Introduction: Trust is the hardest thing to get, but the easiest thing to lose. It takes a long time to cultivate trust, and it may only take a moment to lose trust. You have been trusted for a long time. If you accidentally neglect, all the previous things may be in vain. In the eyes of others, you will become a scheming person who is not what you are on the outside. Trust is like a double-edged sword. While gaining the trust and trust of others, you must also restrain all your words and deeds. Once you make a mistake or make a mistake, it will be destroyed instantly. This is so important, but so fragile! The importance of trust is even more evident in relationships, especially between two people who love each other. Trust will become more fragile because of their love for each other. As long as there is a clue or a hint of trouble, trust will be like thin ice, shattering to pieces.
Firstly, they are not confident enough in themselves, secondly, they are not confident in their lovers, and thirdly, they have random thoughts about external temptations, etc. Especially if the lover has a record of breach of trust, he will be even more suspicious. At this time, he will check the other party's various mobile phones. What's more important is that only when no abnormality is found, you will feel a little more at ease! So, today I will talk to you about those zodiac signs who are eager to gain trust and satisfy their own sense of security by checking each other's mobile phones.
Leo
I never thought that such a confident and proud lion would be happy with this! In fact, Leos also have a sensitive and fragile side in love. Especially when they are strong and charming on the outside, they are surrounded by many admirers. Sometimes they are so passionate and sometimes attentive that they almost lose control. No one is a saint. , all have little thoughts of being dissatisfied with the status quo and wanting to pursue excitement. Even if they are like this, in this era of gender equality , what reason do they have to completely trust others?
Therefore, to ensure peace of mind, I will "spot check" my lover's mobile phone from time to time, but rarely secretly, and sometimes I will openly ask the other party to show it to me (of course I will not be straightforward about checking my lover, and I will also find some small excuses) , in fact, lovers should also understand in their hearts that anyway, there is nothing to be afraid of if they are upright, but they will still feel that the other person cares about them.
Virgo
Virgos appear to be strong and rational, and strive to do their best in everything. In fact, they are very unconfident and insecure. They always have a small inferiority complex in their hearts. They don’t know where it comes from, and they don’t know how. get rid of. When facing love, sometimes we are afraid that the other person will not love or leave, and we are inherently pessimistic. Because of these insecurities and suspicions, I am always suspicious.
Especially when a lover is obsessed with, mysterious or smiling happily at the mobile phone, he will have doubts about whether the other party is chatting with the opposite sex, etc., and he will always be worried and anxious, so that when the lover is not paying attention, I would secretly check the other party's mobile phone, and I would feel a little relieved when I found nothing unusual, but it would happen again every once in a while.
Scorpio
Scorpio's coldness and mystery always give people a look of alienation and indifference, but in love, they are very strong, especially possessive. They don't like others to touch their own things, let alone themselves. Not only do lovers not allow others to touch them, but they also carve their own unique mark to declare their sovereignty and keep other people of the opposite sex away from their lovers.
Moreover, Scorpios are naturally keen and good at detecting slight changes and finding clues in small changes. As long as the lover behaves slightly differently from usual, it will arouse the vigilance of others. In order to prove the doubts and suspicions in his heart, he will act in the lover. If you peek at the other person's phone without knowing it, if your suspicions are verified, you can't imagine the consequences (just make up the picture in your own mind)!
Pisces
Pisces is extremely sensitive, Pisces lacks a sense of security, and their inner drama is extremely rich. Sometimes a lover's slightest emotion or abnormal tone will tighten their sensitive nerves and start imagining some mistresses. In fact, the details of each stage and various scenes of the superior love drama are so vividly imagined that even after thinking about it, I feel that this possibility is very believable.
will then ask to see the other person's mobile phone and all social media. If the other person does not agree, it will further confirm his imagination, and he will start to "act", cry and make trouble, accuse the other person of not loving him, and accusing the other person of not showing up to the past. Being so accommodating and tolerant means that the other party is no longer the same person as before, etc. The situation is very chaotic!
Conclusion: In fact, trust is the prerequisite for a sense of security. If I trust you, I feel I have a sense of security. If I don’t trust you, I will naturally feel suspicious and insecure. In love, mutual trust is most lacking, and there is also a lack of due security. Checking mobile phones or other things can only bring temporary psychological comfort, but cannot completely eliminate the doubts in the heart. Once you are in this kind of extreme distrust and lack of security for a long time, A state of security will cause love to lose its original appearance, making both yourself and the other party extremely painful! Therefore, you still need to let go of your guard too much. It is your love that others cannot get involved in. If it is not your love, it is sand in your hands. The more you hold it, the faster it will drain away!
