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The ancients repeatedly emphasized the impact of personality and habits on destiny. "The Analects of Confucius·Yanghuo" says: " is similar in nature and is different in habits." There is also a famous line in "Three Character Classic": "At the beginning of a person, he is good in nature, and is similar in nature and is different in habits."
The so-called fortune is nothing more than the result of accumulating a person's personality and habits and daily behavior preferences.
Everything in the world has a cause and a result, and there must be a cause. There is never love and hate for no reason, nor is there any result without reason.
people cannot succeed by luck, they can only achieve something through hard work. People who have good luck and people who always suffer from bad luck must have had huge differences in behavioral habits over the long period of time.
Everyone hopes that they will have good luck, but not everyone is qualified to achieve everything they want.
In life, many people will spend money to ask "experts" to tell fortunes from time to time, and even spend a lot of money to seek guidance or break the deadlock. It can be seen that fortune is very important in people's minds.
But everyone's fortune is not as mysterious as imagined, and you can infer it by yourself with a little heart.
Whether a person's fortune is strong can be found by looking at the following 4 "habits".
Don’t go back on your word and be honest
" Zuo Zhuan " says: "There is no way to good fortune, but only people call it." The good or bad luck will never come out of thin air. Whether it is blessing or misfortune, it is the result of our active choice.
Integrity is a business card for a person to walk in the world. People who are honest have a good reputation and do things more smoothly. After the reputation of a person who is distrust is destroyed, everyone avoids it and it is difficult for them to go smoothly no matter what they do.
As the saying goes: "The time is not as good as the place, and the place is not as good as the people." Interpersonal relationships are the key to success or failure.
Not only will others consider our integrity when dealing with us, but we will also take "probability" into consideration when dealing with others.
If a person always breaks his promise, then no matter how good the other party sets the conditions, normal people will not bet on their sincerity with uncertainty.
Integrity people have more opportunities in society than ordinary people. A person who pays attention to integrity usually has no bad luck.
Leave face to others
The importance of face in interpersonal communication is self-evident. Whether one person gives face to another largely determines the degree of intimacy between each other.
The better the relationship between two people, the more they will save face each other, and the worse the relationship between two people, the more they will deliberately make the other party embarrassed and embarrassed.
As the saying goes, "A tree lives with a skin, a person lives with a breath, and a Buddha fights for a stick of incense." After all, it is about face. Face represents not only face, but also the recognition and respect of others for themselves.
Knowing how to save face for others at the right time is a manifestation of a person's inner understanding. The face left for others is also the popularity accumulated for himself.
people are not sages and will make mistakes. When others accidentally do something wrong, don’t rush to criticize them in public and expose them immediately. Be more tactful and give others some face. The other party may not be grateful for the rest of his life, but he will definitely be grateful for it for a while.
The so-called high emotional intelligence is tolerate others' unintentional mistakes. When getting along with others, people who know how to understand and tolerate will always have a better fortune.
People who have grades do not show off
Good luck are usually humble. They not only know their excellence, but also understand the truth that "there are people outside of people, and there are heavens outside of heaven."
Life is so long, as long as you work hard enough, anyone will achieve something.
Some people are complacent when they have some achievements, and don’t know how to show off, and show off their power everywhere. Some people know that things in the world are changeable, and even if they shine, they are humble and cautious, try to restrain their light and not let themselves live too dazzlingly.
Pride and complacency will hinder a person's pace of progress. The future is long. If you want your life's fortune to be unaffected, you must understand the way of dealing with the world.
People who are too ostentatious and radical will never have a good ending. Taking credit and being proud will only make people around you jealous. Under the influence of jealousy, someone will inevitably cause trouble behind the scenes.
As a person, you must know how to cherish blessings, do not show off your achievements, and cherish your blessings. Only by being elegant and calm can you bring your own blessings.
Modesty makes people progress. If you are more low-key, you will not attract others' attention. No one who makes a fortune in silence cannot calm down.
Be happy and have a good mood
The Tao Te Ching says: "It is better to hold on and fill it up; it is better to keep it sharp; it is not always safeguarded when you are rich and arrogant. You can bear the blame for your wealth and honor."
says that you should not be greedy in life, you should know how to stop when you are in place, and don't show your sharpness when you are with others. Only by restraining your strength can you last for a long time. If you are too arrogant when you are rich and not humble when you are successful, you will eventually bring disaster.
This shows that the knowledge of being a human is not about how strong the ability is, but how deep the cognition is. The environment is always that environment, and the one that can influence personal fortune is always cognition and mood.
Only by keeping a stable mindset and being unaware of favors and disgraces can one live a peaceful and peaceful life.
Whether you have excellent grades or are at the bottom, you must be open-minded and treat them with a normal mind. Life will naturally give back peace and kindness.
No matter if others praise you or belittle you, don’t care too much, this is not a surprise of praise or disgrace. Keep a calm heart and not be disturbed by the outside world. When a person is awake enough, he will not be framed by the troubles of the world.
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