At a certain moment, you give your feelings, and the other person needs your feelings, and he accepts it, and then the relationship between the two of you will probably be established.
You may think that you are very compatible with the other person, whether the other person likes you or understands you.
But in real life, you will encounter another situation. For example, you like someone very much and are willing to give your emotions, but the other person does not need your emotions.
Then do you think you two are not suitable? There is actually a delicate logic behind the question
. Today we will use a constellation as an example to explain this logic in detail.
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Maybe in the minds of some people who value relationships, relationships are the biggest thing in life, and they can be the whole of life. However, if we look at it from an objective perspective, relationships are indeed the most important thing in life, but they are not the whole of life.
When this difference between subjective and objective is distributed from the perspective of people's emotions, there will be situations where different views on emotions make integration and communion difficult.
Let’s take a simple example. If you are a person who values relationships and you think relationships are the most important, but the person you are with tells you that relationships are important, but they are not everything in my life. I cannot possibly Put it in the most important position.
So let me ask you, are you secretly sad, disappointed, or heartbroken because of this view?
From an emotional point of view, you should indeed be sad and disappointed. This is quite normal, but you should also be grateful that at least the other person will tell you their inner thoughts.
So what if you meet a Aquarius , he/she will not tell you what they think in their heart, but is used to going their own way?
One day you find that from an emotional perspective, this Aquarius message is not as important to you as you thought. What will you do?
Give up, make do, or adapt?
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makes it clear that Aquarius people do need emotions, but the emotions they need must first meet their own quality standards and are in a very small quantity. This is different from most people.
In other words: No matter who is with an Aquarius, he must first accept this fact.
In fact, this point of Aquarius is the emotional blind spot we are going to talk about today. Everyone has emotional blind spots, but Aquarius should have the largest blind spot.
Because people of this sign can only see and accept the emotions they need, and they can only react awkwardly to those they don’t need, even if they are passionate emotions, and politely choose to stay away.
If you give affection to him, but he doesn’t want it, he doesn’t feel it is important if he doesn’t want it. The awareness of unimportance also conveys another meaning. What you give him is not the emotion he needs, and he doesn’t feel it.
doesn’t feel that from the perspective of emotional awareness, it means it can’t be seen. This blind spot is too big.
There is a concept used to describe the feelings of Aquarius , which is particularly appropriate: "unicorn love, one-way love".
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Let’s make this concept more simple: “I like you, you also like you, I give my emotions, and you also give your emotions, but I give one share, and you can’t give two or three shares. I feel very uncomfortable.”
and Aquarius Friends who have been with Virgos should all know that if you "offer" Aquarius, the final result will be that Aquarius goes its own way.
But if you make Aquarius feel bad, the end result is that Aquarius will make you feel bad. The logic of
is quite delicate and easy to understand.
If you provide the water bottle, the probability that his needs will be easily met by you is likely to be full. Whether it is emotional needs or other needs, he will neither worry about getting them nor worry that you will not pay.
So do you feel it? It cannot be said that there is no feeling, but there is still some feeling, such as "You are a good person, you are very good to me."
Aquarius has been dealt the good person card, and it is clear that he has no feeling.
On the other hand, if you make Aquarius uncomfortable or painful, he just wants to know your attitude towards him and what your feelings are like. Then what do you think he will do?
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He will be worried about what you think, and he will also think about what you will think from his own point of view. As he thinks about it, the feeling comes, so as long as you don't pour cold water on him, give him a little chance, even a chance to chat.
You will find that the angry water bottle appears in the sao.
His emotional consciousness has been activated, and he has emotional needs for you, so he wants it.
He thinks you are special. You are different from others. You can give you feelings that others cannot give. Others are chasing her behind his pig, but he is chasing you behind your pig. This feeling is very enjoyable.
He is as sweet as honey.
But, and but, the most important point is that even if you confirm the relationship with Aquarius, don't put too much emotion into it from your own perspective. It will be vulgar to eat too much honey.
Aquarius do not need this kind of vulgar feeling. They prefer their own spiritual and emotional feelings and feelings, but physically, the emotional needs of Aquarius cannot be satisfied.
This zodiac sign needs some feeling to do anything. If you are in a good mood, you will feel good. If you don't say the right thing, the feeling will be wrong.
They will not think about what will happen to you, they will only intuitively let their own mood and feelings guide their words and deeds.
A rational water bottle is actually not rational, and an irrational water bottle is actually very rational.
Think about the meaning of this sentence, which will help you gain a deeper understanding of Aquarius.
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