upright keywords
- connection
- balance
- reciprocal love
reversed keywords
- isolation
- detuning
- selfish possession
Lover's Tarot Meaning Analysis
Venus thinks that the most interesting details among the Tarot Lovers cards are It is the line of sight of the card character.
The angel looks down at the man and the woman, and the huge sun behind him ignites blessings for AdamEve;
There are pots of fire growing on the tree behind the man. This is the masculine passion in the relationship, which makes him unable to stop being attracted by the person opposite. Women - are also the symbol of femininity and are attracted to , but men's passionate sight is obscured by thick clouds, just like the fire of passion can easily blind the eyes, making people just step on the accelerator and sprint blindly until the love period is over, the projection is dispersed, and you can see up close. The eyes of the completely naked counterpart are no longer full of beauty, and the flaws are clearly visible. The running-in and calculations in the relationship gradually extinguish love. What else can be used to maintain the connection between the two?
A woman’s sight is a clue, she Looking at the angel symbolizes that if the relationship between two people wants to continue, they must transcend the body and consciousness and start communicating based on shared beliefs . The eyes of the two people do not need to stick to each other, but can look towards the same distance in tacit understanding. , we have gone through ups and downs together, and learned to unconditionally embrace the most naked and true self and each other.
The relationship mentioned here is not necessarily love, but may also be a relationship with family, friends, pets, work, interests, or even oneself, covering any connection between life and life/non-life.
The more you want to move towards a deep connection, the easier it is to cause strong longing and disappointment. These emotions will eventually take away the illusion like a tide, allowing people to see clearly what is the reality that is left on the shore in the end.
Lover Card | Balance comes from the determination to integrate elements that seem to be far apart
Balance is not achieved through searching, but through creation.
Balance is not something you find, it's something you create
Jana Kingsford | Writer and Lecturer
Yin and yang, light and dark, heat and cold, opposite elements complement each other and complete each other.
At a dinner party this week, we talked about how to balance work and life. The consensus was that not working at all is actually not balanced;
is like some big bosses. It is actually difficult to retire. It does not necessarily mean that the successor is not good enough. He must He kept going back to help;
work was not a drain on him, but gave him a lot of vitality. Once he stopped working,
he would feel something was wrong all over, and some people would even get sick.
True balance comes from allowing a person's different aspects of energy to be released harmoniously. Talking about energy may be a bit abstract,
To be specific, it means letting the things you like continue to happen in your life in the proportion you like most.
Some people’s balance elements are work, exercise and food, all of which are indispensable, and the ratio may be 10 hours of high-intensity mental work a day to completely release mental energy, then rush to the gym for 2 hours of heavy training, aerobics or yoga to move the body ; In the evening, find a restaurant with good food and good wine, and spend 1-2 hours letting your tongue and taste buds indulge in the best food.
has also heard seniors who have achieved financial freedom share their experience of retiring early. They were very happy during the first half year of vacation life. If they wanted to travel to any country, they would book air tickets directly. If they wanted to learn any skills, they would directly sign up and learn. However, his full life gradually became empty, and he even fell into depression and could not find the meaning of life.
Because acceptance and dedication, hard work and enjoyment, even success and failure, all kinds of opposing elements are indispensable seasonings. None of them should be abandoned, but knowing the portion and proportion is the key to cooking a delicious life. subject.
Many people and things are initially chosen to be poured into life because of love. However, sometimes you may accidentally sprinkle too much or too little. The wrong proportion makes life taste unbalanced.
How do you think your life should be seasoned so that it tastes the most balanced and delicious? This requires time to try, experience and reflect. If you accidentally sprinkled too much salt with shaking hands today, it will taste too salty; if you accidentally overdo it during work arrangements, you will feel If your enthusiasm is gradually worn away, please record it in your inner notebook. Next time, put less salt, but don’t regard salt as a monster. Next time, you can’t work around the clock, but don’t call work a shackles.
Balance comes from choices. People are often willing to make decisions only when they reach the limit, because before the critical point, people are often afraid of making choices, because choice means giving up.
When reaching the limit of mental, physical and mental strength, and having to decide whether to fall to the ground or stand up, yin meets yang, light meets darkness, innocence meets sophistication, and a completely unknown side will collide.
No one knows who they really are until the moment of final decision;
It is precisely because of choice that you can decide who you are.
Lover Card | Only by connecting with darkness can you be complete.
I love you for who you are now, what you have experienced in the past, and everything you will become in the future.
I love you for all that you are, all that you have been and all that you will be
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Faced with the unpleasant parts of ourselves, it is often difficult for us to accept them, so we will project them onto close people through relationships, which may be family members, lovers, friends or colleagues.
When you see the shadow and self-loathing begins to spread, "what to do" is the best "what to do".
just looks and gives himself the gaze he wants most; he does not do anything to deal with the disgust, and does not give it any evaluation.
There is no need to dismember him - this is self-mutilation; no need to run away from him - this is sympathy; you just need to reach out your hand and accept him, that's it.
just needs to be accepted.
"Acceptance" does not mean deceiving yourself that everything is fine, but firmly saying to yourself: "I am willing to be good to you" even though it is really not good.
Through close relationships, we often encounter those annoying qualities that we have deliberately suppressed. This mirror is to give us the opportunity to let the shadows deep in our hearts see the light and love them back.
If you want to gain abundance, please first accept your own nothing.
If you want to be loved and entertained, please tolerate your dislike of yourself first.
If you want to be stared at gently, please accept your contempt for yourself first.
If you want to be understood, please understand first that you, who can’t even understand yourself, are still worthy of being loved.
When you stop attacking yourself and attaching importance to external things, and decide to take "yourself" as your only sustenance, you realize that the "who" you have been looking for is you who opens your hands unconditionally at this moment.
Accepting yourself is like marrying yourself.
I would like to share a TED Talk speech related to the theme of "Accepting Yourself" - "The Person You Really Need To Marry" by Tracy McMillan The person you really should marry
Tracy has been married 3 times, each time ended in divorce, her mother is A drug-addicted prostitute with a criminal father, Tracy grew up in various boarding houses until the age of nine.
's childhood experience made her particularly afraid of being abandoned, and also left a hole in her heart that she couldn't fill. She married again and again to make herself feel complete, but she kept losing passion in the relationship or being betrayed.
Until one day she suddenly realized that she had been marrying the wrong person. What she longed for most was not other people's tenderness, but her own unconditional love. From that day on, she decided to "marry herself."
Marrying this woman whose mother is a prostitute and her father is a criminal?
Marrying this woman whose three marriages in a row have failed?
Marrying this single mother?
Marrying this woman whose 21-year-old college girl was cheated on?
Marrying this Marrying a scarred, imperfect woman?
Yes, it is her, this imperfect woman, who I want to marry.
When Tracy is finally willing to hold her hand and lead her to the other end of the red carpet; when she is finally able to fall in love with her own happiness and loss; when she is finally able to accept the good weather and bad temper of the sky just like Mother Earth. Own.
She realized that she was not missing anyone, she just forgot that she was always here.
I just forgot to practice and accept myself unconditionally, no matter what this self will look like in the end; only when the yin and yang within a person combine and realize the inner holy marriage, can they feel truly complete.
Now, who do you want to marry the most in your life?
Meditation questions belonging to the Lovers Tarot card
When you draw a lover, you can ask yourself...
"For you, the most balanced and satisfying day What would it look like? Try writing down the most balanced day schedule. "
"What is the most important relationship to you now? And what do you think is the most ideal way to connect this relationship?"
