness".
needs to hide his edge and treat others courteously. In fact, no matter what kind of situation you are in, as long as you can maintain the virtue of modesty and caution, it will help you break through the difficulties and obstacles of life. When doing things,
must be humble and prudent, and at the same time do your best. No matter how great the results are, you must not strive for credit.
is always aware of danger and security, be careful, understand your own position, and hold your own points, so that you can do things from beginning to end, and avoid the bad situation of "wood show in the forest, wind will destroy it"
so , Only by remaining cautious and not letting down your vigilance at any time can you hold onto your family business.
4. Poems and books, the foundation of the Qi family
Interpretation: Reading poems and books is the foundation of revitalizing family business.
"The Family Instructions of Zhu Zi" says: "Although descendants are stupid, they must read the scriptures." Although the descendants of
are a little stupid and have not so good qualifications, they must not not read the scriptures. Because people read the classics, he understands the morals and how to behave.
The ancients also told us that what happens in a person's life is mainly based on the first fate, the second luck, the three geomantic omen, the four accumulate virtues, and the five readings, which makes sense.
look at it upside down, that is, reading, accumulating virtue, feng shui, luck, fate, telling us that we should study hard first, understand and practice the truth, accumulate considerable practical experience, improve our own moral training, of course, it is easier to conform to God’s Order, and get more luck.
Therefore, studying hard and thinking more and changing their destiny through knowledge is the most practical way for the poor, which will then bring prosperity to the family. On the contrary, homeNo matter how big a clan has a foundation, but without a scholarly atmosphere, it will be ruined sooner or later if it cannot learn to understand reason.
5. Accumulate goodness, the foundation of the family
Interpretation: Doing good and accumulating virtue is the foundation of inheriting family business.
"Good is rewarded for good, and evil is rewarded for evil." The same is true for a family. If everyone in this family is very kind and does some good deeds, the family will also have good things, but if you often do evil and end up Will suffer.
Doing one good every day is better than making money every day, doing one good every day, doing one good every day, accumulating good deeds, and accomplishing three thousand deeds every day. If a family understands and truly accumulates good deeds, then it is also for future generations. An extremely good thing, its descendants will also get corresponding blessings.
As parents, we must educate our children to do good and accumulate virtue, and pass this concept down from generation to generation, so that the family business can be passed on and prosper for a long time.
