text丨Cancer Xiaoqi
In relationships, there is a behavior that is a "chronic killer", which is the cold war. No one can avoid this topic. The cold war is very torturous for two people in love.
However, there are many people who like to be a boring gourd, always asking the other person to guess their thoughts. If they fail to guess, they will become more indifferent and enter an endless cycle of anger.
Since we love each other, we should not torture each other and create gaps and estrangements.
These three constellations are pure and kind, very slow to warm up, but they are the strongest cold war kings.
Cancer
Cancers can live a beautiful life when they are single, and they can maintain a long-term relationship when they are in love, but they cannot avoid being glass-hearted sometimes.
Often because of a small thing that is not done well, or because of an unintentional word from a lover, Cancer begins to feel that he is not loved or cared about.
When Cancers feel insecure, they will use emotions or cold wars to get their partner's attention. They are timid and dare not make a big fuss, so they always engage in "strange" behavior secretly.
In fact, Cancer is just a child who needs sweets to coax.
Cancers who are slow to warm up especially cherish the person who can enter their heart. While they cherish it, they are also afraid of losing it, so they long for the continuous love and attention of their other half.
When a little bit of love and attention is lost, Cancer will treat it coldly and say nothing, giving people a feeling of being unreasonable. The most correct behavior is to patiently ask and talk to them.
If you still don't care, or even blame them for looking for trouble, Cancer will turn into a thousand-year iceberg, freezing you to death, and suppressing your heart even more in the body. The longer time goes by, the faster their love for you will disappear.
Although Cancer loves the cold war, they are the best at coaxing.
Taurus
Taurus has a very strong heart. When quarreling with their partner, they are unwilling to take the initiative to admit their mistakes or bow their heads. Even if they realize that they are wrong, they will continue to be depressed and stubborn.
When they love someone, they have no bad intentions, but Taurus hopes that the other person can tolerate them and accept their occasional stubbornness and emotionality.
When a conflict occurs, Taurus will not bow their heads, but it does not mean that they are not at fault. No matter whose fault it is, if you apologize first, they will immediately soften and calm down no matter how angry they are.
Taurus attaches great importance to the other half's attitude towards them. When the other person bows their head first, they will be discouraged, take the initiative to reflect on their own mistakes, and then admit and correct them.
wants them to admit their mistakes first, and the result will be an endless cold war.
Taurus are slow to warm up. They open their hearts very slowly. When they give you their psychological position, it means that they trust you and love you.
When they love someone, Taurus will constantly change themselves and strive to become what their other half needs. With this whole-hearted dedication, they hope that their other half can forgive and tolerate them when they make mistakes.
On the contrary, you only care about and dislike Taurus, are not tolerant, and do not understand. They will be cold to the end, and they are not afraid even if they are separated. They cannot bear the feeling of not being respected.
Respect Taurus and pamper Taurus, and you will have won their heart.
Virgo
No matter who they face, Virgo always behaves neither humble nor arrogant. Even if they are arguing, they must remain elegant enough and will constantly find ways to defend themselves.
They like to have the dominance in relationships. When the other half is too strong, Virgos will become rebellious and angry, leading to a cold war.
Although Virgos have many small demands for love, they are very talkative and don't really ask their partner to do anything for them. As long as they are in love, they will be satisfied.
Time and time again, you pay and tolerate your partner, but if you are not treated equally, Virgo's long-suppressed dissatisfaction will explode.
Virgos have always been very sensitive to feelings. When they are hurt, they will not try their best to retaliate, but will exude indifference from the bottom of their hearts. They will be indifferent to you and treat you hot and cold.
Even if they love you and care about you very much in their hearts, Virgos will force themselves to endure this suffering. They want you to pay a price, so they will use a cold war to make you regret it.
In fact, they have also thought that the long-term cold war may really drive away the other half, but when they think of the harm they have suffered, they can be ruthless and do the best they can.
Don't betray Virgo, they won't sit still and wait for death. Don't bully Virgo, they have many ways to make you regret it.
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