It really takes courage to stand in front of others. It's okay to have something in your stomach. You may not be so timid after trying it a few times. But if there is nothing in your stomach, it just depends on your courage and courage. In fact, the concept of whether there is an

It really takes courage to stand in front of others. It's okay to have something in your stomach. You may not be so timid after trying it a few times. But if there is nothing in your stomach, it depends purely on courage and courage.

In fact, the concept of whether there is something in the stomach can also be understood in a popular way as whether a person has confidence in himself and whether he has a sense of his own value, ability or knowledge.

Building self-confidence requires a certain foundation. The more solid the foundation, the easier it is to build up self-confidence.

Therefore, whether a person is confident or inferior can be objectively observed and judged from this basic perspective.

is so natural, the authenticity of a person's self-confidence can also be judged from this perspective.

Of course, as far as we ordinary people are concerned:

Persistence in continuous learning, increasing knowledge and enhancing thinking ability are the easiest and most practical sources for us to gain a basis for confidence.

belong to the same category. Confidence or low self-esteem will affect a person's judgment of his own value. This logic is particularly important, especially for the following zodiac signs.

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As a earth sign , Virgo people are not good at taking risks, let alone making some hidden dangers and risky decisions. They can always control their own standards at the scale of "perfecting and protecting themselves".

In this way, you will feel that Virgo people are very rational, and the accuracy of decision-making will not be much worse. After all, it is a good thing to have fewer risks and hidden dangers in life or actual life.

But if you just look at the problem from this perspective, it is obviously not objective enough.

Failure to see the other side of things may cause you to lose some good opportunities.

Take the characteristics of Virgo as an example. Except for the weird period in their twenties, the growth of Virgo people is actually close to the standard of "good children" in most cases.

Follow the rules, do things as you are told, and seek stability first.

However, in terms of the general concept of growth, Virgo's standard of stability is actually not very conducive to growth, or to put it bluntly, the potential for growth is difficult to be stimulated by Virgo people.

People's growth mainly comes from experience, not age as a catalyst.

comes from thinking after experience, transformation after thinking, and self-adjustment after transformation.

From this logic, both pain and sweetness appear in the growth process, and risks and risks are also essential in the growth process.

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said that it is impossible for people not to make mistakes. Making small mistakes will lead to small growth, and making big mistakes will lead to big growth. So try not to make mistakes as much as possible. Do you think this is a good thing?

Virgos belong to the latter group. With less experience and less thinking, people's vision will inevitably be limited, and people's thinking power and breadth of thinking will also be bound to be imprisoned.

So for Virgo, a sign ruled by Mercury, they may not be aware of this problem in their own thinking.

is even used to using his own thinking to judge those around him who make mistakes when they shouldn't, or who do risky or adventurous things.

Therefore, the final growth state of most Virgos will stay on the scale of "stability of self-standards" and "security of self-standards".

For most people, their growth or development is most afraid of being affected and restricted by external forces.

For Virgo people, their growth and development are most afraid of being restricted by their own thinking.

I often say that Virgos have a strong brainwashing ability.

In fact, this brainwashing ability is the best specialty of the zodiac sign Virgo.

But most Virgos do not use this innate ability due to limitations of self-awareness. If you want to find an example, then "horse does not love money" is a very typical example.

The talent of Virgo is the rational and practical logical ability, followed by the constructive logical ability.

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To put it bluntly, if Virgos want to gain enough self-confidence and a sufficient sense of self-worth, they must learn and persist in accumulating all kinds of information and knowledge fragments in life.

Because only in this way can their rational and practical logical abilities be nourished by knowledge and information, thus becoming broader and more accurate.

At the same time, with the accumulation of more knowledge and information fragments, the logical ability will be enhanced, and the brainwashing ability will naturally be enhanced.

In this way, their talents can be well and fully utilized.

So let me say something that may be ugly:

A Virgo who doesn't like to learn will not have self-confidence, and it is impossible to gain any real self-confidence.

A Virgo who does not insist on absorbing knowledge will end up staying in his own thinking.

This thing is really scary for Virgos. In fact, friends who have been with Virgos of different levels should know this.

A Virgo who has accumulated a lot of knowledge and knowledge, when communicating with others or getting along with others in relationships, his words, deeds and logic are easy to accept and convince, because that is the power of knowledge and logic.

Virgos who do not have a lot of knowledge will only use their own set of self-limiting logic when communicating with others, especially when getting along with others in relationships, and ask the other party to accept it. Listen to him.

How is this possible?

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Let’s not joke. Let’s take a very realistic example. There are several thorns in almost every school class, but you will find that these thorns do not hurt students who study well, but are particularly harmful to students who study well. respect.

Are you wondering why?

The first is because of the spirit of learning, and the second is because of the results of learning, which are beyond the reach of those thorns. In their conscience, knowledge and learning are the most precious and valuable things.

Let’s return to Virgo:

Virgo’s ability is logic and knowledge, and they are also good at mastering these things, as long as they do not limit themselves.

With these things, Virgos will have self-confidence, and this self-confidence will be reflected in specific life and work. Although they are realistic, they are not materialistic because they believe that their abilities can give themselves enough material self-confidence.

This is called self-affirmation, and Virgo people really need this thing.

Virgos who have no logic and knowledge have low self-esteem from the perspective of ability. Especially when a Virgo's material conditions are not very good, they will be particularly biased towards material choices.

Because they don’t believe that they can get the life and life they want by themselves, and they don’t believe in their own ability to get what they want.

In this case, whether Virgos are picky, obsessive-compulsive, like to be in control, or nagging, these points will become the main benchmark points for Virgo's negative image.

Can people who get along with him not remember those negative images?

But in fact, for those Virgos who are knowledgeable, knowledgeable, and are constantly learning and improving, being nagging and picky will be considered advantages.

Do you know why?

Because others will respect them and think of them as strong, knowledgeable and knowledgeable people. How many of the strong will refuse constructive suggestions to themselves?

This is something common to human nature, but it is also closely connected with actual logic.

So Virgo friends, persisting in studying may make you irritable for a while, but persisting in studying will definitely enhance your logic and enhance your value. You lack nothing but this.

Don't waste the talent you already have.

Life is like this, others only look at the results, but we ourselves should pay more attention to the process.

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