Focus on career, four-step balance
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"Go to bed and hold the bed" is often used in Cantonese to describe a person: if you like it, think about it twice, and be more flawless.
If your couple has this habit, how should they deal with it?
2,
is like one day, Xiao Zhang wanted to ask his girlfriend to play basketball, but his girlfriend said, "I'm too tired and don't want to play."
So Xiao Zhang thought of a solution and said, "There are too many beauties on the basketball court, why don't you sit next to me and watch me play." As a result, my girlfriend had to sit down obediently and watch him play ball. (laugh ~～)
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played for a while, and Xiao Zhang said again: "Look, other beauties are on the court, it's so embarrassing that you are sitting alone on the sidelines. Why not come in and shoot a basket." So my girlfriend had to enter. (laugh ~～)
shot for a while, and Xiao Zhang said again: "Xiao Wang's girlfriend was very good yesterday, and even Lao Wang couldn't beat her. Why don't we compare who scored more goals? If she wins, I'll buy you a new phone." So, my girlfriend happily pilled. (applause~～)
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and the above stories are just a metaphor. We use it to illustrate: how people's wishes are reversed step by step.
From the beginning when my girlfriend was unwilling to play basketball, she finally played happily. Xiao Zhang relies on splitting the movement into multiple steps, laying a reasonable environment for each step, so that the last step can be achieved naturally.
Of course, suggesting your girlfriend to play basketball is not a bad thing, but what if the other party uses this trick to make your girlfriend do other things she doesn’t want to do? A recent popular game of
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uses this kind of trap. From the beginning you thought it was a simple game, the second step was to fight for dignity, then you fell into a herd mentality and could not extricate yourself, and finally formed obsessive-compulsive disorder...
Of course, as a positive energy program, we are not teaching everyone how to use this trick to cheat people. Instead, let everyone see the essence of this kind of trap and use reasonable methods to free it.
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As mentioned earlier, the principle of this move is: each step lays a reasonable environment for the action and realizes a natural transformation between the environment.
is like, if you want to pull the quilt before you go to bed, it is very unnatural. If you can borrow half a bed to sleep for a while, and then pull half a quilt to cover it, you can let every step of the next step be natural. (laugh ~～)
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To break this kind of trap, the key is: always focus on your high-dimensional direction.
is like, when Xiao Zhang wants to ask his girlfriend to play basketball, his girlfriend said, "I go to practice yoga every night. Why don't you come over after playing basketball and practice with me."
When you already have a clear high-dimensional coordinate, no matter how the other party sets it up, it will not allow you to deviate from the center of the circle. The real charm of Capricorns is: focus on doing things. When you can tell your girlfriend "what is my macro vision and what to do today", she will feel that you are a trustworthy man.
This is:
The wisdom of goats (climbers)
How to overcome the sheep's psychology?
Four-step balanced speaking method (action method, creation method)
2022.09.28Shen
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