Since childhood, we have only made us cry. Movies, cartoons, and TV series that are moved basically describe topics that are "related to love".
When we see these people or things that are willing to give for "love" and willing to sacrifice for "feeling".
That kind of warmth comes from the heart.
So, sometimes, tears will be out of control. The touching mood, even if you know that these things tell stories of others or stories of nothingness, you will still feel "happiness" in your heart!
This shows that in our hearts, the definition of "love" is: warmth, tolerance, understanding, and dedication.
At the same time, our "ultimate desire" is also these!
So, when you see these things, you will resonate with your inner expectations, making us yearn for it!
However, at this time, the problem arises.
Because: Everyone is moved by "points" that are basically the person who is cared for. It's so happy to have someone who cares about you!
I really envied this person who has been infinitely forgiven.
But: Everyone has become such a person, who will "pay"?
Who will work hard, persist and pay for your "touching"?
Therefore: in love, the greater the expectations of people, the stronger the feeling of loss; the more yearn for the extremely romantic love "in film and television dramas", the harder it is to manage your own "feelings" well!
The reason is that when you are too eager for everything created by "others", you will have too high requirements for "others" and too low for yourself.
. In this link, what I think of is always "myself gains and losses", and ignores "other people's needs"!
In this way, the "status" of the two parties in the "emotional relationship" will begin to become unequal.
, which leads to: your attitude towards others becomes worse, your demands become more and more, and you feel more and more natural about other people's efforts, and you lose your gratitude.
And the most terrifying thing is: I don’t think there is anything wrong with this.
Because: the things I have seen since childhood, the that can move me all come from "other people's efforts"; it does not depend on my own efforts.
Then the corresponding one: Once you develop this kind of psychology, in the "emotional relationship", you are enjoying it, others will become more and more tired; the more you speak, the more you are unquestionable, the more others will be suppressed; the more you are moved, the more wronged others will be!
The final outcome will definitely be: others will escape from the world with you!
This is why more and more people will never think that they are wrong in their relationships, but that they are all the reasons for the other party’s badness.
is also the main problem that a relationship is difficult to maintain; marriage and love are difficult to last.
So, from the perspective of zodiac signs: Which zodiac signs will make people feel the most "hard"? Let’s talk about this topic in
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Please refer to your own zodiac sign, or your own "ex-in-command, current" sign to see if the author's logic is correct!
Aquarius: Only focus on "self", but never admit it!
"Peaceful" actually everyone understands: when others respect you, you must respect others.
This will make others feel comfortable, and at the same time, it will lay the groundwork for gaining other people's "respect".
However: In , the concept of Aquarius deviates from this "conservation" to a certain extent!
Because "gain and loss mind" will make her feel happy when she "gain", and will feel extremely disgusted when she "gain".
Therefore: the better the relationship, the harder it is to maintain "politeness"!
In many cases, you are listening to Aquarius, and if you are distracted, she will be very angry.
When you talk to her, she feels boring, or if there is something else to do, she will take out her mobile phone to do something else anytime and anywhere.
And when you question this matter, she will get angry and tell you: I have something to do with me, have you not seen it? I have been listening to you all the time!
And in the end, if you quarrel, you choose to be tolerant, and the smart one feels guilty.
She feels guilty that 's "point" is not: what she asks you is different from what she wants to herself.
But: She felt that she had a little too temper and shouldn't have gotten so angry.
So: The problem has not been solved, and she will not realize that she does not respect you. In the future, this way of getting along will continue infinitely.
This also includes many Aquarius discussing the " empathy " issue, and they will say this: I don't have empathy, it depends on who I like; I will naturally have people I like; why do I have those I don't like or don't like? The sentence
seems very "atmospheric", but there are many problems.
Because: "She likes it, she doesn't like it; she likes it, she doesn't like it" is the point.
means that "she respects a person with conditions", rather than being bound by "morality and rules".
Corresponding: You are kind to me = I smile at you, this law of conservation does not hold true in the world of Aquarius!
And in her emotional world, she is both a player, a referee, and a rulemaker.
So, how can you win the competition with her, how can she listen to your principles, and how can you not suppress your relationship with her?
So, if you are an Aquarius, it is not your attitude or temper, but your way of thinking.
Because: Before you knew it, you feel that you are very free and are hurting the people around you all the time.
And the reason for all this is because: you are a person who lacks " empathy with heart, empathy"!
Scorpio, Virgo: Don’t say anything, I’m for your own good!
In a relationship, everyone needs to play their own role.
Because: this is a need to reflect the sense of existence and self-worth.
However, there are two constellations, because of the lack of "sense of security", they must erase other people's "sense of existence and value" and make others become the "role" they want.
Because of this, they can feel safe and comfortable when they get along!
And these two constellations are exactly the "Virgo, Scorpio" with the strongest working ability and the sixth sense among the twelve constellations!
So: When you start getting along, what you feel is the meticulousness from these two constellations.
You will think that your "charm" attracts them, which makes them so concerned and fascinated by you.
But after getting along, you will find that the places they like you are places that are absolutely not allowed to continue to exist in the later stage.
Because: This will make them feel "feared".
This is like: a person who obtains wealth "once occasionally through a channel", what he fears most is that others block this channel, or others come to grab this channel with himself.
So: What they have to do is: the more ordinary this channel, the better it is.
And you must push everyone close to this channel far away, so that you can feel at ease!
So: After the "meticulous" period, you will find that people in these two zodiac signs will like to pick you more and more. The places you admired you before will become criticism; they will become increasingly disgusted with what you do.
must intervene in everything you do: not only do you have to care about what you do, what you eat, what you wear, and even what you "think"!
So, when the "value of existence and self-worth" that you need most is infinitely deprived of in your relationship.
In love, the other party will definitely want to "resist" and will definitely create "depression"!
At this time, the method used by "Scorpio, Virgo" is to "use both soft and hard": she has an account book that records how to treat you well, and how to treat you well on a certain day of a certain year, and has recorded in detail.
In addition: She also knows what you are most afraid of, where your weaknesses are, and where you are sorry for her.
So: No matter how much you suppress it, once you resist, they will stand on the moral high ground and suppress you.
will use your own plan, prepared lines, and remember everything related to you, so that you can understand: she is right, but you are the one who has no conscience!
But: feelings are not "win or lose", nor are they "work, interests"!
When a person's sense of existence becomes lower and lower, everything he can think of will be "escape"!
This is the same as a hungry person. No matter how good the truth is, he can't listen. He just wants to "eat".
So, if you are these two zodiac signs, especially girls, don’t be strong anymore.
What you think is "will not lose if you hold it firmly" is the biggest deduction in emotional relationships!
Gemini: I think it’s nothing” for what you care about!
The so-called respect is: when two people get along with each other, if I have feelings for you and you are kind to me, I can disagree with your hobbies or your bottom line.
But I will hold on to it firmly, and I will listen quietly and appreciate it!
However, this kind of "respect" is something Gemini cannot understand.
In her thinking: what is in front of us is much more important than what is in the future.
Correspondingly: What I want is more important than what you want!
Therefore: she will not have a kind of "we are in love", what I do will affect your concept.
So: In a circle of friends, she will joking with others and keep ambiguous.
In her opinion, this is just a show-off. On the one hand, it is to make yourself feel very charming, and on the other hand, it is to make yourself more acknowledge yourself in this way!
But: She doesn't understand that after two people are together, what she does will become a handle on the "other side" circle of friends.
will also become the most advantageous weapon for others to attack their "partner".
This is actually a lack of "sense of responsibility".
However, when the other party talks about these principles with Gemini, what Gemini thinks is: I am happy for myself, nothing wrong; if you think it is not good, you can separate, and I don’t care.
So: Many times, when talking about these issues, there will be quarrels, and even if it is reconciled, it will be difficult for her to get rid of this problem.
Because in her perception: I live for myself, nothing wrong; in the face of temptation, who can withstand the test!
But: The trust between people does not come from "leniency", but from "persistence"!
The feelings between people come from " person accumulates ", not "newness"!
This is why: the reason why many people leave sadly after getting along with Gemini!
Their hearts are saying: I like you, and I also like your elegance; but you can't give me the sense of security I need. When I work hard, you can't help me, but it's a hidden danger; you can give me anything, but what you can't give me is a "sense of trust". Even if I deceive myself again, I still can't believe in "you" in my heart!
or above is a comprehensive analysis of which constellations I have with are the easiest to feel tired!
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