Because the weather starts to get hotter, people's tempers will also become louder, and accordingly their "tolerance and patience" towards others will decrease. What's interesting is that when different constellations communicate, the direction of their "pressure" will be differe

As the weather starts to get hotter, people's tempers will also become louder, and accordingly their "tolerance and patience" towards others will decrease.

Therefore: When communicating with readers and friends recently, I always hear the word "pressure".

What’s interesting is that when different constellations communicate, the direction of their “pressure” will be different.

In fact, this has a lot to do with personality.

Because: In fact, "pressure" is generated when people get along with each other, that is, mutual!

What aspects do you "value" most, and where is the "pressure" you will bring to others!

Correspondingly, the place where you "focus" the most is where the "pressure" occurs.

For example, summer vacation is coming soon. Generally, parents who pay more attention to "grades" will tell their children: Don't look at you having fun now, wait until you fail in the exam!

In a simple sentence, the child's "pressure" is generated.

So, this "pressure" first occurs in the parents' hearts: because she is "afraid that their children will not do well in the exam."

The reason is that because her grades were not very good when she was young, she was not taken seriously by the teacher during her studies because of her "poor grades" and had no sense of presence in the class; it was more troublesome to find a job.

Correspondingly, when she saw "the child did not do well in the exam", what she thought about was not "the temporary failure", but "what to do in the future life".

But the child cannot understand this kind of worry and sense of crisis from her "parents", so she thinks deep down in her heart: Why must she do well in the exam, why can't she make one mistake? She feels that her "parents" are very harsh, and then It's a kind of inexplicable "pressure" that arises.

Another example: Generally when you are in a relationship, if your girlfriend is jealous, she will become very angry or very anxious when your "other half" talks a little more to other girls.

Then the "other half" will also feel "stress" when she feels "anxious and angry".

First of all, this girl's "anxiety" comes from "pressure": because in women's thinking, the sense of "security" lies in "accommodation".

Once someone approaches one's "territory", the "sense of crisis of being lost" will turn into "pressure", which will then make one's emotions lose control, leading to a sense of "punishment".

Therefore, she puts this "pressure" on the boy, hoping that he can feel her fear of losing.

In the "male mind", without this sense of "security", he will feel that girls are "stingy, strong, bossy, and possessive."

Therefore, there will also be pressure in "getting along".

Therefore: When you are "stressed", on the one hand, you need to understand where the "pressure" comes from, who and what things, so that you can truly solve the "pressure".

In a relationship, you face the "pressure" from your lover: you need to understand, tolerate, and listen in order to better convey the pressure to you and truly solve the problem.

So: in this article, let’s talk about where the “pressure of the twelve zodiac signs” comes from!

Pisces, Aries , Libra : "Pressure" basically comes from interpersonal relationships!

These three constellations actually all have "unbridled" imaginations, and they are also the easiest to find happiness in "books, music, TV series, and movies."

Therefore: It stands to reason that people of these three constellations should be very happy.

But: on the contrary, they are the three constellations most likely to be "depressed" among the twelve constellations.

The reason is very simple, it is because their excessive "empathy" allows them to experience other people's "emotions, anger, sorrow, and joy" from other people's words, words, and music composed; it also allows them to interact in "interpersonal relationships" It is especially easy to be influenced by others!

So: Many times, they are a group of children who have been very afraid of "adults disappointing" since they were young.

Generally, if "adults" are very interested in things that they are not interested in, they will obey the adults' interests and cultivate their own interests.

If "adults" want them to do something that they really don't want to do, but they are afraid that the adults will be unhappy, they will force themselves to do it.

As they grow up, they will be more persistent in "other people's happiness".

Many times, when they eat with others, whether they "eat well" is secondary. As long as the people around them are happy eating , they will have a special "sense of accomplishment" and be very happy.

When they get together, if anyone is unhappy, they will feel that it has something to do with them, and they want to try their best to make this person happy so that this person can feel more "integrated".

So: Once they come into contact with people who have excessive "negative emotions", or when they were young, their parents had very high "negative emotions".

will cause them constant "pressure".

Because they come into contact with people who "do not think for the best in everything", they initially want to change this person and make her think more "positive and optimistic".

But if they cannot change, they will have a kind of "self-blame" and "pressure" deep in their hearts, making it easy for them to fall into "emotional difficulties."

In addition, if they were getting along with "adults" when they were young, especially the three constellations of "parents who don't get along" and who have a better relationship with their mothers, they often hear their mothers say that their fathers are not good, and their grandparents are not good.

It is easier for them to want to please their father on the one hand, and sympathize with their mother on the other.

In this kind of family environment, mothers can easily become "exaggerated and pessimistic".

will make children of these three constellations very easy to be "depressed": because they don't know how to help their mothers solve problems, and they don't know how to "hate" their fathers.

Therefore, when facing "interpersonal relationships and love relationships" in the future, it will be difficult to refuse the "emotional blackmail and emotional pressure" imposed on oneself by others.

Therefore, the "pressure" of these three constellations will basically come from "interpersonal relationships" after adulthood: if you don't get along with this person, you will keep thinking, "Why can't I get along with this person?"

Once you are "broken in love", you will be in a long-term entanglement: "This person must need me, must like me, but she is temporarily confused."

Therefore: If you are one of these three zodiac signs and have been feeling psychologically "stressed", instead of thinking hard about it.

It is better to learn to face your own "pleasant personality": I believe that after you understand what a pleaser personality is, you will better understand your "sources of stress" and "paths to relieve stress"!

Virgo, Scorpio, Leo : "Pressure" comes from people around you being better than yourself! The most obvious characteristic of the three constellations

is: "Be strong"!

Therefore: When they were young, they liked to compare themselves with the people around them.

If they cannot compare in some aspects, their sense of loss will be particularly strong.

The reason is very simple, it is because these three constellations are actually the constellations with the greatest lack of "security"!

They easily feel "inferiority": therefore, when compared with others, once they cannot compare, they think that they will become "unimportant" and "unneeded".

Therefore: What they fear most since childhood is that "adults" compare themselves with others; they are also most afraid of "adults" praising other people's children but neglecting themselves.

And her sense of competition is a kind of "inertia consciousness" that arises from the constant comparison between "adults".

They must remain the "best" in a small group; for the person they like, she must tell "her" that only I can give you everything you want, and no one else can.

So: For the friend they value, she hopes that this friend will only be "a friend" of herself, and does not want her to be closer to others than to herself.

If "this friend" is closer to others than themselves, they will unconsciously want to say bad things about "others" to improve their self-confidence.

It may be more direct when you are a child, but when you grow up, it will be "modified" to a certain extent: but the final meaning is still the same.

That is: what she has, I have; what she doesn’t have, I also have; if you are good to her, you may lose me!

When "in love", they will have a lot of "pressure": she will feel that everyone around her "her lover" is her enemy.

Especially the opposite sex around "him" is what he is concerned about and cannot rest assured.

So: Many times, after these three zodiac signs fall in love, their favorite question is: Is she better, or am I better? Is she beautiful, or am I beautiful? This kind of problem.

In fact, it is through "comparison" that we can relieve our psychological pressure.

At work, they are very afraid that others will have "better performance" than themselves: because this means that they may snatch their position; or occupy the "most important" point of view in the eyes of others.

Therefore, once they feel "stressed", they will keep working hard without knowing how to stop!

It is for these reasons that among the twelve constellations, these three constellations are always tense and cannot relax.

Moreover, these three zodiac signs are the most prone to "insomnia", spots on the cheekbones, and "heart and brain" discomfort!

It is easy to convey a "sense of crisis" to others, and it is these three constellations that create "pressure" for others.

If you are with them, you will find that: they are most afraid of being compared with others; and what they like most is: comparing the people around them with others.

This is because of the "pressure". If you are controlled by it for a long time, you will become like her!

Cancer, Taurus, Capricorn: "Pressure" comes from not being able to follow the steps!

These three constellations have been the most “rule-abiding” types since childhood.

In their minds: there will be a "program and formula" for everything, and they must follow this to avoid making mistakes.

Then, if something goes wrong in the middle, you have to "start over" to complete it better.

Therefore: when they do things, they basically do not like to "collaborate" with others, but like to complete it independently.

When they watch other people doing things, they basically "can't stand it".

Thus: they will form a "consciousness": only my "method" is the best, and only my "idea" is correct.

Then, when they get along with others, they either have a bad relationship, keep a certain distance, and "clearly understand" each other.

Either others will follow their own "rules" after entering their own world.

Correspondingly: If others can cooperate with you, you will feel very relaxed.

But: If others don’t cooperate, you will feel “a lot of pressure” and think, “What should I do if I don’t do well? Why is this person so disobedient?”

As a result, you can either "ignore" the other person and do it all over again to solve the problem; or you can get angry and reiterate your "rules" over and over again, asking others to follow your own "rules".

Therefore: these three constellations are the most likely to "sulk", the most likely to have "obsessive-compulsive disorder", and the most likely to have problems such as "rhinitis, pharyngitis "!

The reason is also very simple, that is: their "rules" not only make them believe that "the best way to punish others is not to give them a good look after teaching them a lesson"; but also make them feel that "if they don't abide by it" People who behave themselves will only delay themselves by being with her! "

So: their "pressure" will make them moody; their pressure will also make them become more and more homebound, and they want to be more and more isolated from the crowd!

Gemini, Aquarius , Sagittarius: "Repetition, boring, not interested" = "pressure"

These three constellations, the most important thing is their own "feeling", so: many times, "repetition, boring" is The biggest pressure on their hearts.

Ever since they were children, they have not believed that they must like “what adults like”.

And "what adults want them to do", they will also think "it's none of my business"!

So: When meeting children with these three zodiac signs, adults will generally feel, "Why is my child so disobedient, and I can't even talk to her!"

The reason is because: these three zodiac signs are "not interested in them. Things you “don’t want to do” will create huge pressure in an instant, and will also create a strong “confrontation consciousness” in yourself.

Therefore: Basically, they will not "what they like" because of "what others like"; nor will they compromise because of "life needs" and let themselves do things they don't want to do.

Therefore: it is difficult for them to stay in one company for too long at work; once their relationship feels "nothing fresh", they want to change.

together with the things they use, it is difficult to have more than a year.

The reason is very simple: their "aesthetic" metabolism will be particularly fast; their visual fatigue will also be particularly strong.

And once this kind of "fatigue" occurs, it will be a great pressure for them.

In addition: they also feel great "pressure" about "restrictions".

If you tell them too much about what they can and cannot do, it will give them a sense of "pressure."

If you tell them what the "rules" are in terms of behavior, they will also feel "impatient".

together: If they do something well today, and you tell them what they have to do tomorrow, they will feel "pressure" just thinking about it.

Because: they hope to appear according to their most ideal appearance every day; once they are "arranged" and under "pressure", it will make them extremely uncomfortable!

That is because "pressure" always comes from "fixed life"; and I yearn for "ideal life".

makes these three constellations the "most irresponsible, most unreliable, and scumbag" constellations on the list!

and above are the author’s analysis of where the “pressure” of different constellations comes from!

At the end of the article, thank you all for reading, and I look forward to your "attention, support" and "enthusiastic interaction"!

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