Writer Chen Danqing said: "A person's appearance is his person in the highest sense."
Literary Daye Zhuangyi also said: "A person's face is a resume."
From learning to staggering, from green years to white frost in the temples, all words, actions, and actions have shaped our appearance.
Although he can't speak on the outside, he tells everything; although he can't express himself, he records everything.
All living beings, thousands of people face thousands of faces. A person's face shows his cultivation, temperament, habits and character
Never underestimate a person with a good face.
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1 face, hiding cultivation
" Book of Rites " says: "Those who love deeply must be kind, those who have harmony must be happy, and those who have joy must be gentle and graceful."
1 In a person's face, he hides his attitude and way of dealing with people.
Educated people always have a gentle face when dealing with people, always have a modest expression when they are angry, and will also consider the consequences when they are angry and will not be willful and impulsive.
Over time, education is engraved in the bones, and the kindness grows in the face, so that others naturally see it as amiable.
I heard a story. In the 1970s, a freshman went to Peking University to report to .
He was a newcomer and was not familiar with the campus and had too much luggage. He saw an old man passing by in a busy and busy manner.
First saw the old man's kind-hearted and kind-hearted look, so he asked him to help take care of his luggage. The old man agreed readily.
Newborn ran around and finished all the procedures. It was already noon, and then I remembered that I had asked someone to take care of my luggage.
He ran all the way to find it. Under the scorching sun, the old man was still standing by the road, holding the book to read while taking care of his luggage on the ground.
The freshman apologized repeatedly for wasting the other party's time, but the old man just waved his hand with a smile, without any anger on his face.
. It was not until the opening ceremony of the next day that the freshman learned that the old man was actually the vice president of Peking University and the master of Chinese studies Ji Xianlin .
More people say that this freshman has never seen the world, and he has no idea that he is Ji Xianlin is humble and approachable.
This extraordinary cultivation and demeanor makes him look soft and friendly, and he doesn't feel distance when he sees him.
On the contrary, an uneducated person often has a domineering expression and is above the top.
They either focus on everything and do not take others into consideration.
either worship high and step on low, be servile and charming in front of people with higher status than you, and be domineering to those who are weaker than you, and be arrogant.
After a long time, the arrogance and rudeness in my heart will also unconsciously reveal it from my face, which makes people feel annoying.
Confucian once said that a gentleman should "be gentle in appearance, be respectful in appearance, be loyal in words, and be difficult in anger."
means that educated people will pay special attention to their expression, expression, words and attitude when dealing with things. Think more about others in everything and treat everyone equally.
Don’t belittle the superiors, don’t bully the inferiors, be humble and generous, gentle and polite. Such people not only have good faces, but also have good popularity.
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expression, exposing temperament
Old words say: " has the mind but no form , the face is born from the mind; there is the face but no mind, the face is destroyed by the mind."
The appearance is born from the mind, and the mind is the way it is.
People with broad minds look at everything better. The whole person is relaxed and has a moderate degree of tension and natural facial muscles, and looks relaxed and has a sunny smile.
A person with a narrow heart always feels that the whole world owe him, either he is anxious all day long or he is petty. My body is always tense, and my face is frowning and full of sorrow.
Yang Ersao in Lu Xun's novel " Hometown ", was born with beautiful appearance when he was young and had a sweet smile. He was known as " Tofu Xishi ".
But she is narrow-minded and either makes a fuss to take advantage of others or complains that others look down on her.
Over time, I have developed a chattering thin lips and shrewd and mean convex cheekbones, and my natural beauty has become abominable.
was born in . Although Chen Tuan, the ancestor of Chen Tuan, failed in the scientific examination and failed to take the career of the officialdom, was open-minded and optimistic and contented.
Legend has it that he loves to sleep, and he can sleep for several days without worries.
He also wrote a likable poem:
Expand your eyebrows, free your belly, and have a sleep!
even more so, Jade rabbit rises eastward, and the red wheel falls westward.
Such a mind, no wonder he lived to be a hundred years old and still had a "face like a child and smiled at the corner of his mouth".
People live in the world, and most of the things that are not satisfactory will happen, and no one can go smoothly.
Instead of being stuck in the horns and unable to get out, it is better to adjust your mentality, be more open-minded and take it lightly. Many times, worries do not come from the outside world, but from the inside.
Blame against others not only does nothing, but also hurts others and yourself.
Face it with a tolerant and optimistic attitude, and no matter how hard or tired you are, you can hold on without any harm.
Days are always moving forward, happy and upset for a day, learn to let go, live happily, have no worries in your heart, and naturally there will be no haze on your face.
People with good looks can be open to everything, not care about things, and have a broad mind and a broad road.
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body shape, showing habits,
Yang Lan said, "No one has the obligation to discover a person's inner self through his sloppy appearance."
A person who has always maintained a good figure gives people not only pleasing to the eye, but also highlights the high requirements for themselves.
Body is a person's best business card.
67-year-old veteran actor Chen Daoming has a gentle and handsome face and looks like he is 10 or 20 years younger, thanks to his long-term self-disciplined life.
He is a bookworm, and the one he collects the most is books at home.
For him, instead of running around for fame and fortune, it is better to read books at home.
If you read too many books, your face will naturally show the temperament of a humble gentleman.
He loves sports. When I was young, I played basketball, but when I got older, I was exhausted, so I changed to playing golf.
Decades of persistence in training have allowed him to always keep the vitality of young people, and his eyes are also wise and profound.
He once said: "Material release and spiritual release are easy, but the highest enjoyment in life is moderation."
Indeed, observing those around you who live indulgent life is either pursuing fame and fortune, being addicted to the sex, or eating and drinking, and having a chaotic schedule.
Under 40 years old, his face is swollen, haggard, and his eyes are dull, which not only affects his facial appearance, but also destroys his health. People who maintain a healthy and self-disciplined life all year round not only have a well-proportioned figure, but also have a tight, rosy and radiant face.
The old saying goes: "The appearance before the age of 40 is given by my parents, and the appearance after the age of 40 is created by myself."
No matter how beautiful the appearance given by my parents is, there will be a day of aging. But acquired restraint and self-discipline can help us create an elegant face that is enough to resist the erosion of time.
people roll in the world and inevitably encounter various temptations. Indulge yourself and indulge in pleasure. Even if you gain short-term happiness, you cannot fill the inner emptiness.
Only by keeping one's heart, controlling one's desires, and learning to maintain one's health can one obtain long-term health and happiness.
People with good faces usually live very self-disciplinedly. Only when you are healthy and have a fulfilled heart can you be calm and wise on your face.
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Appearance, revealing the character
Ancient saying says: "A person with a good person, a white color, and a first appearance."
People with a positive and honest personality will make people feel comfortable.
Writer Ma Weidu told a story.
Once upon a time at the entrance of his alley, every summer, an old man was selling watermelons there.
The old man’s business is very good. Everyone says that he has a unique skill in picking melons, and the melons he chooses are particularly sweet.
Others are also real, never short of weight. Ma Weidu asked the old man for advice on picking melons.
The old man said, "What skills do I have? It's just that I look real. When people see my face, they can trust me."
Ma Weidu looked at it all, it's true.
This old man has a white beard and looks very honest.
Ma Weidu said to the old man: "Uncle, it's not that you look real, it's that your heart is real."
" Caigen Tan " says: "If you sweep ten layers of armor on your face, your eyebrows and eyes will not be hateful."
means that only by removing layers of disguise and being honest can a person not be hateful.
Hypocritical people always have no kindness and can only wear masks to cover up. After a long time, they naturally look like false appearances, which makes people avoid them.
Honest people do not do bad things, have a open heart, and a natural and bright face, which is convincing. In dealing with people in society, appropriately restraining their true nature is the way to survive.
But for the sake of his own selfish interests, he is overly hypocritical, wears a mask on his face, tells lies to everyone, and can only deceive people for a while, but cannot deceive people for a lifetime, because his face has already betrayed him.
The old saying goes: "Face is a person's signature."
A person's integrity and kindness will eventually be written on his face and become his passport to the world.
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A philosopher once said: "A man's appearance is a picture that expresses the inner heart, and his appearance expresses and reveals the entire destiny characteristics of a man."
A well-educated person has a gentle face, making people feel like spring breeze.
People with a good mentality have a sunny expression and are popular wherever they go.
People with self-disciplined life have a beautiful figure and are full of charm given by time.
Honest and kind people have a frank appearance and their destiny will be particularly favored by them.
