There is a saying on the Internet: "Everyone's old age is a bloody storm."
people are old and their influence on the people around them is getting smaller and smaller. Even if you are an elder, you will not make much money because you are in poor health and you will be at risk of being abandoned.
If you want to live "safe and without any trouble", it is basically not a big problem for rich people, and it can be solved easily. But for ordinary people, the four words "safe and nothing" are difficult to achieve.
Some people are sick and dare not go to the hospital for examination, for fear that if they find out a major disease, spend all their family money, and put huge pressure and burden on the family.
A person's fate in his later years seems to be closely related to himself, but in fact, this fate is also related to our family conditions and the wealth we have.
The most worrying thing now is the post-65s generation. The post-60s generation retired and went ashore. No matter how helpless he is, he can only face reality. Only the post-65 who is almost retired is still struggling.
Even in the generation born after 1975, they still need to face huge pressure on "superior care". I can only say that every generation of has not had a good old age.
65 to 75 middle-aged people born in 465 to 75 will be more difficult to "stay until old age".
1. Without a stable living income, it is difficult to be stable until old age.
This is an era of "material desires". No matter what issues we talk about, we cannot do without the word "money". To be honest, things like
coins are extremely vulgar. They will not bring them in life or death. But it is this common thing that allows us to spend our whole life working hard and striving.
asked some middle-aged people a question: When people get old, what is your greatest hope?
Most people have given an answer: "My greatest hope is that when I get older, my daily income will be more stable."
For ordinary people, they know that they have no chance to be "rich and noble" in this life, so they no longer pursue it. Looking at the gradually increasing pressure on life, they just want to live a stable life.
The word "stable" is difficult to achieve, and we basically need to have certain resources and family background. can only be said that it is difficult for workers who make money by selling their strength to have a stable income when they are old.
This is destined to be the hurdle of old age. It is very sad and difficult to survive.
2. Chicken baby years ago, but the children are still not outstanding enough.
In recent years, there has been a saying that has been circulated by people: "Accept your own ordinaryness, accept the ordinaryness of your parents, and accept the ordinaryness of your children." Another meaning of this statement is that it is particularly difficult for ordinary people to stand out among thousands of people. If we are ordinary people all our lives, we can only accept ordinary reality.
For parents and us, ordinary is the truth of life, just accept it. But for children, if they are ordinary, they can’t even afford to get married, and buying a house and car is a problem, let alone start a family and have children.
Just like the first generation of parents born in the 1965, most of their children are born in the 1990s, so they devote a lot of money to their children, hoping that their children can make their mark.
Who knows that children will either be unemployed or need to empty their parents' money to buy a house, or have a salary of several thousand, and can only support themselves in big cities. At this time, parents' plan to "raising children to prevent old age" was failed.
Ideals are full, but reality is cruel. All parents are in the middle of the game, and all parents hope that their children will make their mark, which is impossible after all. From the perspective of 28 law , 80% of people have to become ordinary workers with average wages, and only 200% of people can become elites. Everything is very realistic.
3. After a lifetime, the body becomes a medicine jar.
We should feel that after 45 years old, our health is not good. either goes to the hospital every day or takes medicine from time to time, and the body becomes a medicine jar.
65 to 1975 are born in the age of 45, and some are still about to retire. They are impressed by the word "medicine jar" and are particularly disgusted with it.
They don’t want to be medicine jars, but they have to go out to work. Some people still have to continue working hard work and silently survive for life. overdrawn their healthy people, and they only have one idea, just watch their children grow up. This particularly pure wish is difficult for some middle-aged people to realize. Especially those who are in the middle way and other people, they only leave countless regrets to their families.
In recent years, the number of people who left before the age of 49 has increased, and there are countless people who can't stand the age of 59. Life accidents are never discussed with us, they always come suddenly, catching us off guard.
can only say, take good care of your health and be able to survive for a long time is the greatest success.
to the end
Middle-aged people born from 65 to 75 are worried about the midlife crisis, while others are worried about the crisis in their later years. In fact, the problems they face are all similar.
is either a problem of money, an unemployment, a family, or a deposit...
After all, it is still the word "money", which makes people feel what it means to "a rich man, a poor man is difficult."
The rest of your life, I just hope that you can save money, hold the assets in your hands tightly, and don’t let yourself live a humble life anymore.
text/Shushan Youlu
